is it possible for me to have anal?

Thanks Gunsmoke - that encourages me.

We're currently "training" for anal play. Right now we're at the point where my husband can insert his index finger up to the first joint if I'm in the right position and have really relaxed from lots of play. Today I ordered a small anal plug (its glass and sorta bead-like in design) and something that can be used as an anal vibrator.

I really don't see myself wanting to go all the way and having anal sex (versus playing a bit with it) - but then again - I didn't think I could enjoy oral sex and I've learned I can.

Taking the time to work up to it is part of the pleasure I think...

Sounds like your doing the right thing for me. My wife is very reticent about the whole idea - but I recently got her to have an orgasm as I double penetrated her with an Alumina Flow and a finger.

Later on she used the Flow on me anally - I think was her suggestion to me that I try out the small end on her next. Gotta keep those eyes and ears opened for clues!

It took My Man and I over a month of training before we could have full anal/penile sex. We were using some rimming and gentle fingers. We tried some toys, but I didn't like them until after we had actual anal sex (now I love them.) We went a little further every time, but he made sure I was in the mood and relaxed.

I have to have an orgasm before I have anal sex. It's so relaxing, that I can relax everything and it's much more smooth.

We re-introduced toys after we had actually started having anal sex, although we don't use them every time. Sometimes we use anal toys on me and don't have anal sex. It's different every time.

A good lube is essential, as is being relaxed (try having an orgasm first) and for me, having vaginal penetration from My Man first and then using a phallic dildo or vibe vaginally during anal sex is helpful. Most women are used to vaginal penetration, so not only is the vaginal dildo comfortable, but it puts pressure on your G Spot and A Spot for even more arousal.

Take your time, use lube, go SLOWLY and enjoy every day.