Pain with doggy style anal sex?

briluminary briluminary
If I'm on top, I don't have an issue taking it anally, but when I attempt to receive doggy style, it hurts a ton, is it like that for anyone else? It's private voting.
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Yes
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No
24  (80%)
Total votes: 30
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08/12/2011
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Bignuf Bignuf
Quote:
Originally posted by briluminary
If I'm on top, I don't have an issue taking it anally, but when I attempt to receive doggy style, it hurts a ton, is it like that for anyone else? It's private voting.
Have not done "doggy" in ages. Despite it being the "porn staple", we love anal and ONLY do it with me missionary style or laying on my side. I can do it
"on top", but don't like being "on top" for any kind of sex, vag or anal. Just me.
08/12/2011
A Closet Slut (aka nipplepeople) A Closet Slut (aka nipplepeople)
Quote:
Originally posted by briluminary
If I'm on top, I don't have an issue taking it anally, but when I attempt to receive doggy style, it hurts a ton, is it like that for anyone else? It's private voting.
I'm in the same situation with doggie anal, that's why I do it missionary.
08/14/2011
ScottA ScottA
Depending on how each of you is built some positions will work better than others, including some being a bit painful. That happens to me occasionally with certain dildos/configurations - just mark it down as a position that doesn't work and try something different.
08/16/2011
sktb0007 sktb0007
Never tried..
08/17/2011
LavenderSkies LavenderSkies
No, I have not
11/14/2011
Bignuf Bignuf
Quote:
Originally posted by briluminary
If I'm on top, I don't have an issue taking it anally, but when I attempt to receive doggy style, it hurts a ton, is it like that for anyone else? It's private voting.
That is the one position we NEVER do for that very reason. Forget the porn movie standard. We love anal, but only if I am on my side, with him behind me (I am on the bed, at the edge and he is standing) or with us kind of scissor spooned, OR my favorite, which is missionary, legs up over his shoulders or feet on his chest, a pillow under my tush (Jaz or heart from Liberator are perfect for this) and in that way, he can enter me anally, and still play with my clit, use toys or fingers in my vagina, play with my breasts and we can look at each other eye to eye. All that and NO PAIN in those positions. Forget the Doggy for me. NEVER has worked comfortably,,,,and as anyone who has read my posts knows, I am ALL about PLEASURE and NOT AT ALL about pain.
11/14/2011
P'Gell P'Gell
I used to have vaginal and abdominal pain during rear entry sex, (not anal, just rear entry PIV sex.) It turned out I had several endometrial implants, (growths of endometrial tissue which are not inside the uterus) from a condition called endometriosis and when the growths were removed during a surgical procedure (it was not at all bad as surgical procedures go, I was home by dinner time) the pain went away.

Endometriosis can also be a cause of internal pain from anal sex. (When I had endomentrosis, my husband and I were not yet having anal sex, so I don't know if there would have been pain.) Endometrial implants and adhesions can form on the outside of the rectum and lower bowel, as well as parts of the uterus and other organs where referred pain can occur causing pain when certain parts of the body have pressure on them.
11/14/2011
Istanbull Istanbull
Nope, can't say I have any pain. I love it from behind.
04/30/2012
All His All His
I do not like it much in any other position other than doggie style
05/04/2012
Bignuf Bignuf
Quote:
Originally posted by All His
I do not like it much in any other position other than doggie style
I hear that a lot on this site, and for some odd reason, even as a fan of anal play, that IS the position that does not work for us. It is NOT that we have not tried, it is just the ONE position that hurts. No matter how slow or gentle my hubby is, the angle and everything is WRONG. On my side or back...bring it on baby, my tush is your playground !!!!
05/05/2012
Bignuf Bignuf
Quote:
Originally posted by P'Gell
I used to have vaginal and abdominal pain during rear entry sex, (not anal, just rear entry PIV sex.) It turned out I had several endometrial implants, (growths of endometrial tissue which are not inside the uterus) from a condition called ... More
VERY interesting...especial ly since I had SILENT (no symptoms) but severe endometriosis, finally found on laproscopic exam, and lasered for a LONG time (it was all over the place).
05/05/2012
bayosgirl bayosgirl
It isn't "painful", per se, but definitely feels less comfortable than other positions. Same with vaginal sex. I like being on top for anal, because it allows me to control penetration. Maybe this would work for you as well?
05/06/2012
prettynpink prettynpink
When I do like anal, I am always on top and we can finish that way, otherwise we end up stopping and switching back to vaginal
05/08/2012
Bignuf Bignuf
Quote:
Originally posted by bayosgirl
It isn't "painful", per se, but definitely feels less comfortable than other positions. Same with vaginal sex. I like being on top for anal, because it allows me to control penetration. Maybe this would work for you as well?
I am SO odd this way. I know a lot of woman enjoy vaginal or anal "on top". I just have NEVER found this comfortable. He can play in my tush all day long, but it has to be spooning or laying on my side or me on my back. Anything else just plain hurts. In those positions it is ALL GOOD. I guess I am just built different!!!!????
05/08/2012
melliegirl melliegirl
Quote:
Originally posted by briluminary
If I'm on top, I don't have an issue taking it anally, but when I attempt to receive doggy style, it hurts a ton, is it like that for anyone else? It's private voting.
try having your legs close together
02/16/2013
Incendiaire Incendiaire
I don't get pain.
02/16/2013
brevado brevado
No problem for me
02/16/2013
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Unique posters: 14