Severe Irritable Bowel and using a glass toy? warning "graphic,gross"

kinky girlfriend kinky girlfriend
ok there is a $15 glass toy I was buying for vaginal use because it would work and is so cheap its on the 50% off sale..I have severe ibs it interferes so much my life is being stuck in the bathroom all day then working a few hours and going to bed. I was wondering wat effect the toy and lube could have on my severe incomplete evacuation problems if it would help me go..I just want to try it a little I'm not doing this anal thing for pleasure. I'm so bloated and look pregnant 24/7 so just regular sex is uncomfortable..if you have the anal health pleasure book could you take a look for me and see if ther is anything about ibs in it? the toy will definently get mucus and matter on it as I never have a complete movement even after being in there all day..its piece by piece,stuck pieces I have to get out or they won't come out no matter how long I sit or push..
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Originally posted by kinky girlfriend
ok there is a $15 glass toy I was buying for vaginal use because it would work and is so cheap its on the 50% off sale..I have severe ibs it interferes so much my life is being stuck in the bathroom all day then working a few hours and going to bed. ... More
Well what is the cause of your IBS. I mean there are different reasons why people develop IBS including food allergies, diet, and certain illnesses. Have you gone to a doctor for it? And are we talking about clinical diagnosed IBS or self diagnosed? By what you describe it sounds like you are having food allergies and maybe need to work on your diet.
07/29/2010
kinky girlfriend kinky girlfriend
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Originally posted by PonyPlay
Well what is the cause of your IBS. I mean there are different reasons why people develop IBS including food allergies, diet, and certain illnesses. Have you gone to a doctor for it? And are we talking about clinical diagnosed IBS or self diagnosed? ... More
yes been diagnosed by a doctor been there lots of times...no allergies. No the

yes I'm going to work on my diet starting now I'm so sensitive to foods. Its not allergies but the ibs symptoms cause me to have to eat low fat diary free(I'm not even lactose intolerant) I'm on this site link

but I'm not on here to argue with anyone just FYI and don't want to discuss more about my ibs Its not something I like to talk about much and I have the helpforibs books they are great.I'm getting on the diet I came on here to ask about the toy and if there was any info on the pleasure any healthy book about ibs

yes I suppose it sounds similar to allergies but its your symptoms and over reaction to digestive stimulant foods I ca n't have pop or caffeine give me cramps or problems w hen before I had IBS I never had a problem with any food never any allergies.

ok enough of that lets get to what I asked about
07/29/2010
PonyPlay PonyPlay
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Originally posted by kinky girlfriend
yes been diagnosed by a doctor been there lots of times...no allergies. No the

yes I'm going to work on my diet starting now I'm so sensitive to foods. Its not allergies but the ibs symptoms cause me to have to eat low fat diary ... More
I have a friend that has really really bad IBS. I don't really know if using a glass toy to put up there will work though. I guess I think it would probably shove everything up instead of out. I don't know if it would cause more problems then help.
07/30/2010
kinky girlfriend kinky girlfriend
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Originally posted by PonyPlay
I have a friend that has really really bad IBS. I don't really know if using a glass toy to put up there will work though. I guess I think it would probably shove everything up instead of out. I don't know if it would cause more problems then help.
thanks for your help..I think I'll stick to vaginal but I bought the anal health book perhaps something useful is in there.
07/30/2010
Rossie Rossie
Anal toys won't be much help with your IBS problem. Try to go on a daily WILD RICE diet (1/2 wild rice + 1/2 plain white rice combination). I have a slight constipation/IBS problem. Ever since I switched to eating the fibrous WILD RICE combo instead of white rice only, my digestion system is operating normally and smoothly. Or maybe eat ACTIVIA yogurt daily will help.
07/30/2010
PonyPlay PonyPlay
You know being a vegan really really helps with all of that I was a vegan for about 3 years and it always cleaned me out.
07/31/2010
kinky girlfriend kinky girlfriend
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Originally posted by Rossie
Anal toys won't be much help with your IBS problem. Try to go on a daily WILD RICE diet (1/2 wild rice + 1/2 plain white rice combination). I have a slight constipation/IBS problem. Ever since I switched to eating the fibrous WILD RICE combo ... More
im not consipated I spend many trips in the bathroom going a little here and there everyday..If I get insoluble fiber which is in fruits and vegtables It will make my gut hurt and feel awful probly get a headache and not sleep because of all the discomfort and I will get the shits. I'm more on the D side but I'm not actual diareah..its called psuedo dirrahea when you have many bms a day..and I can't say I have many its just not a complete one incomplete evacuation is a big part of my symtoms..right now my gut is burning and everything turned to mush which means no formed bm's for a few days and hardly going if there isn't some form or firmness to it It actually makes it so I don't go. there is a pain in my side ever since I took pepcid ac..I noticed a pattern everytime I take it my gut is messed up for a week and I get severe urgency feelings.

