I've been on the giving end of anal fisting a couple of times and I expect many more. I was scared of hurting my partner the first time, but now it's no big deal. She loves it and I love doing things she enjoys so, it works out. If you're interested, I suggest: go slowly by inserting fingers one-by-one, or smaller toys first to warm up. (Don't expect for you [or your partner] to be able to insert a whole hand the first or even second time. It's a process of gradual stretching so that nothing tears.) Communication is key. Use latex gloves and use LOTS of lube. "Anal Pleasure and Health" by Jack Morin, PH. D is a good book to reference.
Have you ever tried anal fisting?
10/02/2012
I've tried fisting my size queen boyfriend, but it hasn't managed to work quite yet. We're definitely going to keep at it. As far as stuff up my butt, not really for me.
10/02/2012
No!
10/02/2012
OUch! NOoo.
10/02/2012
never tried it. just too big
10/02/2012
nope, never will!
10/03/2012
Nope and never will.
10/03/2012
I say no to a slim toy!! FIST!!!! NO!
10/03/2012
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Try a surprise fisting...NEVER again.
Originally posted by
tammyandy69
Is anally fisting for you?
10/25/2012
I'll be honest, it sounds extremely unappealing to me at this moment in time. However, I'm a "never say never" kind of gal, so I won't completely rule out the possibility of trying it at some point in the future, if/when my feelings about having huge things up my butt changes, and if I had a partner I really trusted.
I'd absolutely be down to try fisting someone else (though only if they were super into it, obviously). While the idea of putting my entire hand up someone's ass is not super arousing to me in and of itself, it's also not a turn-off, and pleasing a sexual partner IS super arousing to me, so I'm willing to be pretty adventurous in the quest to get someone else off (so long as they're willing to return the favour).
So yeah, your poll needs an option for "haven't done it, but might try in the future."
I'd absolutely be down to try fisting someone else (though only if they were super into it, obviously). While the idea of putting my entire hand up someone's ass is not super arousing to me in and of itself, it's also not a turn-off, and pleasing a sexual partner IS super arousing to me, so I'm willing to be pretty adventurous in the quest to get someone else off (so long as they're willing to return the favour).
So yeah, your poll needs an option for "haven't done it, but might try in the future."
05/14/2020
My wife has attempted to fist me - but the combination of her hand size and my ability to relax have prevented getting past her knuckles.
All the same a 4-finger prostate massage is quite pleasant
All the same a 4-finger prostate massage is quite pleasant
05/16/2020
Shark09
Not as of yet, but I would love to have someone do it to me.
11/22/2020
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My Wifey has only been able to get four fingers in me and I agree GunSmoke, Quite Pleasant!
Originally posted by
Gunsmoke
My wife has attempted to fist me - but the combination of her hand size and my ability to relax have prevented getting past her knuckles.
All the same a 4-finger prostate massage is quite pleasant
All the same a 4-finger prostate massage is quite pleasant
11/22/2020
chelseylynn1101
No but it does Interest me
11/22/2020
SMALL BUT MIGHTY
My girl wants me to try this on her, but I'm extremely afraid of something going wrong. I say no to anal fisting.
11/29/2020
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One of my former lovers preferred ànal sex over vaginal and loved to be fisted.... It took a lot of trying as I have rather large hands. We just made sure to use plenty of lube.
Originally posted by
tammyandy69
Is anally fisting for you?
04/07/2021
Quote:
Sorry, duplicate post
Originally posted by
tammyandy69
Is anally fisting for you?
04/08/2021
I see some super passionate answers here that I love (so kudos for posting or replying such a great question)
Short Answer:
Yes! I have received multiple times, and adored it each one. I have yet to find a recipient however to try my hand on as of yet.
***
the biggest thing i notice is a fear of pain or "lasting issues".
Public Service Announcement, for anyone not familiar with the act:
it is NOT, under ANY circumstances EVER supposed to be a painful experience, nor will it ever leave a lasting issue.
If anything, i noticed quantifiable improvements to my health pretty soon after I got into anal.
After all, I'm sure plenty of women here have birthed, and plenty husband's of said women know how they feel afterwards.
It doesn't "stretch" anyone out, and that's a solid 10 Centimeters diameter most times, which is far more substantial that any hand.
another aspect would probably be how porn has conditioned us to see fisting as an aggressively done, intense thing.
No way. You can do it like that, but normally such is not practices except by people reeeaaallly competent with what they are doing.
Otherwise, "fisting" is a bit harsh of a term to describe something that when practiced with care, communication, and an open mind leads to an all-around amazing, bonding, and extremely pleasurable experience.
Short Answer:
Yes! I have received multiple times, and adored it each one. I have yet to find a recipient however to try my hand on as of yet.
***
the biggest thing i notice is a fear of pain or "lasting issues".
