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We usually need a little more "warmup" for anal.
Just a side note, you said you've recently started doing ATM. What does it taste like?
Good, honest question. It doesn't "taste or smell", both of which would have been a "stopper" for me, I believe. We have been doing analingus (anal kissing, licking and tonguing) since forever. Nothing new there, but I never could put something in my mouth, toy or penis, that had been up into me...until I wiped it with a sterile wipe (Wet One's, always at bedside). I have a friend who has done ATM for ages, and another couple who started about three years ago, and were literally laughing at us, since they said "what you are doing is SO close, what is the big deal"?
Amyway, we always take a good shower before such activity. A little soapy finger in each of our tushs is the norm. Then we make sure no one has to go to the bathroom well before our play time (thus lower colon and rectum should be "empty". We use a gel lube, either unscented/unflavored, or, if I suspect ahead of time, I may be doing anything ATM, I might choose one of our scented and flavored "gel" lubes. Thus, if anything, his cock or our toy may taste like pineapple or sour apple, cherry or passionfruit. That's about it.
Upon pulling out, I might check to make sure his "tool" is not soiled in any way (honest...it has never been. I would indeed draw the line there), but other then perhaps a wipe of my hand (so I don't get a mouth full of gel), I now enjoy the once in a while "adventure" of pulling him out of my tush (or vagina) at the last moment, and sucking him off hard. Sometimes pulling him out, sucking on him and putting him back in "back there" over and over (till he cannot take it), is an amazing feeling and let me tell you, he cums SO hard....it's a sure fire 19 on a scale of 1 to 10!!!
I will add one more thing. Our friends who do ATM also, swear they will "never again do a pre sex enema, or "douche". They say that they are sure it "stirs things up, rather then clean things out" and they never have soiling either (since they stopped using enema's, that is).
Just a little FYI if you plan to "play that way".