How Was Your First Anal Experience?

mjtheprincess mjtheprincess
My first anal experience was absolutely awful! Since then, I have had some really incredible times and some really not so great experiences...
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Great! Fantastic! Awesome!
TheirPet , brevado , Pinkshirt , John E W , Gunsmoke , Shadowed , Bignuf , SydVicious , freesoma , Supervixen , GirlOnGirl , shorejen9 , lainebug , Kiss , Yellow Dog , angel42539
16  (25%)
Ehhh....
solitudinarian , deltalima , 12345678 , HusbandandWife , PeachCandy , Pi , Why Not? , tophertoph447 , Danneh , Kitka , ghent529 , crazycouple7281 , Checkmate , ginnyluvspotter , skeeterlynn , bratcat , bayosgirl
17  (27%)
Awful...painful...icky...
PeaceToTheMiddleEast , LAndJ , SneakersAndPearls , Lilmonster , bbygrl1988 , Lady of the Lab , Sangsara , babycakess , Anne , aimtoplease , sexykiss , potstickers , Two Grand , SMichelle , Lucifer the Cat , humblepie , Nurse Katie , padmeamidala , nikki0668 , atorturedsoul , libbyv , melliegirl , SecretKinksters , bog , MrsandMrbunnysoffun , brandi2009
26  (41%)
other
RonLee , leanright69 , Robespierrethecat , Hallmar82 , giftdgecko
5  (8%)
Total votes: 64
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06/23/2012
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deltalima deltalima
Quote:
Originally posted by mjtheprincess
My first anal experience was absolutely awful! Since then, I have had some really incredible times and some really not so great experiences...
Mine was okay but it got better.
06/23/2012
PeaceToTheMiddleEast PeaceToTheMiddleEast
Did not like it then and still don't like it till this day.
06/23/2012
HusbandandWife HusbandandWife
Quote:
Originally posted by mjtheprincess
My first anal experience was absolutely awful! Since then, I have had some really incredible times and some really not so great experiences...
It was less than impressive the first time. But tried again, and again. Gets better with practice. If you are nervous it can be hard to enjoy anything. Search the web or EF forums for info on anal, you may find something to help make it more enjoyable for you. Of course everyone is not going to like it.
06/23/2012
PeachCandy PeachCandy
Definitely wasn't the best experience ever. However, it does get better with some good anal lube, communication between partners, and definitely being able to relax is key to enjoying it for me. Maybe try a small anal toy and some lube solo and see if you enjoy. Then, gradually work your way up in size especially if your partner is large.
06/23/2012
Why Not? Why Not?
First time wasn't all that great. Good anal usually takes patience. We, however, were teenagers... need I say more...
06/27/2012
Claire-Bear Claire-Bear
Mine was awful. The guy used anal numbing cream to boot. I'm glad I know more about my body and sexual products now.
06/29/2012
LAndJ LAndJ
He was drunk, didn't warn me, and didn't use lube.
06/29/2012
bbygrl1988 bbygrl1988
One time for about a min...never again
06/29/2012
TheirPet TheirPet
Mine was great~
06/29/2012
brevado brevado
Lasted about 2 hours, went from real slow, to real fun!
06/29/2012
Pinkshirt Pinkshirt
It was amazing. It feel that it has never been as great as the first time.
07/01/2012
Mr Dj Mr Dj
Quote:
Originally posted by bbygrl1988
One time for about a min...never again
you guys must have did something wrong there...to fast, not enough lube, not relaxed..ect.
07/03/2012
HB042 HB042
I wish I could remember the first! It must have been alright, I friggin' love it.
07/03/2012
Two Grand Two Grand
It was horrible i was raped in a YMCA locker room by a bunch of boys, it has taken years to get over it, and to enjoy anal play.
07/06/2012
Anne Anne
Afterwards, I found myself on the toilet for about 15 minutes pooping it all out. I don't know why, I was having cramps along with it too. It was a weird experience.
07/06/2012
RonLee RonLee
The first time that I penetrated a partner we were both teenagers and it was the first ever act of intercourse for both of us.
We'd warmed up with as much foreplay as a couple of teenagers could stand, I'd brought vaseline for lube and went slow. I'd like to believe that I was careful and loving. Over the course of our relationship we had anal sex nearly as often as vaginal sex and she often specifically asked for that so I guess I did something right.

