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Again, I can't really answer the poll the way it was worded. *sigh*
My Man was the first one to mention it. BUT, it wasn't "he asked until I gave in
That implies that women only perform receptive anal sex as a way of "giving in."
My Man and I worked on it
for more than a month, making sure we were both enjoying ourselves the entire time, until we were able to have totally enjoyable mutually satisfying anal sex.
It was originally his idea. I didn't "give in." I gave it serious thought, and we worked it out, as we both wanted it. I don't see having ANY type of consensual sex as "giving in." It really degrades the experience to think this way, IMO.