Do you think that if a guy wants to do anal on a girl it's only fair for him to let the girl peg him back?

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Do you think that if a guy wants to do anal on a girl it's only fair for him to let the girl peg him back?

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Men who have been pegged or anally stimulated are more considerate. I think that if a man wants to give anal sex and a woman wants to give anal sex then they should both get it or neither.
02/10/2013
babycin babycin
This topic came up and I was curious about it but she was not. The deal was if she could do it to me, then she would consider it as well. I tried it and loved it, but she still wasn't convinced so only I partake in it now. I don't push the subject because I don't feel that there should be any pressure to try something new for someone else. All I can do is show how much I enjoy it and see if she ever changes her mind to give it a go.
02/21/2013
twelve13 twelve13
No way. I think the male should only do anal with the woman if they BOTH want anal. And the woman should peg the male if they BOTH want him to be pegged. This also implies that anal is just an act that should just be tolerated by women. However, many women (and men) love it. But it's fine if they don't, too. Just like some men and women love pegging. But it's fine if they don't.

Related example. If a woman wanted her guy to perform oral on her (and he liked doing so), the woman shouldn't feel a need to perform oral on him afterwards if she didn't want to (even if he enjoyed it). No one should feel obligated to do things sexually with their partner(s).
02/23/2013
travelnurse travelnurse
Only what a person wants to do, It is not good other wize
02/25/2013
StarrStacked StarrStacked
Quote:
Originally posted by PonyPlay
If a guy want to do anal on a girl do you think he should let her do anal to him?
I wouldn't force anyone to do something they weren't completely comfortable with trying.
03/02/2013
chicmichiw chicmichiw
I don't personally have an interest in pegging, but it's whatever works for your relationship dynamic
03/02/2013
jjdd jjdd
I don't think anyone is ever obligated to do anything. If he wants to give but not receive, that is his right. But, if she doesn't want to receive, that is her right too. However, I do think that if a man wants someone to take it up the ass, he is obligated to at least educate himself about what it will feel like for his partner. He can do that through reading, experimenting with himself, whatever. But he shouldn't ask his partner to do something he doesn't understand.
03/16/2013
bootyscoops bootyscoops
As long as everyone has a good time and no one gets hurt, things are ok in my opinion! So if she doesn't want to take it in the butt and he does, and that works for them, good!
The idea of someone receiving out of a sense of obligation is really off to me. My boy has offered to try pegging and has experimented with some anal before but he's really not that into it and only does it because I like it, and it feels so weird and uncomfortable for me.
03/17/2013
mdnght mdnght
Hey, so long as everyone's happy (and not just suffering through because they've been pressured into it), then I don't care.
03/17/2013
Zingy Zingy
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Originally posted by Kayla
There's no "should" in this case. That's how uncomfortable relationships start. If the person is comfortable with it, then yes, it could be done. But if the person is uncomfortable, there should be no pressure to do it. Same to be ...
^this. It's obvious to me that there should be no pressure or expectations to do what is outside the comfort zone (unless it is to try something new, in which case both partners should take it easy and have open communication on what is/is not working)
03/25/2013
kaylajoy89 kaylajoy89
i wish my boyfriend would let me
04/02/2013
CE CE
I agree with others here that there should be no forcing or making someone uncomfortable doing something. Sex isnt 'tit for tat' and I hate when women (usually anti-anal) say 'Let me do it to you first!' Sex shouldn't resemble childish games.

The best lovers are those with open minds who strive to please their partner. Any new activity can be discussed to see what works for both people. The above 'only if I get to do it to you too!' is more done out of spite or revenge or something, not out of a genuine desire to penetrate her man. If a woman does get turned on by the thought of pegging she should approach her partner and see how he feels and then go from there, taking small steps if need be. Which is exactly how men should approach women about engaging in anal sex.

If both partners main goal is to please the other, then the sky is the limit for sexual exploration and pleasure.
04/05/2013
dancingduo dancingduo
Quote:
Originally posted by PonyPlay
If a guy want to do anal on a girl do you think he should let her do anal to him?
The guy shouldn't HAVE to. I think he should...somethings are one sided...but she can always counteroffer!
05/13/2013
Jennifer87 Jennifer87
I'm married and my husband has done anal sex with me but he only ever gives, but I think he would be up for a rim job and maybe even a finger or 2 in there. But he knows I love to get anal sex so I don't bother him about me doing anything to him anally..
05/14/2013
wicked48 wicked48
It's a matter of personal preference and they need to respect their partners decision on the subject.
05/18/2013
SeductivelyCute SeductivelyCute
I used to think that way. I think they should come to what ever is right in their relationship. If he wants to take it and she wants to give it, hey go for it.
05/18/2013
Pierced Blaqk Skies Pierced Blaqk Skies
Quote:
Originally posted by PonyPlay
If a guy want to do anal on a girl do you think he should let her do anal to him?
My partner is very against any butt play on his cute little butt but he seems semi-curious about my behind though he's very softspoken about his wants. I want to peg him though! I would like mutual anal but for now, I'll take what I can get.
06/13/2013
JADE76 JADE76
Quote:
Originally posted by PonyPlay
If a guy want to do anal on a girl do you think he should let her do anal to him?
lol yes and i have done that to my fiance
06/17/2013
surreptitious surreptitious
Quote:
Originally posted by PonyPlay
If a guy want to do anal on a girl do you think he should let her do anal to him?
I don't think that things should function specifically on a "fair" basis, however if a guy reacts with something along the lines of "ew, that's disgusting and I'd never consider it" when a girl counters his suggestion of anal with pegging, then he deserves a smack upside the head.
06/17/2013
mailroomorder mailroomorder
Quote:
Originally posted by PonyPlay
If a guy want to do anal on a girl do you think he should let her do anal to him?
I think if the girl wants to do it back then the guy should be receptive, yes.
06/24/2013
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