I was twenty or twenty one the first time that I was penetrated by a guy. It did not go well. I was quite drunk and he was absolutely huge. He wore a condom but didn't use nearly enough lube and we didn't do any foreplay to prepare my hole for his entry. It hurt ALOT but we continued and the pain subsided but it still was NOT what I'd call fun. Over the years since then I have had much more satisfactory partners.
07/06/2012
sexykiss sexykiss
not good i have not tried it since then.. i hated it and it was so bad
07/08/2012
CinLuvsBre CinLuvsBre
still hurts
07/09/2012
SMichelle SMichelle
It was terrible. He didn't give me any warning, and he didn't use lube. He was also incredibly aggressive about it. He didn't stop when I asked him to stop, even when I was literally begging him to stop. Needless to say, I dumped him immediately after, and have not spoken to him since.

I have had pleasant anal experiences since then, but it took me awhile to work up the courage to try it again.
08/14/2012
Kitka Kitka
It was okay, nothing really special.
08/14/2012
ghent529 ghent529
for us it was ok... I just felt so bad after words
08/14/2012
P'Gell P'Gell
Physically the first time was OK, but it got a lot better. Emotionally, the first time was beautiful. We had been talking about it and he had been training me for about a month. We had used lube and some toys (which I didn't like until after we got into anal sex, now I love them) and mostly his fingers.

It was slighly uncomfortable at first, but he went slowly, letting me guide him and telling me what I good girl I was and how good it felt. I felt so loved the first time. (Well, I always do feel loved when we are having sex. But, this was so intimate and wonderful, it was different.) I did bleed a little afterward (weird, because I didn't even bleed the first time I had PIV sex.) but we didn't use enough lube and I have flare ups of....er..... hemorrhoids since our babies were born. Sorry. The next time there was no blood and no discomfort.

The next time was much better. It's so much better now, and we both enjoy it a lot. I was glad I didn't let my fear prevent it. He knew to go slowly and let me guide the action, though. That makes a difference.
08/14/2012
Gunsmoke Gunsmoke
My first experience was great - because I wanted it to be. Over time my wife's technique has gotten much better - and I enjoy it more.

My wife on the other hand is determined that it should hurt so that she doesn't have to do it. She confided in me recently that she is afraid that I will want anal more than PIV. I could only respond that since it's never happened - we have no way of knowing!
08/15/2012
crazycouple7281 crazycouple7281
Mine was ehh... can't complain too much.
08/15/2012
Shadowed Shadowed
I had a great time!
08/24/2012
Bignuf Bignuf
Quote:
Originally posted by mjtheprincess
My first anal experience was absolutely awful! Since then, I have had some really incredible times and some really not so great experiences...
My first lover was super gentle and experienced and he taught me to enjoy anal play from the get go. Lovers since have all been great back there, so they turned me into a fan. Never had a bad experience in all my life. My hubby is an amazing lover...in all ways, so it's all good.
11/30/2012
Nurse Katie Nurse Katie
Quote:
Originally posted by mjtheprincess
My first anal experience was absolutely awful! Since then, I have had some really incredible times and some really not so great experiences...
My first 2 times were a disaster
11/30/2012
padmeamidala padmeamidala
Quote:
Originally posted by mjtheprincess
My first anal experience was absolutely awful! Since then, I have had some really incredible times and some really not so great experiences...
my first anal experience was not too great. It was painful and I bled. Anal became a hard limit for me for a long time. I'm now an anal slut and love it!
11/30/2012
CarrieCatt CarrieCatt
I had been doing it off and on for a couple of years during solo play before trying it for the first time with a partner. Since I was alone, my first time ever wasn't bad. Although, I didn't prepare properly, didn't have the best lube, and could have had a better toy. I had an incredible orgasm the first time, but I think that was mostly due to the mental aspect of doing something that I thought was so kinky at the time.
11/30/2012
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