We both have had lovers who plan for anal well in advance. 1. Right lube. 2. Right toys 3. Right music 4. Maybe enema or douche 5. Right day's activities for relaxation....etc. Others are just, "hey baby, put it in my bumm"...SO, do YOU or your lover lay out the supplies and plan with military precision or is it "whatever happens, all good...there is the right toy and lube SOMEWHERE in that big drawer"?
Reach and grab or planned and Laid out...toys for anal?
06/12/2011
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Most of the time it just happens. Once in a while we will talk about it to get the other excited for a while.
06/12/2011
I usually use the same toys to get warmed up, so I go ahead and grab them when I get started.
06/12/2011
Sometimes we plan ahead what we will use, or My Man will take out the toys he wants to use on me and hide them under his pillow while I'm in the bath tub.
Other times, we just let things happen.
I love when I come in and know he has things planned, I know he will really be into it. He also will sometimes put a DVD on and I know he'll really be revved up when that happens.
Other times, we just let things happen.
I love when I come in and know he has things planned, I know he will really be into it. He also will sometimes put a DVD on and I know he'll really be revved up when that happens.
06/12/2011
I both prepare and am spontaneous. I go with the flow of the session, honestly.
06/12/2011
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It goes both ways. Sometimes we plan for it and lay out the toys and other times we just go with the flow.
Originally posted by
Bignuf
We both have had lovers who plan for anal well in advance. 1. Right lube. 2. Right toys 3. Right music 4. Maybe enema or douche 5. Right day's activities for relaxation....etc. Others are just, "hey baby, put it in my bumm"...SO, do
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We both have had lovers who plan for anal well in advance. 1. Right lube. 2. Right toys 3. Right music 4. Maybe enema or douche 5. Right day's activities for relaxation....etc. Others are just, "hey baby, put it in my bumm"...SO, do YOU or your lover lay out the supplies and plan with military precision or is it "whatever happens, all good...there is the right toy and lube SOMEWHERE in that big drawer"?
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06/12/2011
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I haven't done too much anal and I still don't make it that far, but once in a while I get froggy and try it out. Plus there are certain times when it is reqested of me, so I try anyways
Originally posted by
Bignuf
We both have had lovers who plan for anal well in advance. 1. Right lube. 2. Right toys 3. Right music 4. Maybe enema or douche 5. Right day's activities for relaxation....etc. Others are just, "hey baby, put it in my bumm"...SO, do
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We both have had lovers who plan for anal well in advance. 1. Right lube. 2. Right toys 3. Right music 4. Maybe enema or douche 5. Right day's activities for relaxation....etc. Others are just, "hey baby, put it in my bumm"...SO, do YOU or your lover lay out the supplies and plan with military precision or is it "whatever happens, all good...there is the right toy and lube SOMEWHERE in that big drawer"?
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I have the Icicles 13 and that is the only thing that has made it in my ass.
06/12/2011
usually it just happens with the flow of things
06/12/2011
It depends. Sometimes it's all planned out, other times it's spontaneous, and sometimes it's planned out but things change on the spur of the moment.
06/12/2011
I like following a flow, and my guy is pretty spontaneous. I think when he's here it's gonna stay pretty unplanned (I have decided that I want to be able to try actual anal sex, but that's an ultimate goal; I'm not planning everything on the way there)
06/12/2011
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Yes, this!
Originally posted by
P'Gell
Sometimes we plan ahead what we will use, or My Man will take out the toys he wants to use on me and hide them under his pillow while I'm in the bath tub.
Other times, we just let things happen.
I love when I come in and know he ... more
Other times, we just let things happen.
I love when I come in and know he ... more
Sometimes we plan ahead what we will use, or My Man will take out the toys he wants to use on me and hide them under his pillow while I'm in the bath tub.
Other times, we just let things happen.
I love when I come in and know he has things planned, I know he will really be into it. He also will sometimes put a DVD on and I know he'll really be revved up when that happens.
