Tips on getting used to anal

KinkyKatieJames KinkyKatieJames
I have tried to have anal sex several times, but it just hurts. Does anyone have any tips for me? I would really appreciate it!
03/21/2013
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AmethystQueen AmethystQueen
Nothing more than the typical go slow and make sure you have lots of lube so they slide in. You might also want to consider trying to stretch yourself before anal with a 1" neck or more on a butt plug.
03/21/2013
Gunsmoke Gunsmoke
I'd take Amethyst's advice a little farther. Warm up with 1 finger, then 2 - then try a tapered toy like a butt plug that will max-out at 1.25" to 1.5". Once you can handle this without a lot of discomfort - then lube up you and your partner and give it a try.

When we first started I would penetrate my wife - and than have to pause for her to adjust. Then it was slow short strokes - the more she adapted the more we progressed.

One good way to do this is either for you to be on top to control the speed and depth of penetration - or in doggie style - again with you controlling the speed and depth of penetration.

As a couple once you master this - you will find that eventually you will be able to enjoy your partner thrusting as he normally would during PIV.

It took about 2 months of fairly regular anal sex for my wife to enjoy my thrusting - I can tell you the patience was well worth the reward for both of us.
03/22/2013
bratcat bratcat
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Originally posted by Gunsmoke
I'd take Amethyst's advice a little farther. Warm up with 1 finger, then 2 - then try a tapered toy like a butt plug that will max-out at 1.25" to 1.5". Once you can handle this without a lot of discomfort - then lube up you and ... More
this is all very good advice, however using A LOT of thick lube helps a lot too.
03/22/2013
KinkyKatieJames KinkyKatieJames
Thank you all so much! I will be taking your advice
03/22/2013
ScottA ScottA
Be very excited (perhaps an orgasm or two first), warm up both stretch and depth (buttplug and dildo/probe), plenty of lube where it's needed and plenty of time.
03/23/2013
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