Tips for Pegging?

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Tips for Pegging?

cuntofdoom cuntofdoom
I really wanna start incorporating anal play into my sexlife with my (male) partner, specifically with regards to pegging. He says he's down but hasn't had any anal experience yet. Where do I go from here? I don't want to jump in headfirst here.
03/22/2011
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ToyTimeTim ToyTimeTim
Start with fingers and work you way up to toys. Go slow and use plenty of good lube. He has to learn how to relax the anus to enjoy it. Once you get to the point where he can take the toys, then start working on the harness play. It may take a few months, it will depend on how fast he learns to relax and how much playing around you do.

Please remember, anal play should not hurt. If there is any pain, stop and add more lube and start over. Stay away from desensitizing products.

Have fun.
03/22/2011
RosesThorns RosesThorns
I agree with Dwtim. Start slow and work your way up.
03/24/2011
Collodion Collodion
Datum gives damn good advice.
03/24/2011
Bignuf Bignuf
Quote:
Originally posted by cuntofdoom
I really wanna start incorporating anal play into my sexlife with my (male) partner, specifically with regards to pegging. He says he's down but hasn't had any anal experience yet. Where do I go from here? I don't want to jump in headfirst here.
For sure, lots of lube...maybe lots of tongue and kissing, but massage and gentle play back there. I long ago learned to keep one of my fingernails SHORT and TRIMMED smooth. It is my "P"SPOT go to for him. Drives him wild just holding my hand or looking at my nails knowing it is that way for HIM. Using lots of lube, I penetrate him slowly and find that little walnut shaped bulge up in front..like aiming for his belly button. Gently massage it while giving him oral. It will give him a 15 orgasm on the 1 to 10 scale!!!! Once he KNOWS it is all gain, no pain, back there, you can work in TWO fingers over days or weeks. Then small toys or whatever. For now, fingers are BEST.
07/21/2011
Crichton Crichton
Quote:
Originally posted by ToyTimeTim
Start with fingers and work you way up to toys. Go slow and use plenty of good lube. He has to learn how to relax the anus to enjoy it. Once you get to the point where he can take the toys, then start working on the harness play. It may take a few ...
Agree 100%.

I'm blessed to have a boyfriend that wanted to go in 1005 initially, but I didn't want him suffering so I worked my way up. I used fingers on him until I knew he was really comfortable.

Eventually I bought a toy and we went right into harness play. I moved slowly, because my first anal experience wasn't pleasurable and I didn't want him to feel the same way. There was a time or two where I went too fast or it slipped in too quickly and we had to stop, so be careful and stay vigilant with it.
07/21/2011
Dawn (Lilac Distraction) Dawn (Lilac Distraction)
Quote:
Originally posted by cuntofdoom
I really wanna start incorporating anal play into my sexlife with my (male) partner, specifically with regards to pegging. He says he's down but hasn't had any anal experience yet. Where do I go from here? I don't want to jump in headfirst here.
I was just recently at this point. My guy was really open to it.

I got Belladonna's Gangbanger as an assignment and he willingly took it like a champ and enjoyed it.

There are smaller butt plugs out there you could try, or P-spot vibrators for men. Have him look with you to pick out something he's comfortable.
07/24/2011
oldkinky oldkinky
Quote:
Originally posted by cuntofdoom
I really wanna start incorporating anal play into my sexlife with my (male) partner, specifically with regards to pegging. He says he's down but hasn't had any anal experience yet. Where do I go from here? I don't want to jump in headfirst here.
We started with an anal prostate vibrator(Tantus Pro Touch) while she gave me a blowjob-WOW what an orgasm. This toy is small and easy to insert with lube. We went from this to a small vibrating dildo-then came the harness and our pegging began. We much prefer vibrating silicone dildos. Our favorites are Vixen Vibrating Mistress and Tantus Vibrating Leisure. Be careful that the diameter of the dildo is not too large. The maximum diameter that is comfortable for me is 1 1/2 inch, but 7 inches long is fine.

As far as the harness we use Buzz Me Tender. It is important that the harness have a vibrator for stimulating her clitoris while she does me.

Our favorite lube is Wet Original. You can't use too much.

To prevent a mess I use an enema before. A Fleet Enema filled with warm water works fine. Use the enema several times so it comes out clear.

Pegging is fantastic. My wife pegs me about once a week.

Send me a message for more details.

A great instructional video is found on the website xnxx.com Just type strap on master class in the search blank. There are 8 10 minute videos that are great.
08/16/2011
kfdarling kfdarling
Quote:
Originally posted by oldkinky
We started with an anal prostate vibrator(Tantus Pro Touch) while she gave me a blowjob-WOW what an orgasm. This toy is small and easy to insert with lube. We went from this to a small vibrating dildo-then came the harness and our pegging began. We ...
Good idea about the enema.
01/29/2012
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