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DP curiosity :)

Vnessa Vnessa
Hello my Eden Lovelies!! Oh how I've missed you since I've been out of the country!!! Serious withdraw here

OK, down to business. I want to play with DP, but I'm curious, what is the most pleasurable way to dabble?? I (being a girl) would be the receiver of all this goodness (mm hmm, yayy friggin ME!) SO, is it better to use a smaller dildo in the anus and then take my husband vaginally? Or reverse?

What do you other Fun Loving participants do .
04/02/2015
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Rossie Rossie
No more Tequilas?

My DP play is just a plug in my butt while taking my hubby vaginally — I know, I'm boring! You can try both of the methods you've mentioned and see which one you enjoy more.
04/02/2015
Vnessa Vnessa
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Originally posted by Rossie
No more Tequilas?

My DP play is just a plug in my butt while taking my hubby vaginally — I know, I'm boring! You can try both of the methods you've mentioned and see which one you enjoy more.
Hey, Luv!! No more Tequila... No more Dos Equis lol. I'm back in the states now . My Spanglish was getting me in trouble so it was time to head back

I can definitely try your way. Its not boring at all. Mine is boring...cuz it doesn't exist yet--Ha! But this little bronzed mami` is about to shake things up a bit
04/02/2015
Inquisitor Inquisitor
I've also used the toy and natural equipment to satisfy. I'd like to use 2 dildos or 1 dildo and a vibe while I go down. I think that might feel interesting. Any suggestions for exact dildos and/or vibes combinations to use would be greatly appreciated.
04/02/2015
Rossie Rossie
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Originally posted by Vnessa
Hey, Luv!! No more Tequila... No more Dos Equis lol. I'm back in the states now . My Spanglish was getting me in trouble so it was time to head back

I can definitely try your way. Its not boring at all. Mine is boring...cuz it ...
Do you have any of the njoy Pure Plugs? That would be a good way to start DP, and I'm sure both you and your hubby will love it!
04/03/2015
Rossie Rossie
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Originally posted by Inquisitor
I've also used the toy and natural equipment to satisfy. I'd like to use 2 dildos or 1 dildo and a vibe while I go down. I think that might feel interesting. Any suggestions for exact dildos and/or vibes combinations to use would be greatly ...
My logic tells me a slim dual-density dildo such as the Dual Density No. 5 would be a good choice for DP because it's squishy on the outside, but has a firm core. It's already tight down there since the penis has already filled one hole, so you'd need extra effort to push a dildo into the other cavity. Therefore, a soft dildo with a firm core should be ideal for the job.
04/03/2015
symbiasin symbiasin
One of my favorite toys is the Eden intense play veined vibrator.A person can play with it with the vibes turned on or of....it's extra long, reaches the 'a' spot with ease and doesn't look like a penis but FEELS like one and it's bendable everywhere except for the plastic on the bottom. That could be squished in there and feel like the real thing. I thank myself every day that I did not throw it out just because the vibrator broke. It is pretty wide though although you may be able to squish it in...it's 1-1/2 " wide, 9 " long.
04/03/2015
Vnessa Vnessa
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Originally posted by Rossie
Do you have any of the njoy Pure Plugs? That would be a good way to start DP, and I'm sure both you and your hubby will love it!
No enjoys yet but I REALLY want one! I've been waiting to see if any of the mediums ever come back in stock but I'm starting to think that Eden may not be restocking. I will probably have to buy direct and miss out on the points

I like the idea of the Dual Density also. Something like that will give me the double "stroke" sensation I'm looking to experience
04/04/2015
The-IT-Guy-And-My-Secretary The-IT-Guy-And-My-Secretary
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Originally posted by Vnessa
Hello my Eden Lovelies!! Oh how I've missed you since I've been out of the country!!! Serious withdraw here

OK, down to business. I want to play with DP, but I'm curious, what is the most pleasurable way to dabble?? I (being a ...
Ok heres what we do, we bought a glass plug tear dropped shape in glass. This way it is smooth and needs little lube for a long time of play. Usually what she likes is that plug in during doggy style sex and what I do is I put my thumb on the base of the toy and thrust it while I thrust myself. I also enjoy going down on her while doing the same. We have also introduced a bullet vibe while doing that doggy style. The first time we did that she came so hard she pulled a muscle LMAO!!!!

