GROSS anal question..

bayosgirl bayosgirl
Can't say I didn't warn ya. This is definitely the nastiest thing that has happened to me during sex. I'm wondering if anyone else has had this problem, because I've never heard of it before. I've been trying to convince my hubby to do anal with me...well that was BEFORE I remembered this one time when my ex and I were doing it and all of a sudden he commented that he could feel "the tip of the iceberg." Amazingly, we laughed it off, but I think if it happened now I would die. So, has this ever happened to anyone?
07/20/2011
  • Weekly Special: Hot Vibes! Buy 1 Vibrator And Get 1 FREE
  • Better Price Sale - Save 50%
  • Better Price Sale - Save 70%
  • Better Price Sale - Save 60%
  • Better Price - Save 40%
  • 1
  • 2
  • 3
  • 4
  • 5
All promotions
El-Jaro El-Jaro
It happens. Take a break, "sink the Titanic", clean up, and try again.
07/20/2011
dv8 dv8
There's a reason for the term fudge packing.
07/20/2011
JessCee JessCee
Quote:
Originally posted by El-Jaro
It happens. Take a break, "sink the Titanic", clean up, and try again.
hehehe, It has happened to me, and this was the solution! I just wish i had found it to be as humorous as JR put it lol.
07/20/2011
ToyTimeTim ToyTimeTim
Well, "IT" happens.

Knowing your system, eating right and having a BM before hand will help. The rectum does not store the poo, so most of the time it is empty. You could also use a douche or enema if you are worried, just do it before (like an hour or so).
07/20/2011
AngelvMaynard AngelvMaynard
Quote:
Originally posted by bayosgirl
Can't say I didn't warn ya. This is definitely the nastiest thing that has happened to me during sex. I'm wondering if anyone else has had this problem, because I've never heard of it before. I've been trying to convince my hubby ... More
Keep an enema handy just in case. It's just one of those consequences of anal!
07/20/2011
alliegator alliegator
Just being aware of when the last time you pooped helps. Use and enema if you think you need it, or take a quick shower and slip a finger up just to check that everything's clean.
07/20/2011
bayosgirl bayosgirl
Quote:
Originally posted by dv8
There's a reason for the term fudge packing.
LOL!
07/20/2011
Owl Identified Owl Identified
Quote:
Originally posted by ToyTimeTim
Well, "IT" happens.

Knowing your system, eating right and having a BM before hand will help. The rectum does not store the poo, so most of the time it is empty. You could also use a douche or enema if you are worried, just do it ... More
Yep! All great advice
07/20/2011
~LaUr3n~ ~LaUr3n~
Nope, never happened and I used have anal sex fairly often. Douche, and make sure to have a BM that day.
07/20/2011
RonLee RonLee
Quote:
Originally posted by dv8
There's a reason for the term fudge packing.
LOL
07/20/2011
Bignuf Bignuf
Quote:
Originally posted by bayosgirl
Can't say I didn't warn ya. This is definitely the nastiest thing that has happened to me during sex. I'm wondering if anyone else has had this problem, because I've never heard of it before. I've been trying to convince my hubby ... More
Just make sure you have had a bowel movement prior to the activity and odds are that it will NEVER happen. However, let's be honest...the colon is where solid waste is processed, so that CAN happen and if you want the solid fact......I bet your boyfriend didn't mind and neither would your husband. YOU should feel more comfortable with HIM then any person on earth..ever. PLUS, he will be stone cold thrilled to have a wife who does anal with him. As I tell my uptight girlfriends (not many)....ANYONE can come in the front door, but only your good friends come in the back way, and baby, so long as my hubby can play in my back door and I give him blow jobs with serious P spot stimulation...."I KNOW he ain't looking for nothing anywhere else"...to abuse the slang.
07/21/2011
ZenaidaMacroura ZenaidaMacroura
I'm really picky about when I'll have anal sex, so no, this hasn't happened to me. Like everyone else has said, it's a good idea to make sure you've had a BM that day, and douching can help get rid of any left over stuff. Enemas aren't great to do often, but you can do them occasionally if you feel like it. I find that, for me, having a BM the same day is enough. If I don't feel like everything is perfect with my digestion and whatnot that day, I just skip the anal sex and wait until I feel a bit more balanced.

But yeah, it's perfectly normal for that to happen. No biggie (though I don't think I'd be able to help being embarrassed).
07/21/2011
Crichton Crichton
I would go with everyone's advice on having a BM that day possibly close to the moment if you can. I have anal on a regular basis, sometimes more frequently than vaginal, and this hasn't happened to me yet.

