If you introduced your spouse to anal AFTER marriage...how long were you married BEFORE you brought it up?

Bignuf Bignuf
Did your request or suggestion get met with a "SURE", or was it a timely process of working up to it?
04/29/2012
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Istanbull Istanbull
So far it's been a solid "No". I'm still working the timely process of 17 years of hint and begging.
04/30/2012
EastCoast36 EastCoast36
My wife and I dated for five years before getting married. When we began having sex, I did not have much interest in anal sex. I really did not know much at all about it. I remember shopping for a first porn for us to watch together and specifically looking for one that did not include certain acts, particularly anal.

A year or so before we got married, we lived in cities about two hours apart, so I masturbated more and checked out different porn. I did discover that porn with anal excited me, so I researched it on the web. I asked my then fiance about it, and she was not interested. When we got married I hoped that she would be more interested in experimenting with sex. Over the years she has made some attempts with me, but recently it is something she does not want me to even bring up.
04/30/2012
Bignuf Bignuf
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Originally posted by Istanbull
So far it's been a solid "No". I'm still working the timely process of 17 years of hint and begging.
Have you thought about bringing your partner HERE, with you?? We both love it and I think it can open more spouses...male or female, to all kinds of fun ideas.
05/05/2012
Bignuf Bignuf
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Originally posted by EastCoast36
My wife and I dated for five years before getting married. When we began having sex, I did not have much interest in anal sex. I really did not know much at all about it. I remember shopping for a first porn for us to watch together and ... More
Sorry. I want my hubby to bring up ANYTHING he can think of with ME. We are seriously monogamous, but between us, if it can give him or me pleasure, we can sure ASK.
05/05/2012
All His All His
I have been with my husband for 6 years now and he is the one who first introduced me to it and the first one I ever trusted to try it with. He fist brought it up and asked about 3 months into dating. We make sure to tell each other the things we want
05/05/2012
tj305 tj305
years ago when anal was not as popular my wife and i did not do it. years later i found myself asking and asking for it more and more. with my girl, now that were married 34 years, what she usually wants is to give of herself to me. that is how she feels her love to me is fulfilling. first of all my girl fulfills me no matter what. she totally gives of herself always when it comes to sex. its like she is an Indentured servant, shes a "sub" thats what she likes. i dont dominate our relationship. she speaks her mind all to well and will beat me down with words if im not careful. in private she is quiet, shy and reserved. when she desires to get on top she asks, other than that she prefers to not talk. About 25 years back anal started to become more mainstream. Enough said. About 18 years ago after years of nudging and poking at the idea i finally started to tell her that one nite the desire would be too much. By then she had laughed it off more often than not, she wanted to please but was just too afraiad of taboo. one nite i got a bottle of jack daniels took a real good hot shower had a few drinks made love and when she was finished i laid her down on her belly and firmly entered her from behind, the look on her face in the mirror was priceless. She has to be in a position where she cant lunge forward. place a pillow at the headboard and her head near the wall or headboard. After about a week or so we were doing it about once a week for 5 years, now i sometimes ram that sweet little ass of hers 2x a day. she obeys me when it comes to sex becauuse she wants to give of herself over to me, and i greatly love her even more because of it.
11/29/2012
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