Welcome to Eden, how's the weather in Monterey right now, any fog hanging around?
Did you have any anal foreplay or did you let him go right in? It's
best to start by using an anal toy in a size you're comfortable with and LOTS of anal lube
, let your tush be accustomed to whatever's going in next; I always prepare myself by wearing a butt plug (Njoy Pure plug medium
). It's also a good idea to train yourself by gradually increasing the size of the plugs to something close to your BF's size.