My boyfriend and I have done anal once or twice. I have used many anal toys. The toys are fine dont bother me a bit. But my question is when we have anal sex I feel like I have to go to the bathroom (for lack of better words). It that normal. I have made sure I don't need to go and even gave myself an enama douche just to make sure Its clean.
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07/21/2011
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It is normal - with experience you can learn to relax and the feeling should subside. Don't give up - just like learning PIV techniques as a teen or 20-something, getting it right takes a little time.
07/21/2011
It takes relaxation and getting use to the fact that is how it feels at first but as gunsmoke said that feeling does subsides. Be patient and enjoy
07/21/2011
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It is normal to feel pressure and you may interpret that as needing to "go", since having a full rectum is the bodies normal "trigger" for that feeling. You have to retrain your mind that this is NOT "bathroom time" but FUN time. Enemas are not really needed, so long as you have not had a huge meal hours before and so long as you have a very empty bowel before starting anal.
Originally posted by
Lyxdoodlebug
My boyfriend and I have done anal once or twice. I have used many anal toys. The toys are fine dont bother me a bit. But my question is when we have anal sex I feel like I have to go to the bathroom (for lack of better words). It that normal. I have
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My boyfriend and I have done anal once or twice. I have used many anal toys. The toys are fine dont bother me a bit. But my question is when we have anal sex I feel like I have to go to the bathroom (for lack of better words). It that normal. I have made sure I don't need to go and even gave myself an enama douche just to make sure Its clean.
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On top of that, the thicker lubes seem to make that feeling diminish, for me, and it is ALL FUN and ENJOYMENT now. Plus, when you start getting clit stimulation during anal (another reason I ALWAYS suggest "missionary with butt on pillow and legs up", rather then Doggy as the BEST position for anal..especially with a newbie. It is just FAR more comfortable for me. But anyway, once you add in clit stim action, your brain will say...."this ain't potty time" (assuming you don't tend to masturbate on the potty..that is)!!!!!
Enjoy!!!!
07/21/2011
Keep trying, you'll get it.
07/22/2011
It is normal. Takes time to get use to, but its worth it!
07/23/2011
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I really enjoyed reading your post. Love the potty things funny as can be!!
Originally posted by
Bignuf
It is normal to feel pressure and you may interpret that as needing to "go", since having a full rectum is the bodies normal "trigger" for that feeling. You have to retrain your mind that this is NOT "bathroom time" but
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It is normal to feel pressure and you may interpret that as needing to "go", since having a full rectum is the bodies normal "trigger" for that feeling. You have to retrain your mind that this is NOT "bathroom time" but FUN time. Enemas are not really needed, so long as you have not had a huge meal hours before and so long as you have a very empty bowel before starting anal.
On top of that, the thicker lubes seem to make that feeling diminish, for me, and it is ALL FUN and ENJOYMENT now. Plus, when you start getting clit stimulation during anal (another reason I ALWAYS suggest "missionary with butt on pillow and legs up", rather then Doggy as the BEST position for anal..especially with a newbie. It is just FAR more comfortable for me. But anyway, once you add in clit stim action, your brain will say...."this ain't potty time" (assuming you don't tend to masturbate on the potty..that is)!!!!!
Enjoy!!!! less
On top of that, the thicker lubes seem to make that feeling diminish, for me, and it is ALL FUN and ENJOYMENT now. Plus, when you start getting clit stimulation during anal (another reason I ALWAYS suggest "missionary with butt on pillow and legs up", rather then Doggy as the BEST position for anal..especially with a newbie. It is just FAR more comfortable for me. But anyway, once you add in clit stim action, your brain will say...."this ain't potty time" (assuming you don't tend to masturbate on the potty..that is)!!!!!
Enjoy!!!! less
07/23/2011
JUST TAKE A HUGE DOOKIE, TAKE A SHOWER AND CALL HIM... ITS SOUNDS FUNNY BUT ITS THE BEST TIME TO DO IT.
08/02/2011
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it's normal, always tends to happen to me at least too :p
Originally posted by
Lyxdoodlebug
My boyfriend and I have done anal once or twice. I have used many anal toys. The toys are fine dont bother me a bit. But my question is when we have anal sex I feel like I have to go to the bathroom (for lack of better words). It that normal. I have
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My boyfriend and I have done anal once or twice. I have used many anal toys. The toys are fine dont bother me a bit. But my question is when we have anal sex I feel like I have to go to the bathroom (for lack of better words). It that normal. I have made sure I don't need to go and even gave myself an enama douche just to make sure Its clean.
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