Have you ever experienced accidental anal penetration?

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My partner has jammed it up my ass accidentally while having vaginal sex at least 2 times now and each time it resulted in excruciating pain and bleeding. We haven't had real anal sex before but have experimented with fingers, buttplugs, etc. This has not happened to any of my friends. Has this ever happened to you?
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Yes, and it hurt bad!
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37  (33%)
Yes, and it was no big deal.
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15  (14%)
Yes, and it felt great - we kept doing anal.
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6  (5%)
Never happened to me.
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44  (40%)
There's no such thing as accidental anal.
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9  (8%)
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Darklyvan Darklyvan
Quote:
Originally posted by bstar
My partner has jammed it up my ass accidentally while having vaginal sex at least 2 times now and each time it resulted in excruciating pain and bleeding. We haven't had real anal sex before but have experimented with fingers, buttplugs, etc. ... More
No and being a straight male that would be a surprise lol.
01/07/2012
bstar bstar
Quote:
Originally posted by Darklyvan
No and being a straight male that would be a surprise lol.
lol well i hope it doesn't happen to you!
01/07/2012
potstickers potstickers
This one time, there was no standing room at a parade and I sat down on a fire hydrant and the next thing I knew... jk.
01/07/2012
MrWishyWashy MrWishyWashy
Male here, have never done to that my partner unintentionally. I have good navigation skills I suppose!
01/07/2012
RonLee RonLee
Maybe in my youth, along with way too much adult beverage. Otherwise accidentally, NO.
Voluntarily it is so damn much fun (yes i've been the giver and the receiver) tell that jackass partner of yours to properly fuck your ass, no more that "accidentally" shit. That means proper preparation, including him rimming you and if he won't do that tell him to kiss your ass goodbye. If he keeps it up call the fucking cops.
01/08/2012
Coralbell Coralbell
It happened to me for the first time a few weeks ago. I was on top of him, teasing him by letting him enter my vagina for a few seconds, then pulling away. As he was squirming around and trying to get back inside my vagina, he accidentally pushed the tip of his penis into my butt. We both stopped for a second, because we always use lots of lube for anal and usually do some warm up first. But I was surprised to find that there was enough wetness from my vagina that we didn't need any lube, and we were able to keep going with anal without any discomfort.
01/08/2012
bstar bstar
Quote:
Originally posted by RonLee
Maybe in my youth, along with way too much adult beverage. Otherwise accidentally, NO.
Voluntarily it is so damn much fun (yes i've been the giver and the receiver) tell that jackass partner of yours to properly fuck your ass, no more that ... More
we are actually in the process of working up to voluntary anal, easing into it with gradually bigger plugs, etc. cause i'm just really tight. so its not like he was just trying to stick it in without asking me or something. and yeah both times we'd been drinking so maybe that contributed to it.
01/08/2012
RonLee RonLee
Quote:
Originally posted by bstar
we are actually in the process of working up to voluntary anal, easing into it with gradually bigger plugs, etc. cause i'm just really tight. so its not like he was just trying to stick it in without asking me or something. and yeah both times ... More
Maybe, but still anal sex is NOT something to engage in without proper preparation.
Sorry for my earlier statement "If he keeps it up call the fucking cops."
I've been drinking, my GF is out of town and staying home getting drunk is safer than going out.
As far as calling the cops, as a public service announcement remember:
COPS DON'T MEDIATE.
COPS DON'T CARE AT ALL ABOUT RIGHT OR WRONG.
COPS ARREST AND COLLECT EVIDENCE FOR CRIMINAL PROSECUTION!
So remember IF you call the cops, somebody's going to jail.
01/08/2012
Bignuf Bignuf
Quote:
Originally posted by bstar
My partner has jammed it up my ass accidentally while having vaginal sex at least 2 times now and each time it resulted in excruciating pain and bleeding. We haven't had real anal sex before but have experimented with fingers, buttplugs, etc. ... More
YES. We love anal play, and I love it when my hubby anally penetrates me...WHEN it is planned that is. Once, during vigorous vaginal thrusting in the missionary position, he "fell out" and when he THRUST back in, it was NOT in my "front door". I about hit the ceiling. It hurt like heck. He apologized, but of course I was not angry...it was a complete accident, but YES IT CAN HAPPEN...no doubt about it. My bum still hurts at the thought!!!!!
01/10/2012
Bignuf Bignuf
Quote:
Originally posted by RonLee
Maybe, but still anal sex is NOT something to engage in without proper preparation.
Sorry for my earlier statement "If he keeps it up call the fucking cops."
I've been drinking, my GF is out of town and staying home getting ... More
Um....I have a number of police officers in my family, and I am not sure they really want to get called when two consenting adults are having sex and one thrust gets accidentally put in the wrong hole. Just sayin'.

If this happens a lot, find another lover or do whatever, but calling the police should NOT be anywhere on that list. This is not assault or rape. This is an accident in the course of having sex. Even if not an accident, it is then a relationship issue...not a police issue. They have a lot more serious things to be dealing with.