I can't have dairy of any kind it really messes up mysystem makes my gut churn and burn and messes up my bm's even more. I'm a sever case of ibs and must heavily modify my diet. no red meat,no caffeine,no alcholo no dairy,low fat...low insoluble fiber any fruits and vegtables cooked to a mush or blended very very well,well I blend strawberries after I cut the seeds off because ther is so much fiber in the seeds and causes spasms and more problems for me.

I did try the activia it was a disaster..also tried probiotics did nothing for me. I'm really sensitive to medication actually makes me worse I won't take pepcid ac or cold medicine or anything ever again unless its life or death or I'm really ill or somethin. being sensitive to medication is common in ibs

Before having ibs I never had a problem with anything.
07/31/2010
Alicia Alicia
I would say that if you have severe IBS I'd talk with a doctor about it before using any kind of anal toys. I'm pretty sure that how the others are saying, it'll likely just push things up more.
07/31/2010
kinky girlfriend kinky girlfriend
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Originally posted by Alicia
I would say that if you have severe IBS I'd talk with a doctor about it before using any kind of anal toys. I'm pretty sure that how the others are saying, it'll likely just push things up more.
no need to talk with my doctor I think a toy can work maybe a small plug or putting a toy in a little way maybe it will open things up a little more for me to push things out better? I will be very slow and careful. maybe put in a skinny one a ways then push down a little take it out and just see what happens...

oh yes I orderd the anal health and pleasure book maybe something in ther can help..btw I have a couple support tickets open since yesterday and one today...is someone going to take a look soon?
07/31/2010
happeegrl03 happeegrl03
I have IBS and, although I like anal sex, I realized just this week that I cannot indulge in such activities. I have had awful diarrhea and gas ever since my anal play. I would talk to your doctor about it, if you are comfortable to do that. If not, I would suggest not going down the anal path (no pun intended).
07/31/2010
kinky girlfriend kinky girlfriend
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Originally posted by happeegrl03
I have IBS and, although I like anal sex, I realized just this week that I cannot indulge in such activities. I have had awful diarrhea and gas ever since my anal play. I would talk to your doctor about it, if you are comfortable to do that. If not, ... More
what kind of lube did u use? perhaps something in it irrated u? what toy did u use? would u mind saying?
07/31/2010
P'Gell P'Gell
If my IBS is acting up (and it has gotten about 99% better after years with absolutely NO dairy, no yogurt, no cheese, nothing from a cow's udder at all) I decline ANY anal action, because it does get things moving, but not necessarily in a pleasant way if I'm already cramping. If my gut is doing well, anal will definitely trigger some..um....action, but not immediately and not unpleasantly. Never had any issue with anything ON him or any toys, but I've been nearly recovered for over 10 years. I only have occasional symptoms, usually when I've accidentally been exposed to ANY dairy or other food intolerances, (which are different than allergies. There's no way to do scratch tests for intolerances. You just have to eliminate a food for several MONTHS to see how you do.)

I'd say if a glycerin suppository doesn't completely clean you out, and a regular enema doesn't either, I doubt an anal toy will either.

IBS effect the ENTIRE digestive system (your stomach filling can cause a Gastro Colic reflex and provoke the runs within minutes, nerves in the lower bowel being over or understimulated, a block in the intestine only allowing liquid though, but actually being caused by high colon constipation, these things can usually be diagnosed by a Colonoscopy, and the prep for the Colonoscopy WILL clean you out completely) not just the last few inches, so I can't really see that a toy would help.

But, if you are set on using it, I'd wait until you've been symptom free for a week or so, and then be gentle.
07/31/2010
kinky girlfriend kinky girlfriend
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Originally posted by P'Gell
If my IBS is acting up (and it has gotten about 99% better after years with absolutely NO dairy, no yogurt, no cheese, nothing from a cow's udder at all) I decline ANY anal action, because it does get things moving, but not necessarily in a ... More
have you heard of helpforibs.com? I bought the books I love that site. I'm going to get right on working on my diet until I get better It could take a long time for me because of the severity over the years.
07/31/2010
happeegrl03 happeegrl03
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Originally posted by kinky girlfriend
what kind of lube did u use? perhaps something in it irrated u? what toy did u use? would u mind saying?
hi.. i used wet silicone lube one day and the next day i used water based lube. The toy i used was a silicone toy with like balls on the shaft.. I also used the nubby g wand.. maybe the nubs were a bit too much? I didnt feel any pain at the time, far from it
07/31/2010
kinky girlfriend kinky girlfriend
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Originally posted by happeegrl03
hi.. i used wet silicone lube one day and the next day i used water based lube. The toy i used was a silicone toy with like balls on the shaft.. I also used the nubby g wand.. maybe the nubs were a bit too much? I didnt feel any pain at the time, far ... More
I didn't find it can u send a link to it?
07/31/2010
happeegrl03 happeegrl03
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Originally posted by kinky girlfriend
I didn't find it can u send a link to it?
I'm not sure what the silicone toy is because I got it from a store about 12 years ago. If you look at my profile you will see the review I wrote for the Nubby G Wand. I haven't yet figured out how to post links on here.
07/31/2010
El-Jaro El-Jaro
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Originally posted by happeegrl03
I'm not sure what the silicone toy is because I got it from a store about 12 years ago. If you look at my profile you will see the review I wrote for the Nubby G Wand. I haven't yet figured out how to post links on here.
To post links:

