I know I've said it before, but true, honest sexual relationships have NOTHING to do with "even-ness." What a couple does depends on what they like and what their dynamic is.
May I ask, to those who call for "fairness" (by insisting on "pegging" a guy who wants to try anal sex on his female partner) HOW do you make PIV intercourse "fair?" In a hetero relationship, what a man does during PIV is totally different than what the woman does, and their experiences are quite different. How do you make PIV sex "fair?" Let's say fellatio? Should your man be required to deep throat a dildo before you ever consider giving him head? Why not? (Because it's silly to consider the two things the same, and requiring certain actions "to make it fair" really erodes the give and take that good, mature sexual play requires.) What about cunnilingus? Should a girl be "required" to lick and eat a masturbator tube "to make it fair and see what it feels like" before her man give her head? (No, of course not, unless the couple WANTS to incorporate this into their sexual play.)
Sex isn't about "equal." "Fairness" isn't about one member of the couple performing the same exact action, "to see what it feels like" Good MATURE sexual relations are made by doing what feels good and making sure both members are satisfied in the end.
Not to mention that being pegged is really not much like receiving penile-anal sex. Two COMPLETELY different things. I seem to be hearing a lot of almost "revenge" from some of the people who think "he has to let me "do anal" on him with a dildo so he knows what it feels like" crowd.
Sex is about enjoyment. Not "getting even."
If you don't want to have anal sex, for heavens's sake, don't have it. If BOTH of you wan to peg, have a great time with it. But some of these attempts to "even things up" with the "lets see how HE likes it!" stuff just reeks of something other than loving relationships to me.
And, now, I'm going to shut up.