Do you think that if a guy wants to do anal on a girl it's only fair for him to let the girl peg him back?

not your average knitter not your average knitter
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Originally posted by shepegs
He will understand the plumbing much better.
*clap* bravo shepegs
04/11/2011
tickle me pink tickle me pink
I voted it's only fair, but that's just my excuse because I want to peg him so badly. It really depends on the couple, and no one should have to do something their uncomfortable with. Sex is supposed to be fun, after all.
04/11/2011
sassyNsensual sassyNsensual
I would tell him that just to see the reaction on his face....even though I know I could eventually convince him
04/11/2011
Diabolical Kitty Diabolical Kitty
I think it's only fair.
04/17/2011
alliegator alliegator
Maybe not pegging, but certainly he should at least have some experience with anal play, even if it is just solo masturbation, so he has a better 'lay of the land', so to say.
04/17/2011
P'Gell P'Gell
I know I've said it before, but true, honest sexual relationships have NOTHING to do with "even-ness." What a couple does depends on what they like and what their dynamic is.

May I ask, to those who call for "fairness" (by insisting on "pegging" a guy who wants to try anal sex on his female partner) HOW do you make PIV intercourse "fair?" In a hetero relationship, what a man does during PIV is totally different than what the woman does, and their experiences are quite different. How do you make PIV sex "fair?" Let's say fellatio? Should your man be required to deep throat a dildo before you ever consider giving him head? Why not? (Because it's silly to consider the two things the same, and requiring certain actions "to make it fair" really erodes the give and take that good, mature sexual play requires.) What about cunnilingus? Should a girl be "required" to lick and eat a masturbator tube "to make it fair and see what it feels like" before her man give her head? (No, of course not, unless the couple WANTS to incorporate this into their sexual play.)

Sex isn't about "equal." "Fairness" isn't about one member of the couple performing the same exact action, "to see what it feels like" Good MATURE sexual relations are made by doing what feels good and making sure both members are satisfied in the end.

Not to mention that being pegged is really not much like receiving penile-anal sex. Two COMPLETELY different things. I seem to be hearing a lot of almost "revenge" from some of the people who think "he has to let me "do anal" on him with a dildo so he knows what it feels like" crowd.

Sex is about enjoyment. Not "getting even."

If you don't want to have anal sex, for heavens's sake, don't have it. If BOTH of you wan to peg, have a great time with it. But some of these attempts to "even things up" with the "lets see how HE likes it!" stuff just reeks of something other than loving relationships to me.

And, now, I'm going to shut up.
04/18/2011
Brianna91 Brianna91
The only girls I've heard say this if the topic comes up are ones who are very against anal sex to begin with, and try to make it sound like everyone else should hate it just as much as they do. And it makes sense I guess if they don't or can't possibly see how some of us love anal, then for them it isn't about passion or desire or fullness or buttgasms, it is just their perception of if they themselves were to do it, and they'd hate it since they've already made their mind up to hate it and then want to "get back" at guys I guess since in their mind it is something that only guys are supposed to want.
04/25/2011
k3 k3
Fair is fair, teehee. ;P
05/05/2011
Eucaly Eucaly
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Originally posted by PonyPlay
If a guy want to do anal on a girl do you think he should let her do anal to him?
If it's only allowed one way, that isn't fair.
06/02/2011
ToyBoy ToyBoy
No one should owe their partner sexual favors! If both parties agree on something, its all good, but don't force something you they don't want.
06/03/2011
pinkpumpkin pinkpumpkin
i love it first of all. but i would never ever want to do that to my man. and he wouldnt want it. im happy letting him do it all to me.
06/04/2011
Howells Howells
Yeah why not. It's a totally valid question
06/04/2011
That Man from Mars That Man from Mars
I wouldn't allow my beloved to penetrate me. Our relationship dynamic doesn't work that way.

