Scared of anal with new partner

momoxd11 momoxd11
i have had anal before but with my new bf i am a tad bit frightened. unlike past partners he has a thick penis. we tried to do it but it hurt and i said no. is there any lubes or products that can help
07/06/2012
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Rossie Rossie
Welcome to Eden, how's the weather in Monterey right now, any fog hanging around?

Did you have any anal foreplay or did you let him go right in? It's
best to start by using an anal toy in a size you're comfortable with and LOTS of anal lube, let your tush be accustomed to whatever's going in next; I always prepare myself by wearing a butt plug (Njoy Pure plug medium). It's also a good idea to train yourself by gradually increasing the size of the plugs to something close to your BF's size.
07/06/2012
momoxd11 momoxd11
Quote:
Originally posted by Rossie
Welcome to Eden, how's the weather in Monterey right now, any fog hanging around?

Did you have any anal foreplay or did you let him go right in? It's
best to start by using an anal toy in a size you're comfortable with and ... More
thank i have actually been debating about get the juli ashton beginner anal kit ... it seems like itll help because of the progressive sizes
07/09/2012
ScottA ScottA
You'll need to do some warm-up/foreplay and learn to trust him. Since you've done anal before I don't think you need to go back to a beginner's toy, but do get something about as big as your last partner.

Have your current boyfriend start with his finger and then slowly move up so you can learn to trust him.
07/11/2012
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