What products enhance anal sex the best for women?

tattedsexy71 tattedsexy71
i am curious as to how women learn to enjoy anal sex? my partner for 14 months now isnt an anal sex monster or anything...lol..but he does like the occasional literal BOOTY call every so often..(meaning he likes to tap that booty instead of the vagina) this experience isnt all that pleasurable for me...i manage to bear it and make him feel like im half ass enjoying it while its happening, but in reality its uncomfortable and mostly painful during the beginning and most of the way thru it and never gets to be enjoyable for me and im hoping he hurrys up....i want to learn to enjoy this with him...i want to know what products if any actually do aid in making the experience less painful and more enjoyable for woman like me who have a difficult time with it....help please!
06/28/2012
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ScottA ScottA
Time.

That and lube.

You didn't say how you do anal, but if it is anything like lubing up followed by "bend over honey, here it comes" it's being done wrong.

There's no magic product. The "numbing lubes" are dangerous and should be avoided. You need to go slowly and learn how to relax and enjoy the sensations. I was writing more, but it got very long - so I'm going to post it on my blog in the next day or so (I'll put a link back on here).
06/28/2012
Gunsmoke Gunsmoke
Quote:
Originally posted by ScottA
Time.

That and lube.

You didn't say how you do anal, but if it is anything like lubing up followed by "bend over honey, here it comes" it's being done wrong.

There's no magic product. The "numbing ... More
I agree - he needs to slow down and use some smaller toys to help you relax and open up - and as Scott says - use plenty of very good lube. We like silicone lube - but that limits toy selection to non-silicon toys like glass and metal.

But there is an advantage to glass and metal is that if they are sized right - with just a little lube they will slide in pretty easily. After penetration I like to pause as my anus adjusts to it's new intruder - before beginning any thrusting.

Tell your guy that it's in his best interest to go slow - the more you like it, the more often you can oblige. Eventually you should actually become aroused - if that's not happening - you're going to fast - stop - then start over with fingers and small toys.
06/29/2012
ScottA ScottA
Took a long time, but here it is:

link
07/07/2012
CutiePatootie CutiePatootie
I love anal and my husband loves giving it. He really knows what he's doing though. Lube is what helps the most and I feel it's most comfortable when we're facing each other. Try different positions, not just bending over and taking it. Warming up with a butt plug can help too! The best lube I've used thus far is the Anal Lube, it's pretty thick consistency, but it really works!
07/09/2012
MK434 MK434
I love anal. I start by sitting on top of my husband and slowly putting it in and out a little bit at a time with lots of lube and after just a minute I am streched out enough for it to feel great no matter how hard or fast we go. I then move to all fours. I love it. You might also want to stat with a good dildo. The important things is that you set the speed at first and the more often you do it the easier it is. I hope this helps!
07/09/2012
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