I wonder how many of us actually LIKE anal or just do it for our partners.
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Do you love anal or just do it for your partner?
05/07/2011
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Total Backdoor Betty here. One guy I dated thought I wanted it that way more often than he did.
05/07/2011
I like it, and I wouldn't do it for my partner if it wasn't an enjoyable experience for me also. With my first partner I was the one who wanted to try it. I had to talk him into it a bit and he didn't end up liking it as much as I did. My current bf was totally open to the idea, but again I was the one who brought it up. I would say we enjoy it about equally.
05/07/2011
Im into giving it a lot.
05/07/2011
My partner (male) isn't interested in trying. I (female) am not interested in trying with his penis--it's too big for my comfort.
05/07/2011
It doesn't get me off, per se, but I still really enjoy it. I think part of it s because my partner enjoys it, but also I like that it's naughty. I think I ask for it more than he does!
05/07/2011
i love it so i do it for both of us
05/07/2011
I love anal and my bf was super excited that I was into naughty stuff.
05/07/2011
Love anal and I do it cause I want to and am single!
05/07/2011
I love it. I used to hate it, but here lately I've been on an anal kick!
05/07/2011
Yeah, I enjoy it.
05/08/2011
I enjoy it, but I also do because he likes.
05/12/2011
I love pegging, so...
05/12/2011
I like anal, and I like doing it with him!
05/12/2011
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I love it. He loves it. We both love it. Hell, I ask for it.
Originally posted by
daniel and frances
I wonder how many of us actually LIKE anal or just do it for our partners.
05/12/2011
We both love giving and receiving.
05/12/2011
We both like it very much, it started out slow but.
06/04/2011
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I like anal now but it wasn't always that way. It used to be a limit for me but Anakin gradually got me into it because he likes it with me. I used to do it just for him but have learned to enjoy it and is for both of us now.
Originally posted by
daniel and frances
I wonder how many of us actually LIKE anal or just do it for our partners.
06/04/2011
I love anal sex, both to get it and give it, pegging my b/f. I probably want it more often but my guy has never said "no".
I love it when he chooses a harness and dil for me to peg him. I can now usually orgasm before him.
I love it when he chooses a harness and dil for me to peg him. I can now usually orgasm before him.
06/04/2011
Love it and he loves giving it to me
06/04/2011
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Since anal was always gentle and done well (all gain, no pain...LOTS of lube and slow), I love it. In fact, I honestly can 1. Have orgasm JUST from anal...really. 2. Along with clit play, my orgasms are twice as intense with anal as any normally, and 3. If I have a small plug anally, when being penetrated vaginally, I get a "different" kind of POWERFUL orgasm too. It is ALL great.
Originally posted by
daniel and frances
I wonder how many of us actually LIKE anal or just do it for our partners.
06/08/2011
I will try to keep this short. My wife does not like anal sex. At times I will play with a finger or tongue (right after bathing) for added stimulation on her anus, and she does enjoy that most of the time. For a few years I have asked if anal was something she was willing to try with me. We have had several attempts, with one full session. That time she was relaxed from a few glasses of wine and we were out of town, which seems to bring out her wilder side.
Anyway, it had been a long time, so I asked again a few weeks ago. She seemed frustrated, and I thought that was the end of it. Well, this week after a nice orgasm for her, she asked me if I wanted to. She does not want to do a lot of prep, because she is just doing it for me. I did a little to try to get her ready. It was quick, I was already quite turned on, and I knew she wanted me to finish. As in the past, she gets a puzzled look and asks, "was it that great?" I thanked her for sharing and said I enjoyed it.
I just want to know for those of you who say you did not like it or hated it, how did you get to where you love it now? I know I can't make my wife like it, but it isn't all that enjoyable to me when I can feel she is not relaxed and is not trying to achieve any pleasure. What changed for you? Thanks.
Anyway, it had been a long time, so I asked again a few weeks ago. She seemed frustrated, and I thought that was the end of it. Well, this week after a nice orgasm for her, she asked me if I wanted to. She does not want to do a lot of prep, because she is just doing it for me. I did a little to try to get her ready. It was quick, I was already quite turned on, and I knew she wanted me to finish. As in the past, she gets a puzzled look and asks, "was it that great?" I thanked her for sharing and said I enjoyed it.
