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My partner and I are looking to get into anal sex without condoms. That said, I want to aim for being as clean as I can be. So, I've decided to purchase a douching system. With quite a few on Eden, does it really matter which one to buy? Are
My partner and I are looking to get into anal sex without condoms. That said, I want to aim for being as clean as I can be. So, I've decided to purchase a douching system. With quite a few on Eden, does it really matter which one to buy? Are there safety precautions I need to take when douching? I need a 101 class!
Okay, here is MY scoop, and I know many here will differ. I have done anal for four decades now, with prior boyfriends and then my hubby for over 35 years. We do it VERY regularly (3-4 times a week, on average), and have NEVER, EVER used a condom and have NEVER EVER used a douch or enema of any kind. Period.
If you have had a recent bowel movement and don't have to "go" then your rectum and the lower part of your large intestine is probably pretty empty. A healthy rectum and anus are pretty well free of solid material.
In all that time and all that anal play, we have NEVER had him come out with any "visible" soil-age. NOT ONCE, not ever. We DO shower and use a soapy finger in the rear before sex, often, as we enjoy licking and tonguing back there (rimming). It is very sensual and erotic. I also finger his prostate most times when doing oral and again, NEVER an issue with "soiling".
Having said all that, I CAN tell you we have friends who are into anal who HAVE used enema's to be clean, and 1. It stirs up more then it cleans up, and they HAVE had "the runs" or issues of unexpected "squirts" of brown water during anal. Sorry...not for us. 2. THEY have had some issues, after years of this, with their colon's. WE have not. There is a protective mucus lining in the rectum and intestine and I am sure you disrupt the heck out of this with a douche.
I know there are people here that do SHALLOW rectal squirts of saline or just warm water, with a bulb and nozzle, or with a refilled enema bottle (like FLEETS, but without the Fleets chemicals), and they say they feel cleaner that way. However, again, I would tread carefully there.
If you are worried about GERMS, I assure you, a bit of saline or warm water is NOT, NOT, NOT going to change the germs in your colon. If you are worried about soiling him, well, if you are healthy and have no need to have a bowel movement, then your rectum is pretty darn empty!
That is MY take. Be careful and ENJOY.