Although I enjoy anal once my partner and I have actually gotten into it, initiating it is difficult because it is always painful for me starting off, even with some of the lubes we've tried, and starting off with smaller toys, etc. I am fine with toys, even larger than he is! And position doesn't seem to matter! So, we got to wondering if maybe using a better lube would change things a bit! So, which of the following do you think would be best to purchase, and if there is something else you'd suggest please let me know!