Now I also have to put in here that we came across a sexual education show on TV where they were talking about prostate massage. So she tried the oral with the toy and made a motion to rub the toy against my prostate.

Now to give you an idea, I was drunk... I wasn't into any of the anal scene like most guys... and this was before kids on a Sunday so we literally spent the whole day having sex since we woke up other than eating and watching tv in bed. After having three or four orgasms that day she decides to give it a shot. Usually after 3/4 rounds and having a few drinks I am done for a while...

I am here to tell you I came so hard I was embarrassed. I was completely shocked I couldn't believe it. I came so hard I was actually sore. So if you buy the toy and you eventually get your man to submit enough... You may find that he likes it just as much as you do.

Enjoy!
04/07/2015
Vnessa Vnessa
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Originally posted by The-IT-Guy-And-My-Secretary
Ok heres what we do, we bought a glass plug tear dropped shape in glass. This way it is smooth and needs little lube for a long time of play. Usually what she likes is that plug in during doggy style sex and what I do is I put my thumb on the base of ...
You and The Secretary really need to write a Tell All . I know I'm not the only one that would buy it .
04/07/2015
The-IT-Guy-And-My-Secretary The-IT-Guy-And-My-Secretary
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Originally posted by Vnessa
You and The Secretary really need to write a Tell All . I know I'm not the only one that would buy it .
LOL you are such a sweetie!

Oh and btw.... I mean less of a "Thrust" and more of a pulse with both of us. If you gently push the toy with your thumb your body will accept it then move it back just match your body's give and take. No need to thrust it. You see all of these porn movies with people thrusting all sorts of crazy things in there when all you need is literally a massage of the area. The more gentile you are the over all better it feels and gets you to a better orgasm sooner.

Same thing with a guy, I had to teach my wife this and it took her a while. Some guys want to cum right away as soon as they can. When you start controlling your "O" you will start to realize that SLOW sex makes you cum the hardest. Why? Because you build up to the point that you burst.

She used to think riding me like a mad woman was hot... (Don't get me wrong it is but not all the time) BUT really slow, and I mean barely moving sex is the best. That is the pull a muscle sex (Literally... I have had my calf muscles lock up multiple times). Whats really hot is going at it slowly until you simply cant take it anymore then going as hard as you can go until you cum.

I may have to bust that out a bit later LOL... You've got me thinking naughty thoughts!

Oh and BTW... the plug I am speaking of is reviewed on my page. Unfortunately Eden does not carry the exact plug anymore but they do sell something similar not made by Pipe Dreams. Its cheap and SO worth it!
04/07/2015
Vnessa Vnessa
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Originally posted by The-IT-Guy-And-My-Secretary
LOL you are such a sweetie!

Oh and btw.... I mean less of a "Thrust" and more of a pulse with both of us. If you gently push the toy with your thumb your body will accept it then move it back just match your body's give and ...


We're working on that controlled O thing . The slow approach is my fave. When I'm "working" (so to speak lol) that's the way I'm getting it done. You can feel everything, every groove and vein almost! I like that!! Its kind of my play time. Unless, of course, something raw and uncontrolled has taken over us. Then that's a different game

I will have to see what you are talking about. I ordered an Enjoy so that should arrive in about a week.

Is the feeling much different for you when your wife is wearing a plug? Better...just OK??
04/07/2015
The-IT-Guy-And-My-Secretary The-IT-Guy-And-My-Secretary
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Originally posted by Vnessa


We're working on that controlled O thing . The slow approach is my fave. When I'm "working" (so to speak lol) that's the way I'm getting it done. You can feel everything, every groove and vein almost! I like that!! ...
She is tighter but obviously that's because there is something right next to me that is taking up space. I like how it feels and truthfully its amazingly tight when she has an orgasm because when her body contracts from the orgasm she gets super tight from the toy being there.