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take out the spaces though.
07/31/2010
happeegrl03 happeegrl03
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Originally posted by El-Jaro
To post links:

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take out the spaces though.
Let me know if this link works.

link
07/31/2010
PonyPlay PonyPlay
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Originally posted by kinky girlfriend
im not consipated I spend many trips in the bathroom going a little here and there everyday..If I get insoluble fiber which is in fruits and vegtables It will make my gut hurt and feel awful probly get a headache and not sleep because of all the ... More
I wonder if you just have weak rectal muscles and it's cause you to not be able to hold anything in? I mean just a thought but it sounds like it could be something different then IBS. And a lot of doctor slap a label on something if your symptoms are sorta in the same ballpark. It just sounds odd that no medication is working for you and that you have to go a little at a time. This also may sound really weird but have you ever had a stool sample analyzed by a doctor. Parasites cause IBS and are unaffected by the standard medications prescribed for IBS. It's worth a shot to better understand what going on. Parasites cause bloating, stomach cramps, poor digestion, and feeling like you have to go all the time. I know it's a freaky thought but anything to help you figure out what is going on.
08/01/2010
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Originally posted by PonyPlay
I wonder if you just have weak rectal muscles and it's cause you to not be able to hold anything in? I mean just a thought but it sounds like it could be something different then IBS. And a lot of doctor slap a label on something if your symptoms ... More
I had tests done like blood work x rays a scope or enama thing where they take a look up there..I did try the prescription amitiza and my ibs was diffrent back then I was constipated and yes it help sometiems but other times I almost had an accident. It's actually very common for people with ibs to find that prescriptions upset. Many people I have talked to said they can't take a prescription or any other the counter medication because it just upsets them. It doesn't matter if its a sleeping pil,a cold medicine or an ibs prescription it all upsets me. its not uncomond for people with severe ibs. I did have other tests done and tried other things just can't remmber wat. I have no insurance and plus I absolutly hate prescriptions and will not take them

all I know I best get back on track and modify my diet and figure it out and see hwo far it takes me I'm sure in a few monthes I'll be doing better than I am now
08/01/2010
PonyPlay PonyPlay
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Originally posted by kinky girlfriend
I had tests done like blood work x rays a scope or enama thing where they take a look up there..I did try the prescription amitiza and my ibs was diffrent back then I was constipated and yes it help sometiems but other times I almost had an accident. ... More
I can relate to the no insurance thing it sucks royally. It's called a colonoscopy where they take a look up there. They are looking for signs of colitis and deformations usually when it comes to IBS. One question, have you ever been tested for anemia? Diet will probably be the most helpful, it's hard with no insurance.
08/01/2010
Midway through Midway through
I didn't quite get to reading through all the posts because I'm sort of in a hurry but I'll check back tomorrow-first of all you're saying you have problems going, as in like, you can't go? If that's the case try adding vitamins and fiber to your diet. Also, changing your diet may help. Unhealthy diets full of fried foods and fat are often the culprit for IBS. I would also be careful what you push into your rectum if you're having problems going-your walls could be irritated already from it.
08/01/2010
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Originally posted by Midway through
I didn't quite get to reading through all the posts because I'm sort of in a hurry but I'll check back tomorrow-first of all you're saying you have problems going, as in like, you can't go? If that's the case try adding ... More
I go everyday I just can't sit down say 1-3 times and be done for the day i'm in ther like 10 times a little here and there coming probly because of all the spasms andd bloating its not one long bm.fruits and vegtables tear my gut up and give me watery stool. I have to eat them really carefully like cooked to a mush in small quantities with lots of soluble fiber....
08/01/2010
Alicia Alicia
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Originally posted by kinky girlfriend
no need to talk with my doctor I think a toy can work maybe a small plug or putting a toy in a little way maybe it will open things up a little more for me to push things out better? I will be very slow and careful. maybe put in a skinny one a ways ... More
Well, if you're asking if something will help your severe IBS then I think that asking a doctor would be beneficial. If you already have so many issues with trying to get stuff out I'd be worried about pushing things up further and causing a back up.

