What if I'd like to experiment with anal, and he thinks it's disgusting? I asked my husband if he'd mind if I had an anal plug in during sex (never tried it, but just ordered the ryder), and he was grossed out, but reluctantly said okay. Should I quit trying and making comments and just leave it alone, and just masturbate on my own? I respect his feelings, and I know that it has to be consensual for both, or else I wouldn't dare! I just get too curious sometimes. Please help!