my first time

sheissweet sheissweet
I want to try anal sex but I'm afraid that it will hurt or it will be messy.Is anal sex like losing your virginity in that it hurts only the first time but after that it gets easier?What should I do before he sticks his penis in my butt?What should i do during insertion and when he starts to thrust his penis in and out to make it less painful?Afterwards is there any pain or mess that I should Expect?I have watched videos that show both people having a good time.The videos do show a woman in what looks like slight discomfort and I don't see any poop on the mans penis when he takes it out of her butt.Any tips or tricks would be nice.I hope to some day try double penetration but I need to first get the hang of anal before I can attempt something like that.I want to hear from both men and women on this matter.
05/19/2011
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ToyGurl ToyGurl
Quote:
Originally posted by sheissweet
I want to try anal sex but I'm afraid that it will hurt or it will be messy.Is anal sex like losing your virginity in that it hurts only the first time but after that it gets easier?What should I do before he sticks his penis in my butt?What ... More
Please purchase an anal douche. The Colt Anal Douche is a really great one for beginners. The review is on my profile. Doing this about two-four hours before anal sex will get rid of the mess. Staying well lubricated and fully relaxed will eliminate any pain. Anal sex should not hurt at all for anyone. As long as you are relaxed, it will be smooth cruising. It just depends if you like the sensation or not.

I recommend also playing with a butt plug first.
05/19/2011
sheissweet sheissweet
What position is preferred when attempting anal sex?
05/20/2011
El-Jaro El-Jaro
I don't remember where or when I read it, but Ron Jeremy wrote a GREAT article about prepping for anal sex.

If I remember right, he said the best position was heads down ass up.

He's had sex more times than _____ has had ______, so he knows what he's talking about.
05/20/2011
zensgirl10 zensgirl10
Quote:
Originally posted by sheissweet
I want to try anal sex but I'm afraid that it will hurt or it will be messy.Is anal sex like losing your virginity in that it hurts only the first time but after that it gets easier?What should I do before he sticks his penis in my butt?What ... More
I am debating on anal sex and I find it very scary and painful just thinking about it. let me know how it goes after you try it. I am curious to see if it hurts like #3!! after the first time.
05/22/2011
zensgirl10 zensgirl10
Quote:
Originally posted by ToyGurl
Please purchase an anal douche. The Colt Anal Douche is a really great one for beginners. The review is on my profile. Doing this about two-four hours before anal sex will get rid of the mess. Staying well lubricated and fully relaxed will eliminate ... More
I am going to read your review right now. thank you!
05/22/2011
Howells Howells
You don't need douche if you eat healthy and have a normal metabolism. If you are empty, you are empty. I'd suggest a thin anal plug for first and a lube to try how it feels. It's less messy than trying to fool around with a finger. Then he could enter you after some time when you are relaxed, I'd prefer that with a coondom.
05/23/2011
LilyLust LilyLust
the best I ever got was "just relax" if your to tense it will definitely hurt at first but take it slow and relax and it is a much enjoyable experience.
05/29/2011
need4fun2469 need4fun2469
when my ex first tried it she used a product callad analeze(sp) she applied it 15 minutes before hand. It numbs the area it is applied to. After a few sessions she didn't need it any more.
06/01/2011
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