Why do some women have an anal fetish?

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Why do some women have an anal fetish?

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Contributor: Love Buzz Love Buzz
As to the reasoning behind why I really enjoy Anal play, beyond the fact that it is physically stimulating and thoroughly enjoyable, I think part of the appeal, at least for me is that it's deemed slightly naughty. I also feel slightly superior, or like I've achieved something, especially if I'm with a guy who has been denied back door entry by previous partners.
However I'm not all that interested in returning the favour, unless of course it's requested. In which case I'm more than happy to oblige.
08/08/2010
Contributor: Sera Sera
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Originally posted by shepegsME
Some women apparently are fascinated and fixated with everything anal. Weather it's theirs being penetrated or played with or them playing or penetrating (with dildo, strapon or fingers) their partner's. My girl comes in an instant when it ... more
Well, I don't particularly care for it. My question is why some men have an anal fetish!
08/31/2010
Contributor: David88 David88
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Originally posted by shepegsME
He should at least try it. I mean, if you're so into it, he would at least try it. I think guys who don't want their girls to strap it on, are missing out.
It's kind of funny how it's almost more ok for the girl to say no to this than a guy. I think each side has it's issues with be willing to do it and there are a lot of relationships where one wants and one doesn't it. If he's not into it, he's not going to like it. I want to do it with my wife but I also realize that if she feels forced it ain't gonna work out very well
09/03/2010
Contributor: David88 David88
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Originally posted by Sera
Well, I don't particularly care for it. My question is why some men have an anal fetish!
I wouldn't call it a fetish because a fetish is more something you need. But for me I just LOVE anal stimulation. I started playing around with my butt when I was maybe 12 years old and enjoy the great pleasure I get from it.
09/03/2010
Contributor: VieuxCarre VieuxCarre
I'm on the edge on this one and I didn't vote based on that. I'm not opposed to anal play, though it still terrifies me. I have boundaries from the past, but I'm not letting them hinder me from moving on to enjoy other forms of pleasure.
09/03/2010
Contributor: mrs.mckrakn mrs.mckrakn
im in between. no fetish here but its anal play is enjoyable.
11/30/2010
Contributor: UnknownGirl UnknownGirl
It feels good. Simple as that.
12/01/2010
Contributor: Shellz31 Shellz31
It just feels so damn good! But I can enjoy myself without it!
12/04/2010
Contributor: Shellz31 Shellz31
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Originally posted by Sera
Well, I don't particularly care for it. My question is why some men have an anal fetish!
Do you mean, why guys love using a girls (or another guys) ass so much or using their own???
12/04/2010
Contributor: Illusional Illusional
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Originally posted by Red Vinyl Kitty
I'm wondering where you heard that most fetishes are found in men? I have fetishes personally, and I'm a woman. I also know lots of women with fetishes. Just curious.
Ditto, I also have many fetishes.
Maybe you mean fantasies?
12/09/2010
Contributor: Istanbull Istanbull
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Originally posted by shepegsME
Some women apparently are fascinated and fixated with everything anal. Weather it's theirs being penetrated or played with or them playing or penetrating (with dildo, strapon or fingers) their partner's. My girl comes in an instant when it ... more
I had a prior girlfriend who liked it when she was having her period because she didn't like knowing she was bleeding on a dick. She wasn't a nut over it but she still got turned on knowing her capacity to "take a cock" provide sexual pleasure didn't begin and end with only one part of her body.

I've had my wife's ass only a few times. She isn't really into vaginal sex, so anal is a complete no-zone. Once in a great while while she's on-top I like to lube a finger and rub her smooth anus. She always reaches back and yanks my hand away "Leave my butt alone!". BUT, if I slip the tip of my finger into her ass when she's close to cumming, she goes over the edge... and immediatly afterwards pulls my hand away telling me "NO!". Personaly I believe she is turned on by it but somewhere in her fucked-up sexual development, the idea that she could feel pleasure any other way is not allowed.
02/27/2011
Contributor: Istanbull Istanbull
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Originally posted by shepegsME
He should at least try it. I mean, if you're so into it, he would at least try it. I think guys who don't want their girls to strap it on, are missing out.
One time my wife started to elude to "You wouldn't like it if I did it you." but she just couldn't blurt it out. I'm far too scared to tell her my dark secret, that I like to receive as much as give. But if she ever finally comes out and says that, my response will be "Would that turn you on?"
02/28/2011
Contributor: Happy Camper Happy Camper
The enjoyment in our anal play centers around two themes:

-A feeling of accomplishment. When it finally happened successfully I laughed and pictured the little xbox achievement dialog box popping up. It felt good to work towards a goal and meet it.

