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Liking something doesn't make it a sex fetish necessarily, and I'm not sure that this really qualifies as a fetish in most instances. Perhaps someone with more experience/education can chime in?
Actually, psychologically, a "Fetish" is a sexual interest so strong that the fetishist cannot become aroused or come to climax UNLESS the fetish is present.
Also, some thing qualify and some don't. A woman needing her clitoris stimulated is NOT a fetish (although Freud might have thought so) someone NEEDING high heeled shoes near his or her face in order to become stimulated or climax is a fetish.
Sometimes when something is relatively new to one's sex life, one can become fixated on it for a while, almost to the exclusion of other things, but it's only a fetish if it is necessary for arousal and climax.