I've heard that some people can't have orgasms through anal and then there are some that can only have them exclusively through anal.
How easy is it to achieve an orgasm analy?
12/31/2011
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I have orgasms during anal, if this doesn't work for you maybe try out anal along with different types of stimulation.
Interesting question : )
Interesting question : )
12/31/2011
I'd think those who can have an orgasm through anal only would be in the minority.
With anal orgasms/anally triggered orgasms (they seem to be qualitatively different, and I was going to research this but haven't had the time) practice helps. It took me many years before I could have an anally triggered/prostate orgasm, but once I had the first couple it became much easier. It helps at first to get yourself "close" with genital stimulation, find out what gives you the "best" anal stimulation, and then kind of "edge" yourself for a while until the anal play kicks you over to orgasm. Eventually you might be able to reduce the amount of genital stimulation you need.
For a guy (not sure who's going to be having the anal play here...) bringing the prostate into play helps, for a girl it's less of a "point" for stimulation, more of a general thing.
With anal orgasms/anally triggered orgasms (they seem to be qualitatively different, and I was going to research this but haven't had the time) practice helps. It took me many years before I could have an anally triggered/prostate orgasm, but once I had the first couple it became much easier. It helps at first to get yourself "close" with genital stimulation, find out what gives you the "best" anal stimulation, and then kind of "edge" yourself for a while until the anal play kicks you over to orgasm. Eventually you might be able to reduce the amount of genital stimulation you need.
For a guy (not sure who's going to be having the anal play here...) bringing the prostate into play helps, for a girl it's less of a "point" for stimulation, more of a general thing.
12/31/2011
It's easy to get overstimulated to the point of discomfort ... or at least it is for me. That said, the brain is strongly involved in sexual response so if you pay attention to what your body is telling you, you can "learn" an orgasm. This is why I think you should start off experimenting with/on yourself before involving a partner. That way you can stay in complete control of the experience.
What ScottA said above is also important for us guys. You do have to learn where the best feelings are located and how to stimulate those locations.
What ScottA said above is also important for us guys. You do have to learn where the best feelings are located and how to stimulate those locations.
01/01/2012
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I have had purely anal orgasms before. No touching of the clit or anything, but almost always, he is rubbing, touching and penetrating all my parts at once, so who knows which triggers are in play. All feels great.
Originally posted by
cmm
I've heard that some people can't have orgasms through anal and then there are some that can only have them exclusively through anal.
Now, when I am fingering HIM, I can make him have an orgasm in under a minute if I want to. I know exactly how to rub his prostate in a way that just sends him over the edge. However I prefer to do it slowly, as part of oral sex and tease him for as long as a can before sending him into space and getting my little "love drink" reward. He is often SO sensitive after me playing with his prostate that I cannot keep him in my mouth and milk out ever last drop, the way I usually enjoy doing!!!!!
01/02/2012
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I have never NOT had an orgasm while my hubby is doing me anally, however "exclusively from anal"? No other way? Never heard of that issue.
Originally posted by
Katelyn
I have orgasms during anal, if this doesn't work for you maybe try out anal along with different types of stimulation.
Interesting question : )
Interesting question : )
01/02/2012
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As a woman, who loves to give her man anal/prostate orgasms, I can tell you indeed, the prostate is a BIG trigger, but even those times when I am just licking his little butt or fingering it shallow (so I know I am NOT touching his prostate), he cum's with great intensity and incredible delight.
Originally posted by
ScottA
I'd think those who can have an orgasm through anal only would be in the minority.
With anal orgasms/anally triggered orgasms (they seem to be qualitatively different, and I was going to research this but haven't had the time) practice ... more
With anal orgasms/anally triggered orgasms (they seem to be qualitatively different, and I was going to research this but haven't had the time) practice ... more
I'd think those who can have an orgasm through anal only would be in the minority.
With anal orgasms/anally triggered orgasms (they seem to be qualitatively different, and I was going to research this but haven't had the time) practice helps. It took me many years before I could have an anally triggered/prostate orgasm, but once I had the first couple it became much easier. It helps at first to get yourself "close" with genital stimulation, find out what gives you the "best" anal stimulation, and then kind of "edge" yourself for a while until the anal play kicks you over to orgasm. Eventually you might be able to reduce the amount of genital stimulation you need.
For a guy (not sure who's going to be having the anal play here...) bringing the prostate into play helps, for a girl it's less of a "point" for stimulation, more of a general thing. less
With anal orgasms/anally triggered orgasms (they seem to be qualitatively different, and I was going to research this but haven't had the time) practice helps. It took me many years before I could have an anally triggered/prostate orgasm, but once I had the first couple it became much easier. It helps at first to get yourself "close" with genital stimulation, find out what gives you the "best" anal stimulation, and then kind of "edge" yourself for a while until the anal play kicks you over to orgasm. Eventually you might be able to reduce the amount of genital stimulation you need.
For a guy (not sure who's going to be having the anal play here...) bringing the prostate into play helps, for a girl it's less of a "point" for stimulation, more of a general thing. less
I have indeed had "anal only"orgasms myself, so I KNOW darn well that IS possible. We did a few tries with NOTHING else being touched just for our own fun experiment once. However, you are right, it is more an "all over" intense feeling for woman as there is not trigger spot involved.
01/02/2012
Note - my separation of "anal orgasms" and "anally induced/prostate orgasms" doesn't stem from where the stimulation happens - both types are triggered by anorectal-region stimulation, not genital stimulation. The difference appears to be where the orgasm is located - an anally-triggered orgasm includes genital contractions similar to a regular orgasm (and usually a male will ejaculate during an anally/prostate-trigge red orgasm). There does seem to be enough anecdotal evidence of a different anal orgasm to admit the possibility, one where the contractions are confined to the anorectal area.
01/02/2012
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Yes. If you go to the Aneros Wiki you can read about the "super-O" which is their term for a non-ejaculatory orgasm caused by prostate stimulation. I've had these. They're very different from the usual orgasm for a guy. It's almost an electric, buzzing sensation that spreads throughout the whole body. There's no "recovery period" after one of these, meaning multiples are possible (even likely, in my experience).
Originally posted by
ScottA
Note - my separation of "anal orgasms" and "anally induced/prostate orgasms" doesn't stem from where the stimulation happens - both types are triggered by anorectal-region stimulation, not genital stimulation. The difference
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Note - my separation of "anal orgasms" and "anally induced/prostate orgasms" doesn't stem from where the stimulation happens - both types are triggered by anorectal-region stimulation, not genital stimulation. The difference appears to be where the orgasm is located - an anally-triggered orgasm includes genital contractions similar to a regular orgasm (and usually a male will ejaculate during an anally/prostate-trigge red orgasm). There does seem to be enough anecdotal evidence of a different anal orgasm to admit the possibility, one where the contractions are confined to the anorectal area.
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There's also the regular, ejaculatory orgasm solely from anal/prostate stimulation. Those are pretty nice too.
01/02/2012
I have had orgasms while enjoying anal sex, but I am usually also stimulating my clit as well... So its hard to say if its cause of the anal sex or from clitoral stim, or both. Im guessing both, personally.
01/02/2012
You know, I just realized that I never directly answered the question. It's not particularly easy but is best thought of as a learned skill. Go slow, stay away from pain as much as possible, hands off your genitals, and allow yourself some disappointment along the way. Orgasm is as much in the brain as it is anywhere else.
01/02/2012
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