Tuesdays With Nina -- the anal edition

Contributor: Carrie Ann Carrie Ann
Did you catch it this week? Nina talks about anal sex, anal douching and how to keep the mess down.

And, as always, she's so damned adorable.
12/29/2009
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Contributor: GingerAnn GingerAnn
Forum highlights on Anal Sex:

A good condom for anal? Ribbing or no ribbing?
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Have you ever used a rabbit for anal sex?
i want to surprise hubby with a new toy for our anniversary. Do guys ever use rabbits for anal pleasure? i thought maybe the rabbit ears would feel.

They look so LONG!
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Prep time
Does a longer en-plugged time increase the ease in dildo insertion during anal sex?

Can you get hemorrhoids from anal sex?
I am wondering if people get hemeroids or any other problems due to anal sex.
12/29/2009
Contributor: Victoria Victoria
Nina is amazing - and the fact that she is answering viewer emails and questions? AWESOME!!! What a great way to get real deal sex advice! I am totally in love with this!
12/29/2009
Contributor: Raven Raven
Yes, I did, and I have to say, ya gotta love her. I could listen to her for extended periods very happily. The part about the finger sliding out as the nozzle slides in is excellent advice.
12/29/2009
Contributor: Anastasia's Heaven Anastasia's Heaven
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Originally posted by Carrie Ann
Did you catch it this week? Nina talks about anal sex, anal douching and how to keep the mess down.

And, as always, she's so damned adorable.
I watched her, she was wonderful and very informative. I am sort of new to eden fantasys, I have always shopped the site but never signed up or joined any programs. I have a couple of questions about anal sex. Is it painful for the woman? I heard it was really only pleasurable for the man, so I never tried it. I do not know much about anal sex, except for what I learned in magazines and hearsay. Some people say don't do it, because it is possible to lose some of your ability to control your bowels. Is there any truth to that statement? My husband really wants to try it so I just bought the beginners anal kit and a water-based lube. I'm really afraid to try it though. Especially if its not going to feel that good and there might be a mess to clean up. I am glad I did get to see Nina explain about preparing yourself, it makes me feel a little better about trying it.
12/29/2009
Contributor: Sammi Sammi
This is great - I'm so glad she's doing these!
12/29/2009
Contributor: Sammi Sammi
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Originally posted by Anastasia's Heaven
I watched her, she was wonderful and very informative. I am sort of new to eden fantasys, I have always shopped the site but never signed up or joined any programs. I have a couple of questions about anal sex. Is it painful for the woman? I heard it ... more
It shouldn't be painful. You will want to make sure to use plenty of lube, and warm up slowly. Remember there's no rush. I've always found it to be a good idea to start with something small, and gradually work up. But if it hurts, stop.
12/29/2009
Contributor: Owl Identified Owl Identified
She is the cutest thing in the world. I wish I would have had some instruction from a woman like her BEFORE I tried anal (without a lot of information). My butt is going to be out of commission for quite some time while it is healing from anal play gone awry. I think this is awesome that she's doing this!
12/29/2009
Contributor: Anastasia's Heaven Anastasia's Heaven
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Originally posted by Sammi
It shouldn't be painful. You will want to make sure to use plenty of lube, and warm up slowly. Remember there's no rush. I've always found it to be a good idea to start with something small, and gradually work up. But if it hurts, stop.
Thank you. If its not painful, is it pleasurable at all?
12/29/2009
Contributor: Dragon Dragon
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Originally posted by Anastasia's Heaven
Thank you. If its not painful, is it pleasurable at all?
It can be a true delight! I've come from anal sex before with almost no other stimulation.

Lube is a must and starting slow. Start with just a bit of external stimulation until you are comfortable and interested!
12/29/2009
Contributor: Sammi Sammi
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Originally posted by Anastasia's Heaven
Thank you. If its not painful, is it pleasurable at all?
It definitely can be - and is for me, although it took some getting used to in the beginning. I find it a very different sensation.
12/29/2009
Contributor: Anastasia's Heaven Anastasia's Heaven
Thank you both for your help, I feel a little more prepared for the experience now. I just have to get the ball syringe that Nina suggested first.
12/29/2009
Contributor: Owl Identified Owl Identified
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Originally posted by Anastasia's Heaven
Thank you both for your help, I feel a little more prepared for the experience now. I just have to get the ball syringe that Nina suggested first.
You don't necessarily need to douche anally unless you're going to be doing a lot of thrusting. In my experience as long as you've had a good bowel movement prior things are fine. Some people are really freaked out by shit but honestly, it's a part of the whole thing and sometimes (like Nina says) a little bit of it happens. My partner and I have never done any anal douching and have never had a serious problem.

Also before you jump to anal sex and invest in an anal douche, I would SERIOUSLY recommend getting comfortable with something smaller first. In other words; invest in a small dildo. I skipped ahead to anal with my partner and have been dealing with an incredibly painful fissure for about 6 months now as a result. If I had it to do all over again I'd start out with this small toy and work up from there. It's worth it to invest a little bit in a dildo rather than injure yourself.
12/29/2009
Contributor: Anastasia's Heaven Anastasia's Heaven
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Originally posted by Owl Identified
You don't necessarily need to douche anally unless you're going to be doing a lot of thrusting. In my experience as long as you've had a good bowel movement prior things are fine. Some people are really freaked out by shit but honestly, ... more
Thank you, yes I did just buy the beginner's anal kit and it just came in the mail today. I will try it out when he gets back home, he is out of town. I want to try it out for the first time with him here.
12/30/2009
Contributor: Owl Identified Owl Identified
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Originally posted by Anastasia's Heaven
Thank you, yes I did just buy the beginner's anal kit and it just came in the mail today. I will try it out when he gets back home, he is out of town. I want to try it out for the first time with him here.
Awesome! Some find that having a partner with you will help you relax, others find that having a partner there creates pressure which makes them tense. One of the most important things for anal is to be comfortable and relaxed...those rectal muscles are strong! When they tense up they are NOT letting anything in so penetration becomes painful when it shouldn't be. So if you have trouble with your partner around, you might consider trying it by yourself.

My only other advice is go slow and listen to your body. If you experience pain just slow down or stop. You can always try again later. Good luck to you!
12/30/2009