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Now, I use the Luv Pacifier
Small and really like it.
If you prefer a finger shaped toy, instead of a tear drop shaped toy, the [|Crystal Cote
Plug is really nice for beginners and everybody. It stays in well during PIV intercourse.
We use this toy, the Marble G
as an anal probe. It may not be quite what you want at the beginning, but it has a nice, long handle on it, and although it doesn't have a flange, it meets Tristan Taoramino's requirements to be at least 8 inches long, so you or your partner can keep a full fist on on the handle. It is really maneuverable, and with some lube is so much fun.
We don't turn the Marble G on though. It's loud and I don't care for vibrations in an anal toy. But, a lot of people do. Oddly, when I wrote the review for this toy, we were only using it on occasion. Now, we have found, that when being very careful, it makes a great anal toy (although you and your partner need to know the limitations and to only carefully insert the bulb only or use it as a "rimming" toy, and keep a careful hand on the handle of this toy.) It is being used now more than any time in the past 4 years of owning it. The company makes an anal toy with the exact
parameters of the Marble G, but in black for anal use. If used properly, it's a safe anal toy. The nice thing about probes is that they are easier to control by a partner or by you than a plug which just sits there.
Take your time and figure out what you want.