Reach and grab or planned and Laid out...toys for anal?

Bignuf Bignuf
We both have had lovers who plan for anal well in advance. 1. Right lube. 2. Right toys 3. Right music 4. Maybe enema or douche 5. Right day's activities for relaxation....etc. Others are just, "hey baby, put it in my bumm"...SO, do YOU or your lover lay out the supplies and plan with military precision or is it "whatever happens, all good...there is the right toy and lube SOMEWHERE in that big drawer"?
Answers (public voting - your screen name will appear in the results):
I plan and prepare
CAKES , P'Gell , cherryredhead88 , A Closet Slut (aka nipplepeople) , Redboxbaby , String of Lights , slynch , Shellz31 , Alyjazz , kelaaa33wish , ToyBoy , ToyTimeTim , kokopelli , Gunsmoke , Mr Dj , Hallmar82 , Beck , Trysexual , Two Grand
19
What ever happens, happens
stlouisxxx , Sir , P'Gell , padmeamidala , cobiffle , MaryExy , Redboxbaby , zracer , slynch , Karen Affeldt , ellieprobable , lanky , Antipova , thaterry , Gunsmoke , Gallowraven , Lucky21 , ViVix
18
OTHER.....??? Explain please
Antipova , potstickers
2
Total votes: 39 (34 voters)
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06/12/2011
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stlouisxxx stlouisxxx
Most of the time it just happens. Once in a while we will talk about it to get the other excited for a while.
06/12/2011
CAKES CAKES
I usually use the same toys to get warmed up, so I go ahead and grab them when I get started.
06/12/2011
P'Gell P'Gell
Sometimes we plan ahead what we will use, or My Man will take out the toys he wants to use on me and hide them under his pillow while I'm in the bath tub.

Other times, we just let things happen.

I love when I come in and know he has things planned, I know he will really be into it. He also will sometimes put a DVD on and I know he'll really be revved up when that happens.
06/12/2011
Sir Sir
I both prepare and am spontaneous. I go with the flow of the session, honestly.
06/12/2011
padmeamidala padmeamidala
Quote:
Originally posted by Bignuf
We both have had lovers who plan for anal well in advance. 1. Right lube. 2. Right toys 3. Right music 4. Maybe enema or douche 5. Right day's activities for relaxation....etc. Others are just, "hey baby, put it in my bumm"...SO, do ... More
It goes both ways. Sometimes we plan for it and lay out the toys and other times we just go with the flow.
06/12/2011
cherryredhead88 cherryredhead88
Quote:
Originally posted by Bignuf
We both have had lovers who plan for anal well in advance. 1. Right lube. 2. Right toys 3. Right music 4. Maybe enema or douche 5. Right day's activities for relaxation....etc. Others are just, "hey baby, put it in my bumm"...SO, do ... More
I haven't done too much anal and I still don't make it that far, but once in a while I get froggy and try it out. Plus there are certain times when it is reqested of me, so I try anyways

I have the Icicles 13 and that is the only thing that has made it in my ass.
06/12/2011
cobiffle cobiffle
usually it just happens with the flow of things
06/12/2011
ScottA ScottA
It depends. Sometimes it's all planned out, other times it's spontaneous, and sometimes it's planned out but things change on the spur of the moment.
06/12/2011
MaryExy MaryExy
I like following a flow, and my guy is pretty spontaneous. I think when he's here it's gonna stay pretty unplanned (I have decided that I want to be able to try actual anal sex, but that's an ultimate goal; I'm not planning everything on the way there)
06/12/2011
Redboxbaby Redboxbaby
Quote:
Originally posted by P'Gell
Sometimes we plan ahead what we will use, or My Man will take out the toys he wants to use on me and hide them under his pillow while I'm in the bath tub.

Other times, we just let things happen.

I love when I come in and know he ... More
Yes, this!

I love it when he plans! I like to plan an evening every now and then too. I appreciate spontaneity too.
06/13/2011
Bignuf Bignuf
Quote:
Originally posted by CAKES
I usually use the same toys to get warmed up, so I go ahead and grab them when I get started.
Do you "warm up" with your partner there?
06/13/2011
Bignuf Bignuf
Quote:
Originally posted by Redboxbaby
Yes, this!

I love it when he plans! I like to plan an evening every now and then too. I appreciate spontaneity too.
If he "plans", are you always okay with WHAT he planned?
06/13/2011
String of Lights String of Lights
Cleanliness keeps us in the mood, anything otherwise is a sure killer. I don't ever tell her "Hey go shower, sexy time in 5" but when I want to be sure I invite her to the shower with me.

And as far as the toys; she's still new to anal so I make sure everything is streamlined and in order so as we make the size transitions there will be no distractions (like ambling for the boxes under the bed with a stick)
06/13/2011
Liz2 Liz2
We both love anal play and butt plugs are usually part of our sexual encounters. I just "know" if I am ready for anal fucking and my b/f signals his readiness by choosing a harness and dil for me to peg him.
06/13/2011
Shellz31 Shellz31
I like to have an enema if I haven't been to the toilet within a few hrs of play time. I always grab my lube and which toys I'm going to be using. Nothing worse than having to stop and get up just to get a second, third.... toy.
06/13/2011
Redboxbaby Redboxbaby
Quote:
Originally posted by Bignuf
If he "plans", are you always okay with WHAT he planned?
Hell yea! His planning tells me he is really excited and that excitement makes me crazy horny! I am always up for anything, yes, even butt sex (rarely would I ever turn it down, it is as much a part of our sex life as oral or PIV sex is).

The only time I am not up for it is if my tummy is really upset or I am feeling flu-ish.
06/13/2011
ToyBoy ToyBoy
I usually plan out anal in advance. I get the lube, the toys for warm up, and the toy I want to end with.
06/13/2011
ToyTimeTim ToyTimeTim
When I know she will be game for 'doing me' I will totally plan ahead. Shower, clean out and I grab a few toys for her to use on me. Which toys she uses is up to her.
06/13/2011
Antipova Antipova
Most of the time we're spontaneous. He usually follows my lead, but my lead isn't planned out at all. Every once in a while when he takes an initiative it's really exciting, though.
06/13/2011
Gallowraven Gallowraven
for the most part we just go with the flow, everything we need for any kind of sex we feel like is in the bedside drawer....somewhere.
06/30/2011
Lucky21 Lucky21
It's totally unplanned. Just what ever suits your fancy.
10/20/2011
Hallmar82 Hallmar82
It's usually planned, but sometimes not.
10/20/2011
Beck Beck
I plan. I want to make sure I am clean and everything. I take BM and then a shower. Usually start in the shower by myself.
10/20/2011
ViVix ViVix
Quote:
Originally posted by Bignuf
We both have had lovers who plan for anal well in advance. 1. Right lube. 2. Right toys 3. Right music 4. Maybe enema or douche 5. Right day's activities for relaxation....etc. Others are just, "hey baby, put it in my bumm"...SO, do ... More
Thank goodness I don't have to be that precise with sex yet. I get worked up enough about planning everything else!
08/20/2012
Trysexual Trysexual
I have to be in the mood and have an empty feeling...so Planned.
08/20/2012
Two Grand Two Grand
I have to start with getting clean & having a B/M maybe an enema, then starting small and going larger I am still a novice back there, once I get used to the size I might up size. So it requires some planning.
08/21/2012
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Unique posters: 24