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White Wolf White Wolf
I have a dildo that measures 12 inches long and 1.5 inches wide. I am trying to take in the full length of it, but i am stopped at about 7 inches in. If i try to go past that point i will usually feel a small amount of pain..

Does anyone have some knowledge as to what i could do to take the full length painlessly? if so, it would be much appreciated.
06/01/2010
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El-Jaro El-Jaro
Quote:
Originally posted by White Wolf
I have a dildo that measures 12 inches long and 1.5 inches wide. I am trying to take in the full length of it, but i am stopped at about 7 inches in. If i try to go past that point i will usually feel a small amount of pain..

Does anyone have ...
One of the sad facts about anal sex/backdoor shenanigans: Not everything fits.

As much as you want to take something that is large or wide, sometimes you just can't do it.

Pain isn't always a bad thing. It's your body's way of saying "NO MORE!".

On the bright side, at least you found your limits.
06/01/2010
P'Gell P'Gell
In most women's bodies, somewhere between 4 and 9 inches you leave the rectum and actually start heading into the colon. For some people this can be painful. Like Mr. Sauce said, if your body is saying "NO!" listen to it. You don't have to take the whole 12 inches, and you may not be able to. Stop when you are no longer enjoying it.
06/23/2010
ScottA ScottA
There are a couple different things at work in the rectum. There are three Houston's Valves a couple of inches in that things can hang up on, and the puborectal sling that will catch stuff if it's tight (that sounds like it might be the 4" catch that P'Gell is talking about). Higher up there is the curve into the sigmoid colon (also called the pelvic colon), and there are a couple of things that can hang you up there - the first is the bend itself, the second is a weak band of muscle that can function as a sphincter (though not nearly as strong as the anal sphincters).

Some of these barriers can be passed if you relax sufficiently, especially the Houston's valves and the puborectal sling (you can learn to relax these, but like all muscles that you usually don't use consciously (yet can control voluntarily) learning to control them is difficult.

The bend is another matter. Often the muscles "holding" the bend up (connected to the peritoneum) are loose and you can jiggle something around them, but sometimes not - this bend is probably the usual source of the 7" limit for comfort in many people. Playing around can sometimes get things to line up and allow for deeper penetration, but you do need to be very careful when pushing your limits and getting close to them. Sometimes it's better to just enjoy what you can do.

There's a post on my blog, Bottomtalk, that covers length link

12 inches is pretty extreme - listen to your body and accept that you probably won't be able to take it all unless you are willing to stretch out some of the things supporting your colon. Is it worth it?
06/24/2010
El-Jaro El-Jaro
WOW Scott!

That's a LOT of good info!

thanks!
06/25/2010
harohunter harohunter
You can get through the curve with double ended dildos that are fairly flexible. Lay on your left side and pull right leg up at 90* and relax. It may take a couple of tries but you should be able to make it. Ive taken 14" of 1.5 double dildo. When you hit the wall twist and push(not hard) the dildo may find its way around it may not.

Make sure to clean yourself out REALLY good. I mean really good when i plan to go deep 6 or more inches for me, I spend about 45 minutes cleaning myself out. The downside to enema's is water can get trapped some places and then you see it later.

Patience is key, it takes time. If you don't have at least an hour and a half to do it from start to finish don't even bother.

Even though you may have the correct steps it may not work. This is OKAY, people just cant.
06/26/2010
harohunter harohunter
Quote:
Originally posted by ScottA
There are a couple different things at work in the rectum. There are three Houston's Valves a couple of inches in that things can hang up on, and the puborectal sling that will catch stuff if it's tight (that sounds like it might be the ...
I just read your whole blog entry, that is a lot of good info and I agree with all of it.

Oh and one more thing LUBE LUBE LUBE LUBE! Not just on entry and the toy but be sure to squirt a couple of ounces in the ass!
06/29/2010
White Wolf White Wolf
Quote:
Originally posted by ScottA
There are a couple different things at work in the rectum. There are three Houston's Valves a couple of inches in that things can hang up on, and the puborectal sling that will catch stuff if it's tight (that sounds like it might be the ...
wow, that is ... exactly the type of information i was looking for. Thanks!
06/30/2010
Why Not? Why Not?
Wow! Thanks for the informative thread everyone. It answered a lot of questions I always had. I also helps me make more informed decisions when it comes to purchasing toys. Thanks!
05/28/2012
squire squire
Super informative post! Love the knowledge and experience on this site.
05/28/2012
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