One thing to remember is that some things that might be good for anal health might not be good for anal health for someone who has IBS issues. Since you're dealing with digestive issues with the IBS I think it could be entirely different. Of course, you don't have to take anyone's advice on here, but I just can say that for myself I would not feel comfortable without talking to my dr first if I was in this situation.
08/01/2010
kinky girlfriend kinky girlfriend
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Originally posted by Alicia
Well, if you're asking if something will help your severe IBS then I think that asking a doctor would be beneficial. If you already have so many issues with trying to get stuff out I'd be worried about pushing things up further and causing a ... More
no everybody's ibs is diffrent and I think they need to figure it out for themselves. I hate prescriptions and I'm so sensitive to any medication I'm going the natural way doing a elimination diet and modifying it and see what works and wat doesn't. well I still plan on taking a look in the anal health book maybe there is an excercise that can help someone mentioned exercises in the book. It has some anal health in it something could be of use to me.

I'm going to stick to vaginal use of toys. IF I ever feel alot better and have better bm's then I'll try something very slowly.
08/01/2010
Tuesday Tuesday
You may have tried this already but I read that taking psyllium daily helps. It did the trick for me. I stir a tablespoon in water and drink it.

I used to have attacks with annoying frequency. My entire abdomen cramps up and all I can do is stay motionless until it subsides. This could be five hours. Plus all the other digestive symptoms. Potato chips trigger it for me. So does eating large amounts of fruit.
08/01/2010
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Originally posted by Tuesday
You may have tried this already but I read that taking psyllium daily helps. It did the trick for me. I stir a tablespoon in water and drink it.

I used to have attacks with annoying frequency. My entire abdomen cramps up and all I can do is ... More
I tried psyllium it causes me more problems severe gas and more bloating. I stick to benefiber powder and fibercon capsules.
08/01/2010
P'Gell P'Gell
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Originally posted by kinky girlfriend
have you heard of helpforibs.com? I bought the books I love that site. I'm going to get right on working on my diet until I get better It could take a long time for me because of the severity over the years.
I haven't been to this site, yet. My IBS is in some kind of "rest" unless I eat the wrong thing or don't take care of myself etc.

I'll have to check it out. I took a good many drugs for IBS, and the only one that helped at all was Bentyl, (it helped the pain more than anything) and, believe or not, some of the meds I take for my migraines. (Some of the same neurotransmitters involved in IBS are also part of the migraine spectrum.) I have to stay away from Imodium, because it sets me on a week long IBS extravaganza! Sometimes I take it if we're going to have anal sex, and I'm not 100% physically ready for it, but am mentally, but I also find if I take the one with the "anti-gas" ingredient (a form of silicone) it isn't as bad, if I only use a half a dose. I'm like a child with most drugs, I can only take small doses and tend to get side effects really easily, too.

I agree, psyllium makes me sick as a dog and I can't even leave the bathroom. My GI doctor (who I haven't had to see in years, now) said he takes ALL his IBS patients off dairy, shellfish and peanuts, just as a precaution and has seen a lot of improvement. I have found it may be weeks or months off of certain foods before I see improvement. Shellfish would literally kill me, as I have a full anaphylactic allergy, but the dairy is a "mild" allergy AND a severe lactose intolerance, but it took a full year of NO dairy before I noticed permanent improvement.

Unfortunately, ANY food causes bloating in me. I wake up with a pretty flat belly, and anything other than water triggers the bloating. Maybe I'm "Food Intolerant." LOL!
08/01/2010
kinky girlfriend kinky girlfriend
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Originally posted by P'Gell
I haven't been to this site, yet. My IBS is in some kind of "rest" unless I eat the wrong thing or don't take care of myself etc.

I'll have to check it out. I took a good many drugs for IBS, and the only one that helped ... More
Thank you PGel! clam is a shellfish right? I made an ibs safe recipe off that site called clam chowder I tried it twice to make sure..each time my ibs was REALLY severe after eating it. I know its not an alergy because before Ibs there was no food I had a problem with,that I know of. Do yo do good with shrimp? I buy a brand called pure and natural..Yea for some just the act of eating causes bloating...I can't wait to start on this diet and see if my bloating goes way down or even goes away I want to have a sexy flat tummy! psylum makes me sick and I cant eat things like pineaple or peaches or apricots it seems...for some reason carrots are a very safe food especially well cooked I heard from alot of ppl with ibs..but for some reason I think carrots just don't like me. I took amitiza seemed to help some but didn't like I almost had an accident at work while I was on it..seems taking no meds only fiber supplements like benfiber powder and fibercon oh ya have u heard of acacia? u need to check it out on that site!
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