I will also agree that it depends entirely on comfort zones and the intricacies of the relationship at hand, genders irrelevant.
06/04/2011
CAKES CAKES
I personally love anal, but I don't expect my man to feel the same about receiving it. He is hesitant to try it on himself even though he would probably love it. I won't let him do anything that I don't want to do, and I wouldn't expect him to do anything that he is uncomfortable with either.
06/05/2011
Wondermom Wondermom
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Originally posted by Kayla
There's no "should" in this case. That's how uncomfortable relationships start. If the person is comfortable with it, then yes, it could be done. But if the person is uncomfortable, there should be no pressure to do it. Same to be ... More
this, noone should do what they don't want to or are uncomfortable doing
06/16/2011
Bignuf Bignuf
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Originally posted by PonyPlay
If a guy want to do anal on a girl do you think he should let her do anal to him?
The question is put as if it were tit for tat punishment. I think it is BOTH can ENJOY it!!!
06/20/2011
lanky lanky
if thats what the relationship calls for, go for it
07/08/2011
Beck Beck
i think if hes the one who brought up the idea then yes sure he best be ready for at least a finger. but if she came up with the idea then thats what she wanted and no reason he should have to.
07/13/2011
TitsMcScandal TitsMcScandal
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Originally posted by Kayla
There's no "should" in this case. That's how uncomfortable relationships start. If the person is comfortable with it, then yes, it could be done. But if the person is uncomfortable, there should be no pressure to do it. Same to be ... More
100% agree. Should is something that is improper to talk in terms of sex and relationships.
09/06/2011
Screen Door Screen Door
I am lucky enough to have a guy who will let me peg him. We haven't yet but in the near future ^^
09/06/2011
JRabbits JRabbits
No, what are we? In pre-k?
09/06/2011
PuddlePuppy PuddlePuppy
The first time I wanted to do anal with my girlfriend I was a young teen, she said she would let me if she got to fuck me with a comb handle, I thought it was really weird at first.
Seemed only fair though.
Square comb handles hurt a lot at first.
09/07/2011
DashO'Roark DashO'Roark
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Originally posted by PonyPlay
If a guy want to do anal on a girl do you think he should let her do anal to him?
What's good for the Goose...
09/14/2011
Dawn (Lilac Distraction) Dawn (Lilac Distraction)
My personal philosophy:

"No guy is doing me in the ass if I can't do the same to him."
09/15/2011
Wildchild Wildchild
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Originally posted by PonyPlay
If a guy want to do anal on a girl do you think he should let her do anal to him?
My exwife had this thought too!
09/15/2011
DaddyG DaddyG
Quote:
Originally posted by PonyPlay
If a guy want to do anal on a girl do you think he should let her do anal to him?
I go with fair is fair. Its all about pleasure and experimenting right?

So you try it for her she likes it then you try it for him he likes it, or one does the other doesent. Like i say "keep your mind OPEN and you might surprise yourself"
09/15/2011
SparklingReviews SparklingReviews
I think it all depends on the comfort level of your relationship. Nothing should be expected... if both parties are comfortable with exploring anal sex go for it
09/15/2011
frisky069 frisky069
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Originally posted by PonyPlay
If a guy want to do anal on a girl do you think he should let her do anal to him?
to me it doesn't matter, i honestly wouldn't like to do anal on my guy to be honest, and some guys are completely weird about that situation, i've never brought it up to my guy and wouldn't enjoy doing it either, now on the other hand, i enjoy anal, and let my guy do it alot.
09/16/2011
Love Perpetua Love Perpetua
Only if the guy is pressuring and won't let up about it. My ex used to pressure me for anal and I wasn't really interested because he had a really big penis but thought it would be no big deal to just put it there (and vaginal sex was already a STRETCH that required tons of lube and warming up, so anal at that time was a no go for me). I finally said, if you let me put something that big up your butt, I'll be fine with you trying the same to me. He then shut up until we worked up to it naturally.
09/17/2011
x203 x203
no one should have to do anything
03/04/2012
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