I guess I was just wondering how open everyone is about anal sex. For example do you tell people you have anal sex or do you prefer to leave that detail out.
How open are you about anal?
How open are you about anal?
Like several other people here, I really don't share the details of my sexual activities with others, unless specifically asked. I would NOT simply tell someone details just to tell them, out of respect for my own privacy and out of respect for My Man.
I live in the suburbs (almost in a rural area, but still close to the Big City) and people tend to put up a "Conservative Front" in my area. I don't, and a lot of people simply take me for the weird old hippy chick who is a little TOO open about a lot of things. But, things like anal sex, IRL, are between My Man and I most of the time. When I was younger, my friends and I would "share notes" on our sexual activity, but if anyone was having anal sex back then, no one said anything about it. I know I wasn't back then.
I think if I was specifically ASKED, by someone I could trust, I would be honest. But, so far, it hasn't happened.
I live in the suburbs (almost in a rural area, but still close to the Big City) and people tend to put up a "Conservative Front" in my area. I don't, and a lot of people simply take me for the weird old hippy chick who is a little TOO open about a lot of things. But, things like anal sex, IRL, are between My Man and I most of the time. When I was younger, my friends and I would "share notes" on our sexual activity, but if anyone was having anal sex back then, no one said anything about it. I know I wasn't back then.
I think if I was specifically ASKED, by someone I could trust, I would be honest. But, so far, it hasn't happened.
08/10/2010
I'm basically the most open about sex among my family and friends, so I often will bring it up or answer questions. I will, and have, talked about anal sex, but not about my own enjoyment of it. If someone asked me point blank I'd most likely be forthcoming, but otherwise I talk about it in a general sense.
08/11/2010
Funny this should come up now! My friend and I just had a discussion on this the other night!! Of course we were both sitting here on our computers going through the Eden forums at the time. This isn't something I bring up with anyone but will discuss with my very close friends and partners if the conversation is brought up. Most people freak out at the topic so I usually just stay quiet. Though I am a bit shy about my sex life.
08/11/2010
I don't mind talking about it especially if someone has a question but I won't just walk up to friends and family and blurt out that I have anal sex!
If someone were spreading myths and lies about anal sex I would either gently correct them or wait till they had moved on and then gently correct him/her to those who were listening. I might suggest some reading material and suggest they ask a Dr. I know and trust to tell them the truth...if they are really interested. If not then I'd smile secretly and walk away.
If someone were spreading myths and lies about anal sex I would either gently correct them or wait till they had moved on and then gently correct him/her to those who were listening. I might suggest some reading material and suggest they ask a Dr. I know and trust to tell them the truth...if they are really interested. If not then I'd smile secretly and walk away.
08/11/2010
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Haha. Alicia, the look on your face with your avatar simply DEFINED the attitude of the post.
Originally posted by
Alicia
It's not something that I can see coming up in conversation..
I know it wasn't planned, but it made me laugh.
"It's not something that I can see coming up in conversation." *sigh* Adorable.
08/11/2010
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Depending on the person, I might correct fallacies (like "Your ass while stretch and then you will be incontinent.") but, some people simply don't listen to anybody when they have something in their mind.
Originally posted by
PonyPlay
If someone were to harsh on anal sex like say all these crazy things about it that were very inaccurate do you think you would defend anal sex or not say anything because you didn't want them to know you did it?
I've learned this after years as a Lactation Consultant (people who have beliefs about the situation, usually if they are not having any more kids, just don't want to know. And, if it was something that was in the past, and nothing can be done, I am not going to say, "Oh, that was fixable." because I don't feel making people feel bad is my business. Helping them, IF they ask for help IS.) Anyway, when it comes to people's "beliefs" it depends on the person, whether I would say something.
Some people just bash things with NO information, and even if you say something it makes no difference to them. Other people genuinely want to know what is happening and are happy when myths are debunked.
08/11/2010
I don't talk about my personal sex experiences with a lot of real-life people, except a few very close friends. Anal is a topic and usually we end up trading tips for sore bums, lol. I can get a sense from people whether or not they'll be comfy talking about it, so I go from there. Yay instinct!
08/14/2010
Sex seems to come up around me a lot. If the subject turns to anal play, I will absolutely admit that I enjoy anal play. I am not ashamed of anything I enjoy sexually. In the event that someone decided they didn't like me or want to hang around me anymore purely based on the fact that I like anal sex (or any of my other kinks) then I would be more than happy to let the door his their a** on the way out. Not much of a loss to me.
08/14/2010
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I think it's sad that anyone would refuse to be someones friend purely off the fact that they like anal sex/anal play. It's sad that their are people that are that weird about it that they let it get in the way of their friendships.
Originally posted by
Red Vinyl Kitty
Sex seems to come up around me a lot. If the subject turns to anal play, I will absolutely admit that I enjoy anal play. I am not ashamed of anything I enjoy sexually. In the event that someone decided they didn't like me or want to hang around me
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Sex seems to come up around me a lot. If the subject turns to anal play, I will absolutely admit that I enjoy anal play. I am not ashamed of anything I enjoy sexually. In the event that someone decided they didn't like me or want to hang around me anymore purely based on the fact that I like anal sex (or any of my other kinks) then I would be more than happy to let the door his their a** on the way out. Not much of a loss to me.
08/14/2010
White Wolf
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I don't have anal sex perce, but i have a moderate anal toy collection that i play with on a regular basis.
Originally posted by
PonyPlay
I guess I was just wondering how open everyone is about anal sex. For example do you tell people you have anal sex or do you prefer to leave that detail out.
Most people i talk to are closed minded and would immediately accuse me of being gay if i told them. So i guess i would only tell people who seem open minded enough not to jump to conclusions.
Also i would only mention it if it somehow came up in conversation, but most of my friends don't get That personal in conversation.
09/03/2010
White Wolf
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On second thought. When i find people curious enough to ask questions i tell them all about it.
Originally posted by
White Wolf
I don't have anal sex perce, but i have a moderate anal toy collection that i play with on a regular basis.
Most people i talk to are closed minded and would immediately accuse me of being gay if i told them. So i guess i would only tell ...
Most people i talk to are closed minded and would immediately accuse me of being gay if i told them. So i guess i would only tell ...
I don't have anal sex perce, but i have a moderate anal toy collection that i play with on a regular basis.
Most people i talk to are closed minded and would immediately accuse me of being gay if i told them. So i guess i would only tell people who seem open minded enough not to jump to conclusions.
Also i would only mention it if it somehow came up in conversation, but most of my friends don't get That personal in conversation.
Most people i talk to are closed minded and would immediately accuse me of being gay if i told them. So i guess i would only tell people who seem open minded enough not to jump to conclusions.
Also i would only mention it if it somehow came up in conversation, but most of my friends don't get That personal in conversation.
09/03/2010
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