It definitely adds something to the experience.
04/07/2015
The-IT-Guy-And-My-Secretary The-IT-Guy-And-My-Secretary
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Originally posted by Vnessa


We're working on that controlled O thing . The slow approach is my fave. When I'm "working" (so to speak lol) that's the way I'm getting it done. You can feel everything, every groove and vein almost! I like that!! ...
The other thing to keep in mind is if you like anal... If you put that in during round one and keep it in until round two your body will be relaxed enough for you to take the toy out and be able to accept him there also. Your muscles relax and get used to something being there so when you do decide to go that way you aren't having to fight your body to accept him there. Plus that if you start vaginally hes already lubed up from you and the toy should be used with lube so your all ready to go from there.
04/07/2015
Vnessa Vnessa
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Originally posted by The-IT-Guy-And-My-Secretary
The other thing to keep in mind is if you like anal... If you put that in during round one and keep it in until round two your body will be relaxed enough for you to take the toy out and be able to accept him there also. Your muscles relax and get ...
All very good points . Now I'm wishing there was another 'movie date' so I can experiment!!! I'm dying now lol. Curiosity very well may kill me.
04/07/2015
Inquisitor Inquisitor
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Originally posted by Vnessa
You and The Secretary really need to write a Tell All . I know I'm not the only one that would buy it .
I would also buy it. I can learn so much from you two.
04/07/2015
Inquisitor Inquisitor
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Originally posted by The-IT-Guy-And-My-Secretary
The other thing to keep in mind is if you like anal... If you put that in during round one and keep it in until round two your body will be relaxed enough for you to take the toy out and be able to accept him there also. Your muscles relax and get ...
I agree with all that you have said, however, I don't penetrate my partner anally. Instead I use a black medium sized Tantus Silk dildo. Both Men and Women really should try an orgasm with a plug inside them. The orgasm is breathtaking!
04/07/2015
Rossie Rossie
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Originally posted by Inquisitor
I agree with all that you have said, however, I don't penetrate my partner anally. Instead I use a black medium sized Tantus Silk dildo. Both Men and Women really should try an orgasm with a plug inside them. The orgasm is breathtaking!
I totally agree!
04/07/2015
The-IT-Guy-And-My-Secretary The-IT-Guy-And-My-Secretary
Quote:
Originally posted by Inquisitor
I agree with all that you have said, however, I don't penetrate my partner anally. Instead I use a black medium sized Tantus Silk dildo. Both Men and Women really should try an orgasm with a plug inside them. The orgasm is breathtaking!
^ yep yep yep! It sure is!
04/07/2015
The-IT-Guy-And-My-Secretary The-IT-Guy-And-My-Secretary
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Originally posted by Inquisitor
I would also buy it. I can learn so much from you two.
I told her that she said that sounds like fun! LOL! Thanks!
04/07/2015
Gunsmoke Gunsmoke
DP with my wife was a fantasy of mine for a very long time - but 1st had to get her to accept anal sex. After about 6 months of having anal sex regularly she got to the point that I think she likes it more than me!

One thing to enhance anal sex was when we discovered 'shooters'. Although I haven't seen them of EF, you can buy them at various Amazon affiliates. I melt a little coconut oil, fill the syringe and let it re-gel. It works wonders to have the lubricant deeper inside where a penis or dildo would be.

Back to DP - when she was ready to give it a try, I enter her anally, let her adjust to the point that slow thrusting is comfortable, then slip in a small to medium size dildo into her vagina. No harnesses or contraptions.

When I'm thrusting - the dildo will generally move with me.

We've also tried the opposite scenario, however she prefers me in her ass - and that suits me fine!
04/08/2015
Vnessa Vnessa
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Originally posted by Gunsmoke
DP with my wife was a fantasy of mine for a very long time - but 1st had to get her to accept anal sex. After about 6 months of having anal sex regularly she got to the point that I think she likes it more than me!

One thing to enhance anal ...
Shooters, huh Very interesting. There's my something new for the day!

Thank you for sharing! It helps getting so many view points and ideas when you haven't actually tried something yet.
04/08/2015
Inquisitor Inquisitor
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Originally posted by Gunsmoke
DP with my wife was a fantasy of mine for a very long time - but 1st had to get her to accept anal sex. After about 6 months of having anal sex regularly she got to the point that I think she likes it more than me!