THANKS
01/10/2012
Rossie Rossie
There's no such thing as "accidental" , unless you are frequent in anal sex, and your behind is more relaxed and easily penetrable. For someone who doesn't have anal sex on a very regular basis, their butt holes are tight, and are hard for a penis to just slide right in (unless by force).

Tell your partner to slow things down a bit, so these "accidents" will not happen again. I hope you're not psychologically or physically traumatized by those awful experiences!
01/10/2012
mandaj mandaj
YES IT HURT SOOOO BAD!!! WE WAS REALLY INTO IT AND IT KINDA HIT THE WRONG HOLE!!! lol i even cried
01/10/2012
Mistress Jezebel Mistress Jezebel
It's happened and usually only happens during doggy style with lots of lube but It usually doesn't get very far.
01/10/2012
jedent jedent
surprise buttsex is no laughing matter.
01/10/2012
Modern^Spank^Anthem Modern^Spank^Anthem
nope
01/10/2012
hyacinthgirl hyacinthgirl
A few times with my ex. Most of the time it was while he was fingering me in the dark, then missed and jammed his fingers into my ass (OW). He was also a sexsomniac, and would occasionally start humping me in his sleep... once he was trying to penetrate my ass while I tried desperately to wake him up - my screams did once he rammed himself partway in. Anal virgin + porn star dick and no preparation... oh God the pain.
01/12/2012
Silverdrop Silverdrop
Yeah, I've had it happen a few times, and it definitely hurts. It also puts an end to the festivities for the evening, as I won't let him re-enter my vagina without washing himself to avoid bacterial transfer. UTIs hurt worse than accidental anal!
01/12/2012
ninja250 ninja250
Never happened with us
01/12/2012
Liz2 Liz2
I love anal sex but I have to be ready. The first time, by consent, hurt like hell, it took awhile before I experimented again. Now I look forward to it but don't want to be surprised.

My boyfriend loves to be pegged and I am delighted to oblige.
01/12/2012
bstar bstar
lol, it's been a week and i feel fine now, but it hurt so bad and bled a lot when we had the "accident", i'm scared of trying anal for real now.
01/12/2012
deltalima deltalima
Quote:
Originally posted by bstar
My partner has jammed it up my ass accidentally while having vaginal sex at least 2 times now and each time it resulted in excruciating pain and bleeding. We haven't had real anal sex before but have experimented with fingers, buttplugs, etc. ... More
I was sore for 2 days.
01/12/2012
MeliPixie MeliPixie
One time we were going at PIV preeetty hard, and he slipped out, and when he thrust back in again, I was angled differently and he pushed all the way into my anus. Good thing I'd been really wet and wanting to try anal already... It felt great and we kept going XD
01/12/2012
LovesToPlay LovesToPlay
Quote:
Originally posted by Bignuf
YES. We love anal play, and I love it when my hubby anally penetrates me...WHEN it is planned that is. Once, during vigorous vaginal thrusting in the missionary position, he "fell out" and when he THRUST back in, it was NOT in my ... More
This has happened to me too!!! but mostly if he is behind me and we are both sitting on our knees! it freaking hurts and totally kills the mood for me!! but i let him finish and we go on about our night!!! now if i am prepared for it and there is plenty of lube then hell yeah lets do it!!! bc of this poll thingy i text him and asked him which he preferred and to my surprise he said vaginal i honestly thought if he was here i would fuck his brains out lol!!! it just made me feel special!
02/13/2012
LovesToPlay LovesToPlay
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Originally posted by bstar
lol, it's been a week and i feel fine now, but it hurt so bad and bled a lot when we had the "accident", i'm scared of trying anal for real now.
Best advice ever there is no such thing as to much lube!!!! i promise you that my husband does a great job going as slow as i want and asking if i need more lube and if it hurts?? go extremely slow have him rub up and down your anus with alittle pressure that helps us out!!! try different positions too doggie style and missionary is our go to positions!
02/13/2012
oneeyedoctopus oneeyedoctopus
I can't imagine this ever happening. It's not exactly easy to do intentionally. Takes quite a bit of patience and effort to squeeze it in.
02/14/2012
All His All His
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Originally posted by bstar
lol, it's been a week and i feel fine now, but it hurt so bad and bled a lot when we had the "accident", i'm scared of trying anal for real now.
no need to be scared if you go about it slowly and take your time to prepare and relax. When you do it not anything like it happening all of a sudden
02/14/2012
Spilock Spilock
Never had any sort of surprise butt sex, so I guess that's a compliment to my navigation skills. I can imagine it would be pretty excruciating however to suddenly take a penis to the ass with no preparation whatsoever.
02/14/2012
Zombirella Zombirella
Quote:
Originally posted by bstar
My partner has jammed it up my ass accidentally while having vaginal sex at least 2 times now and each time it resulted in excruciating pain and bleeding. We haven't had real anal sex before but have experimented with fingers, buttplugs, etc. ... More
Yes and it was not pleasant. It hurt and I ran to the bathroom afraid something was going to happen. For me, that is an exit only.
02/19/2012
spineyogurt spineyogurt
Yes I have done this lol I felt bad for laughing
02/19/2012
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