I am a female and have been pretty close to experiencing this. Back then, I thought it was an awesome idea. It is interesting that someone above considers this demeaning. I suppose I do feel some common sex practices to be demeaning, but I personally would feel powerful in this situation. Today, while I'm still with one of the people I considered doing this with, we are pretty happy and busy with each other. It's nothing we want now with anything other than toys. But to those who do the real thing, play safe and have fun!