One thing to enhance anal ...
Are you referring to Lube syringes Gunsmoke?
04/09/2015
Gunsmoke Gunsmoke
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Originally posted by Inquisitor
Are you referring to Lube syringes Gunsmoke?
Yes - they are quite useful.
04/09/2015
Inquisitor Inquisitor
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Originally posted by Gunsmoke
Yes - they are quite useful.
LOL! Just to be clear, I'm not laughing at you Gunsmoke or anyone who uses these. I'm laughing at me. Long story that I wont get into and it probably has nothing to do with what you may be thinking of but I use to play with those as a kid!

Yes, these are very useful.
04/12/2015
OH&W, Lovebears OH&W, Lovebears
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Originally posted by Inquisitor
LOL! Just to be clear, I'm not laughing at you Gunsmoke or anyone who uses these. I'm laughing at me. Long story that I wont get into and it probably has nothing to do with what you may be thinking of but I use to play with those as a ...
Are you implying you found some in your parents bathroom?

Did you use them as squirt guns ? Or did you play doctor with them and give shots ?
04/15/2015
Vnessa Vnessa
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Originally posted by OH&W, Lovebears
Are you implying you found some in your parents bathroom?

Did you use them as squirt guns ? Or did you play doctor with them and give shots ?
This reminds me of the time I found this ENORMOUS body massager that looked like a 12" long vibrator in our family linen closet. Now that I'm older I'm a bit traumatized lol. I can't help but wonder why it wasn't placed somewhere else lol. WE all know it wasn't just for muscles lol
04/15/2015
Inquisitor Inquisitor
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Originally posted by OH&W, Lovebears
Are you implying you found some in your parents bathroom?

Did you use them as squirt guns ? Or did you play doctor with them and give shots ?
I did use them as squirt guns! My mom told me what they were and why they were used but I didn't really put it together. Being in the pharmaceutical field I'd see all sorts of stuff.

I think I even gave a few of my teddy bears at the time shots, in their arms, with them. It's funny to me now because the use has changed from a "toy" to something else entirely.
04/16/2015
MrClark MrClark
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Originally posted by Inquisitor
I did use them as squirt guns! My mom told me what they were and why they were used but I didn't really put it together. Being in the pharmaceutical field I'd see all sorts of stuff.

I think I even gave a few of my teddy bears at the ...
I'll admit this gave me a good chuckle. I definitely use these with my partner, but never occurred to me what kids would make of these if they came across them.

On topic, I actually eased my current girlfriend into anal through a lot of DP play. We used toys similar to the Candy Rimmer Kit where the plug had a finger hole and could easily be inserted/removed while we had sex. The set we had were smaller than these as I wanted to start her off very slow as she was apprehensive but open to trying. We do have a larger set of more traditional silicone plugs that are similar in size to these which I moved her up to eventually.

Honestly, our favorite has been Flexi Felix inserted while we have sex. The beads offer an interesting sensation for both of us.

We've occasionally used a simple vibrator anally while she rode me, which adds something when the vibrations are working. It's also interesting to be able to fill the vibrator rubbing against me while I move it in and out. We tried using the same vibrator vaginally while she rode me reverse cowgirl; however, the angle/size of toy/her size resulted in it being too much... Hoping to try again with potentially a smaller toy or different position in the future.

But think the key thing is don't rush and communicate with your partner to find out what works best for both of you. And most of all enjoy yourselves
Apr 30, 5:00 pm
DancerKittyKat DancerKittyKat
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Originally posted by Inquisitor
I did use them as squirt guns! My mom told me what they were and why they were used but I didn't really put it together. Being in the pharmaceutical field I'd see all sorts of stuff.

I think I even gave a few of my teddy bears at the ...
This is hilarious! The only vaguely sexual thing I found that belonged to my parents was lube. Nothing as exciting as "squirt guns." Haha! I haven't tried DP with a partner, but I have used toys. I prefer similar sized toys in my ass and pussy. I find that if I want to penetrate vaginally and anally, it is easiest to have similarly-sized, slim toys.
Apr 30, 9:25 pm
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