Public Service Announcement, for anyone not familiar with the act:
it is NOT, under ANY circumstances EVER supposed to be a painful experience, nor will it ever leave a lasting issue.
If anything, i noticed quantifiable improvements to my health pretty soon after I got into anal.
After all, I'm sure plenty of women here have birthed, and plenty husband's of said women know how they feel afterwards.
It doesn't "stretch" anyone out, and that's a solid 10 Centimeters diameter most times, which is far more substantial that any hand.
another aspect would probably be how porn has conditioned us to see fisting as an aggressively done, intense thing.
No way. You can do it like that, but normally such is not practices except by people reeeaaallly competent with what they are doing.
Otherwise, "fisting" is a bit harsh of a term to describe something that when practiced with care, communication, and an open mind leads to an all-around amazing, bonding, and extremely pleasurable experience.
04/09/2021
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AndrewG, I concur with everything you wrote especially "It is NOT, under ANY circumstances EVER supposed to be a painful experience..." (pain is an indication to slow down or stop) and "porn has conditioned us to see fisting as an aggressively done". I still haven't received more than four fingers yet but we're still working on it, slow and sensually.
Originally posted by
andrewg
I see some super passionate answers here that I love (so kudos for posting or replying such a great question)
Short Answer:
Yes! I have received multiple times, and adored it each one. I have yet to find a recipient however to try my ... more
Short Answer:
Yes! I have received multiple times, and adored it each one. I have yet to find a recipient however to try my ... more
I see some super passionate answers here that I love (so kudos for posting or replying such a great question)
Short Answer:
Yes! I have received multiple times, and adored it each one. I have yet to find a recipient however to try my hand on as of yet.
***
the biggest thing i notice is a fear of pain or "lasting issues".
Public Service Announcement, for anyone not familiar with the act:
it is NOT, under ANY circumstances EVER supposed to be a painful experience, nor will it ever leave a lasting issue.
If anything, i noticed quantifiable improvements to my health pretty soon after I got into anal.
After all, I'm sure plenty of women here have birthed, and plenty husband's of said women know how they feel afterwards.
It doesn't "stretch" anyone out, and that's a solid 10 Centimeters diameter most times, which is far more substantial that any hand.
another aspect would probably be how porn has conditioned us to see fisting as an aggressively done, intense thing.
No way. You can do it like that, but normally such is not practices except by people reeeaaallly competent with what they are doing.
Otherwise, "fisting" is a bit harsh of a term to describe something that when practiced with care, communication, and an open mind leads to an all-around amazing, bonding, and extremely pleasurable experience. less
Short Answer:
Yes! I have received multiple times, and adored it each one. I have yet to find a recipient however to try my hand on as of yet.
***
the biggest thing i notice is a fear of pain or "lasting issues".
Public Service Announcement, for anyone not familiar with the act:
it is NOT, under ANY circumstances EVER supposed to be a painful experience, nor will it ever leave a lasting issue.
If anything, i noticed quantifiable improvements to my health pretty soon after I got into anal.
After all, I'm sure plenty of women here have birthed, and plenty husband's of said women know how they feel afterwards.
It doesn't "stretch" anyone out, and that's a solid 10 Centimeters diameter most times, which is far more substantial that any hand.
another aspect would probably be how porn has conditioned us to see fisting as an aggressively done, intense thing.
No way. You can do it like that, but normally such is not practices except by people reeeaaallly competent with what they are doing.
Otherwise, "fisting" is a bit harsh of a term to describe something that when practiced with care, communication, and an open mind leads to an all-around amazing, bonding, and extremely pleasurable experience. less
04/09/2021
No Way! Sounds painful
04/09/2021
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It is NOT something that one does without a lot of preparation. And like AndrwG wrote, don't look at porn as instruction. Those actors are seasoned professionals. That is NOT how it should be done at home.
Originally posted by
Wildcat90
No Way! Sounds painful
04/10/2021
ButtPlugLover
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I have been fisted twice and really enjoy it and need to do it again.
Originally posted by
tammyandy69
Is anally fisting for you?
It is 1 of the most intense things I have ever experienced and it is also the most intimate thing that I have experienced. The level of trust that you have to have with the person that is fisting you is the most I have ever trusted somebody
02/01/2023
Attempted it once on myself, was pretty OK, but awkward because you need an extra half an arm to get anything good back there when you're alone. Have some larger toys that fill the need when I'm up for it (and on the rare occasion that I'm actually relaxed enough that I can get one of the large ones in there, I'm naturally tense in general.)
02/16/2023
ButtPlugLover
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My ex wife has fisted me twice and I must say I really enjoy the most intense feeling from having somebody's hand up your ass and when they move their hand or rotate their arm you feel every movement times 100.
Originally posted by
tammyandy69
Is anally fisting for you?
04/10/2023