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Other times, we just let things happen.
I love when I come in and know he has things planned, I know he will really be into it. He also will sometimes put a DVD on and I know he'll really be revved up when that happens.
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I love it when he plans! I like to plan an evening every now and then too. I appreciate spontaneity too.
06/13/2011
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Do you "warm up" with your partner there?
Originally posted by
CAKES
I usually use the same toys to get warmed up, so I go ahead and grab them when I get started.
06/13/2011
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If he "plans", are you always okay with WHAT he planned?
Originally posted by
Redboxbaby
Yes, this!
I love it when he plans! I like to plan an evening every now and then too. I appreciate spontaneity too.
I love it when he plans! I like to plan an evening every now and then too. I appreciate spontaneity too.
06/13/2011
Cleanliness keeps us in the mood, anything otherwise is a sure killer. I don't ever tell her "Hey go shower, sexy time in 5" but when I want to be sure I invite her to the shower with me.
And as far as the toys; she's still new to anal so I make sure everything is streamlined and in order so as we make the size transitions there will be no distractions (like ambling for the boxes under the bed with a stick)
And as far as the toys; she's still new to anal so I make sure everything is streamlined and in order so as we make the size transitions there will be no distractions (like ambling for the boxes under the bed with a stick)
06/13/2011
We both love anal play and butt plugs are usually part of our sexual encounters. I just "know" if I am ready for anal fucking and my b/f signals his readiness by choosing a harness and dil for me to peg him.
06/13/2011
I like to have an enema if I haven't been to the toilet within a few hrs of play time. I always grab my lube and which toys I'm going to be using. Nothing worse than having to stop and get up just to get a second, third.... toy.
06/13/2011
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Hell yea! His planning tells me he is really excited and that excitement makes me crazy horny! I am always up for anything, yes, even butt sex (rarely would I ever turn it down, it is as much a part of our sex life as oral or PIV sex is).
Originally posted by
Bignuf
If he "plans", are you always okay with WHAT he planned?
The only time I am not up for it is if my tummy is really upset or I am feeling flu-ish.
06/13/2011
I usually plan out anal in advance. I get the lube, the toys for warm up, and the toy I want to end with.
06/13/2011
When I know she will be game for 'doing me' I will totally plan ahead. Shower, clean out and I grab a few toys for her to use on me. Which toys she uses is up to her.
06/13/2011
Most of the time we're spontaneous. He usually follows my lead, but my lead isn't planned out at all. Every once in a while when he takes an initiative it's really exciting, though.
06/13/2011
for the most part we just go with the flow, everything we need for any kind of sex we feel like is in the bedside drawer....somewhere.
06/30/2011
It's totally unplanned. Just what ever suits your fancy.
10/20/2011
It's usually planned, but sometimes not.
10/20/2011
I plan. I want to make sure I am clean and everything. I take BM and then a shower. Usually start in the shower by myself.
10/20/2011
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Thank goodness I don't have to be that precise with sex yet. I get worked up enough about planning everything else!
Originally posted by
Bignuf
We both have had lovers who plan for anal well in advance. 1. Right lube. 2. Right toys 3. Right music 4. Maybe enema or douche 5. Right day's activities for relaxation....etc. Others are just, "hey baby, put it in my bumm"...SO, do
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more
We both have had lovers who plan for anal well in advance. 1. Right lube. 2. Right toys 3. Right music 4. Maybe enema or douche 5. Right day's activities for relaxation....etc. Others are just, "hey baby, put it in my bumm"...SO, do YOU or your lover lay out the supplies and plan with military precision or is it "whatever happens, all good...there is the right toy and lube SOMEWHERE in that big drawer"?
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08/20/2012
I have to be in the mood and have an empty feeling...so Planned.
08/20/2012
I have to start with getting clean & having a B/M maybe an enema, then starting small and going larger I am still a novice back there, once I get used to the size I might up size. So it requires some planning.
08/21/2012
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