On the flip side it has happened to my boyfriend when I was pegging him. He was a bit bothered by it, but I blew it off. I told him it's to be expected considering what we're doing. It doesn't phase me at all.
07/21/2011
slynch slynch
It happens, but what do you expect from that area?
07/22/2011
Shellz31 Shellz31
I think I would be shamed and wouldn't want anal for awhile. But I always like to have an enema before so that I can avoid anything like that happening.
07/22/2011
Tori Rebel Tori Rebel
I'm not a big fan of receiving anal, but both while pegging and working on andal fisting with my ex, things like this would happen, but very rarely. I agree with JR, get rid of it and move on!
07/22/2011
playtimeohsofun playtimeohsofun
This has not happened to me yet!
07/23/2011
bayosgirl bayosgirl
Quote:
Originally posted by Bignuf
Just make sure you have had a bowel movement prior to the activity and odds are that it will NEVER happen. However, let's be honest...the colon is where solid waste is processed, so that CAN happen and if you want the solid fact......I bet your ... More
Actually, my husband doesn't want to do anal. He says he's worried about me ending up in diapers. I told him that (leakage) only happens with frequent, very vigorous anal sex. I only want to do it occasionally, and even then very gentle. We're long-distance right now, so maybe he'll finally agree to it when we're together again.

If it does happen, I'm definitely going to make sure I poop earlier in the day AND douche my butt.
07/23/2011
Dawn (Lilac Distraction) Dawn (Lilac Distraction)
O_O

Something even worse happened to me. I'm not going into details, but it was quite embarrassing, even though my ex just laughed it off. Luckily it was during DP with a toy.

This is why I'm hesitant to get back into it now. I have IBS so my system is at either end of the extremes of digestive function. My lover has been dying to try it with me, but I'm just so nervous because of that one time 6 years ago. I haven't done it since. The poor boy is so willing to try it with me that he's even let me do it to him, even though he had never done it before (with Belladonna's Gangbanger as his first. I comment his bravery.)

Recently, I've been experimenting on my own. No problems or anything. I'm just a little freaked out still, but slowly trying to get over that.
07/24/2011
Vanessa Weiss Vanessa Weiss
It's happened to me a number of times both with my partner and with toys. Can't say I'm incredibly bothered if it happens, though - like JR said, take a break, sink the titanic and move on!
07/25/2011
Ms. Spice Ms. Spice
well, to avoid that next time, i would suggest not eating a fibrous meal and knowing your limits. i would be a little embarrased, but it wouldn't kill me. luckily nothing like this has happened to me
07/25/2011
Seth912 Seth912
This has never happened to me.
07/25/2011
Colonel Angus Colonel Angus
I think all the suggestions are pretty good. Know your body, being the first rule. BM a couple hours prior. Maybe a bulb enema if you want to be extra clean. Don't do the big bag enemas. Those clear out the colon as well and end up leaving little specks in the rectum, no matter how many times you clean out.

The penetrating partner should also be paying attention during the foreplay. A lubed finger should come back reasonably clean. Ditto for any smaller warm-up toys. He'll know it if he hits any nuggets.

I also suggest doing it over a towel or having a towel handy just for those unexpected klingons during withdrawal, especially if you've gotten pretty vigorous.

Lastly, I suggest a condom even if you're monogamous. Now we all know that you are NEVER to go back to the front without a serious washing first, but the bacteria in the rectum can also pass through a guy's urethra and give him a UTI. Rare (I think) but it does happen.

BTW, I also recommend reading Anal Pleasure and Health by Dr. Jack Morin.
07/29/2011
ijako9 ijako9
Happen to me once as the man, it was gross but I got over it shortly after
07/29/2011
Dawn (Lilac Distraction) Dawn (Lilac Distraction)
Quote:
Originally posted by Colonel Angus
I think all the suggestions are pretty good. Know your body, being the first rule. BM a couple hours prior. Maybe a bulb enema if you want to be extra clean. Don't do the big bag enemas. Those clear out the colon as well and end up leaving ... More
I had an ex who thought condoms weren't of any use during anal. Despite my advice, he proceeded without one and ended up with a UTI. Point proven.
07/30/2011
RonLee RonLee
Quote:
Originally posted by Dawn (Lilac Distraction)
I had an ex who thought condoms weren't of any use during anal. Despite my advice, he proceeded without one and ended up with a UTI. Point proven.
Ouch!
09/27/2011
HotMama2three HotMama2three
I check in the shower before hand and get rid of it . And no cofee at the end of the day.
07/12/2012
Total posts: 28
Unique posters: 24