Do you find it is better to have anal sex on the first round?

SecretToyMan SecretToyMan
My wife and I find it easier to have anal on the first round due to my erection being harder. So I'll usually give her oral once or twice or even three times, then do anal, and wash up for some vaginal sex in the shower. If I try to do it on the second round (note, I can do it twice if I have done it the first round as well. The muscles are more relaxed for easier entry) without doing it the first round it is hard to get my cock in.
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I usually do it the first round for the same reason.
It doesn't matter which round I do anal.
Why Not? , TheirPet
2  (20%)
I never thought of this factor.
BobbiJay , Two Grand
2  (20%)
I don't do anal at all.
PeaceToTheMiddleEast
1  (10%)
Other
SubmissiveFeminist , Bignuf , potstickers , LavenderSkies , AmethystSmoke
5  (50%)
Total votes: 10
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07/23/2012
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SubmissiveFeminist SubmissiveFeminist
Honestly, I'd save anal until the last round, just so we can both thoroughly clean up and go to bed nice and clean.
07/23/2012
Bignuf Bignuf
Quote:
Originally posted by SecretToyMan
My wife and I find it easier to have anal on the first round due to my erection being harder. So I'll usually give her oral once or twice or even three times, then do anal, and wash up for some vaginal sex in the shower. If I try to do it on the ... More
WOW....interesting observation. However, for us, it is the opposite! I am really tight back there, and always have been. If hubby penetrates me anally right away (and sometimes he does....even just when having "wake up" sex), he IS going to cum....fast. He cannot control it. He say's he has given up trying to "make it last", because he just gets frustrated when he STILL cums in a minute or two. Thus, while IF he starts with anal, he KNOWS it is going to be a "short, fast event" and we can play later, the fact is WE usually start with oral, or vaginal play. LATER we move into anal play and then he can last for an hour or more. THAT is the kind of anal play I enjoy most....slow and long lasting!!!!
07/24/2012
Bignuf Bignuf
Quote:
Originally posted by SecretToyMan
My wife and I find it easier to have anal on the first round due to my erection being harder. So I'll usually give her oral once or twice or even three times, then do anal, and wash up for some vaginal sex in the shower. If I try to do it on the ... More
Mr. Bignuf here...have to add something to what wife just posted. I don't want to suggest anything medical, and never, ever do anything without your doctor involved, but there are SO many great meds out there now....Cialis, Viagra, Lavitra...etc, that you can pop AFTER you have had a good round of "regular" (natural erection) sex, that WILL make you rock hard again..and with an erection that can last for a LONG time (a good hour, in cases I am aware of), that even if you don't have any real "erectile dysfunction", you can blunt the effects of getting older (soft or less effective "later" erection) by using these substances. Just something worth mentioning to your doctor. I am glad I did!!!!
07/24/2012
LavenderSkies LavenderSkies
Quote:
Originally posted by SecretToyMan
My wife and I find it easier to have anal on the first round due to my erection being harder. So I'll usually give her oral once or twice or even three times, then do anal, and wash up for some vaginal sex in the shower. If I try to do it on the ... More
The last round, so things can stay sanitary
08/24/2012
Why Not? Why Not?
Doesn't matter too much to me, but anal usually makes for a nice finale.
08/24/2012
AmethystSmoke AmethystSmoke
Other. My guy is usually one and done. If we're doing anal, we do it after any PIV and toys for the finish.
08/24/2012
TheirPet TheirPet
I usually do Anal last just for cleanliness.
08/24/2012
Total posts: 8
Unique posters: 7