With MS, I have a difficult time shaving delicate areas (I can not differentiate how much pressure I am using and tend chop myself up), so my husband has taken to grooming me himself, that way it is done the way he likes it. He is very sweet. Depending on his mood he will shave up my "tush" area, but there isn't much to clean up back there. I like my man the way he is, I prefer shaved or trimmed balls, but the rest can stay, it doesn't bother me in the slightest.
I usually get waxed or just keep everything really trimmed up. There's not much back there anyway, but if there is going to be a face down there I prefer to be free of hair. As for shaving, I can't really get everything on my own and my man shaves me when he feels like it. That's more of a special thing anyway when he takes the time out to do everything himself. As for him, he is all natural and we don't play with is rear anyway. It's just not his thing.
My wife will not let me have her anally(even though I have had it a few times long ago) she started shaving her ass after I mentioned the hair to her and suggested she start. I was shocked when she was on top of me and like usual my hands were all over her beautiful butt and when I snuck some fingers to her asshole I discovered she shaved it all bare. I just about shot my load right then.
I do not care either way. And yes, I would be willing to shave my partner for them. I could probably get a cleaner shave anyway, considering it's sometimes awkward to shave the genitals and anal region.
My fiancee and I both shave back there because we enjoy some anal play.
You say you both shave. I'm wondering how exactly a person would go about shaving their crack. Since i have some discomfort from pulling hair while playing etc. Also what about at home waxing kits or nair?
I am a hairy guy that loves to have my wife in my back door and i like to keep things clean not just for her but for my own cleanlyness but she dose not shave me there she uses Men's nair on me every other week or so, my sack is to sencitive for it so I shave that for her.
I'm fine with a partner whether it's shaved or not. For testicular hair, I prefer natural or trimmed to shaven, but only by a small margin. If I've got a partner who wants to be rimmed, my preference might balance a little more closely, so that I'd truly not have a preference shaven or unshaven.
I make this sound all statistical... most partners I've had will mix things up over the course of a relationship, so testicular I prefer natural more often than not, and for an anal-receiving partner I prefer an even split of the time. Does that make sense?
My boyfriend shaves everything, the way he and I both like it. And I do help him with hard to reach places, lol! I don't have much of a hair issue back there so it requires very little maintenance on my end.
She didn't shave her tush before she got with me, but it wasn't a big deal. She hates body hair in general and just never considered it, you can't really obsess in the mirror over things you cant comfortably see.
It was an off handed remark. And now we both keep ourselves tushysmooth.