I just want to know for those of you who say you did not like it or hated it, how did you get to where you love it now? I know I can't make my wife like it, but it isn't all that enjoyable to me when I can feel she is not relaxed and is not trying to achieve any pleasure. What changed for you? Thanks.
06/10/2011
i love it
06/10/2011
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The first few times My Man suggested it, I was like, "Are you crazy?" LOL! However, now we do it a lot, and we both love it.
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EastCoast36
I will try to keep this short. My wife does not like anal sex. At times I will play with a finger or tongue (right after bathing) for added stimulation on her anus, and she does enjoy that most of the time. For a few years I have asked if anal was
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I will try to keep this short. My wife does not like anal sex. At times I will play with a finger or tongue (right after bathing) for added stimulation on her anus, and she does enjoy that most of the time. For a few years I have asked if anal was something she was willing to try with me. We have had several attempts, with one full session. That time she was relaxed from a few glasses of wine and we were out of town, which seems to bring out her wilder side.
Anyway, it had been a long time, so I asked again a few weeks ago. She seemed frustrated, and I thought that was the end of it. Well, this week after a nice orgasm for her, she asked me if I wanted to. She does not want to do a lot of prep, because she is just doing it for me. I did a little to try to get her ready. It was quick, I was already quite turned on, and I knew she wanted me to finish. As in the past, she gets a puzzled look and asks, "was it that great?" I thanked her for sharing and said I enjoyed it.
I just want to know for those of you who say you did not like it or hated it, how did you get to where you love it now? I know I can't make my wife like it, but it isn't all that enjoyable to me when I can feel she is not relaxed and is not trying to achieve any pleasure. What changed for you? Thanks. less
Anyway, it had been a long time, so I asked again a few weeks ago. She seemed frustrated, and I thought that was the end of it. Well, this week after a nice orgasm for her, she asked me if I wanted to. She does not want to do a lot of prep, because she is just doing it for me. I did a little to try to get her ready. It was quick, I was already quite turned on, and I knew she wanted me to finish. As in the past, she gets a puzzled look and asks, "was it that great?" I thanked her for sharing and said I enjoyed it.
I just want to know for those of you who say you did not like it or hated it, how did you get to where you love it now? I know I can't make my wife like it, but it isn't all that enjoyable to me when I can feel she is not relaxed and is not trying to achieve any pleasure. What changed for you? Thanks. less
He didn't do anything to "make" me like it, as you said. He did suggest that I use a vaginal dildo or insertable vibrator during anal sex, this is a feeling that most women are familiar with, and it really helped me enjoy the anal sex more. Also, the dil gets pushed into your G Spot and it is really fantastic. He always took it slow and easy, we use a lot of lube and I don't know why I like it, but I know it took him years to talk me into it. I have NO idea what I was afraid, of; he said I used to be afraid it would hurt too much or I'd tear. But, if you take it slow and don't push yourself, that won't happen.
I also found that I have to have a good orgasm before we begin anal sex, I can have anal play before an orgasm (in fact, I have become so sexualized to it, that it helps me orgasm most of the time) but for full anal intercourse, I have to have had an orgasm in the last hour or so.
I wish I had more information for you. I know I had fantasies about anal sex for a long time before I consented to it, and finally I thought, "What the heck? I'm thinking about it, why don't we do it?" Also, I found that watching anal porn helpful, that doesn't work for all women, though. I tend to be more "visual" than most women, so that worked for me, and still does.
06/11/2011
We both enjoy giving & receiving anal
06/11/2011
I do anal by myself with toys more than I do anal with him!
06/11/2011
I do anal because my fiancee loves it.
06/21/2011
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Yep! This.
Originally posted by
P'Gell
I love it. He loves it. We both love it. Hell, I ask for it.
06/21/2011
We don't do it because I HATE it.
06/21/2011
I LOVE it and I love that he loves it so it's a double whammy for me!
06/22/2011