Just wondering when most people like to have anal sex
The evening is when we have time to shower together (and yes, sometimes we do have sex in the shower, including anal, but lube does not work as well there)....but we like evening when we have time to relax, chill and be mellow. You can have vaginal quickies in my book, but if you want to play in my tushy, it better be a slow, mellow process. He can play there all night, if he wants, but he is NOT welcome there, if all we have is three minutes to play, if you catch my drift. In that case, I would rather give him a quicky blow job, and with a finger in HIS rear, I KNOW I can get him to cum in under 3 minutes if I choose to.
I'm not a fan of anal but I'll give it to my hubby in the evening after he showers.
What a sweet wife. However, if you are indeed "giving it to him", you may as well become a fan. Find what works for you, and have him incorporate it. Believe me, it is the most amazing sex a gal can enjoy. SO many nerve ending, SO many variations.
Kind of like a woman I know who always went along with her hubby to golf. She could hae cared less for golf, but didn't want to be a golf widow all weekend. I said "you are there already...take up the game"....at least TRY.
She now is hitting the links "with the girls", twice as much as hubby is. Heck, if you are going to be there...ENJOY IT...whatever "IT" is.
Me too...great warm up for later fun too. Lube issues are tough however. What LUBE do you use in the shower for anal...please share? We can go though a bottle of Jo, Extra Thick Anal Gel that way. Expensive sex!!!!
We actually put in a larger water heater, and now a tank-less heater, so we could enjoy long "in the shower play sessions", without water growing ice cold on us.
The evening is best. We are more relaxed and not rushed. We have the time to get really warmed up, horny and plenty of time for lots of orgasms for me first, and then fall into a heap after every kind of sex imaginable. Then, a bath in the morning before a quickie to commemorate our fun the night before.