-It's a BDSM thing. It hurts but it requires you to relax and calm yourself to ease the pain. It's also using a hole for his pleasure that isn't necessarily intended for that use.

I'm not super into anal and I have yet to orgasm from just anal but these things do make anal enjoyable for me if all the right circumstances are met.
03/08/2011
Contributor: SexyStuff SexyStuff
I haven't tried it yet, it just doesn't appeal. But one day I will.
03/09/2011
Contributor: Redboxbaby Redboxbaby
I would not say I have an anal fetish, but I have trouble "getting there" sometimes and by adding any kind of anal play (toys, a finger, anal sex), my husband can easily bring me to orgasm.

My husband has been fixated on my ass for 18 years. He never let a day go by without asking (in a teasing manner) if he could have it. The answer was always NO! HELL NO! Until one evening, this past year, I got a wild hair, lubed up, and asked him to take it. Now, all I have to do is mention anything regarding him fucking my ass and he gets an instant hard-on. He has a rule now, that I can not even hint at it, while he is at work. On that note, I think he is more anally fixated than I am, but I do LOVE it.
03/09/2011
Contributor: Istanbull Istanbull
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Originally posted by shepegsME
Some women apparently are fascinated and fixated with everything anal. Weather it's theirs being penetrated or played with or them playing or penetrating (with dildo, strapon or fingers) their partner's. My girl comes in an instant when it ... more
I know for guys like me, it's because it's the one this we can experiance just the same as women. A woman feels a cock in her ass just the same as men.

I suspect the same hold true for women too.
03/10/2011
Contributor: aBeastlyLittleThing aBeastlyLittleThing
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Originally posted by shepegsME
Some women apparently are fascinated and fixated with everything anal. Weather it's theirs being penetrated or played with or them playing or penetrating (with dildo, strapon or fingers) their partner's. My girl comes in an instant when it ... more
i just think buttholes are soo sexy! it's not weird! shhh!
03/11/2011
Contributor: Tart Tart
*correction* I don't care for it much.
03/12/2011
Contributor: M121212 M121212
It feels really good and is taboo...
03/12/2011
Contributor: ID42 ID42
I don't think women necessarily have an 'anal fetish'. But now that that is said, I happen to love anal sex and play of any kind. My husband is down with my joy and enjoys in it with me, but he is not down for mutual play. Sometimes it annoys me a little, but he has his reasons and I know, understand and respect them. As long as he is good with the giving, I can deal with being on the receiving end.
03/12/2011
Contributor: Eliza Eliza
I'm actually pretty grossed out by anything to do with anal. I know some people who love it and I totally respect that, but it's just not for me.
03/12/2011
Contributor: LavenderSkies LavenderSkies
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Originally posted by Midway through
I wouldn't call it a fetish.. but I do like it.
Same here
03/14/2011
Contributor: RosesThorns RosesThorns
I wouldn't say its a fetish, but it does get me going. Not even really sure why. I think part of it is the "taboo" nature of anal play.
03/24/2011
Contributor: sarki sarki
I love it but it's not a fetish
05/23/2011
Contributor: Brianna91 Brianna91
Yep very much so a fetish of mine, as I do tend to mostly focus on it. Love how it feels. The taboo thing is definitely a big turn on too!
05/24/2011
Contributor: Ms. Spice Ms. Spice
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Originally posted by shepegsME
Some women apparently are fascinated and fixated with everything anal. Weather it's theirs being penetrated or played with or them playing or penetrating (with dildo, strapon or fingers) their partner's. My girl comes in an instant when it ... more
i wouldn't say it's a fetish per se, but i do enjoy it. i'm not sure why, it's like why people like ice cream or roller coasters
06/02/2011
Contributor: KnK KnK
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Originally posted by shepegsME
Some women apparently are fascinated and fixated with everything anal. Weather it's theirs being penetrated or played with or them playing or penetrating (with dildo, strapon or fingers) their partner's. My girl comes in an instant when it ... more
I happen to be a lot more sensitive in my ass then my vag.

Technically the vagina has the most sensitivity towards the entrance. I really don't know how the ass works in comparison with receptors and all that jazz, but it's tighter so even a small toy, a finger, or a small penis can feel way big.

I happen to love anal, except for the pre and post cleanup. That part kinda sucks and the 2 hour window really makes it less of an "in-the-moment" thing, unless you want abdominal pains or stinky toys/dick... bleh
06/21/2011
Contributor: Bignuf Bignuf
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Originally posted by ScottA
Liking something doesn't make it a sex fetish necessarily, and I'm not sure that this really qualifies as a fetish in most instances. Perhaps someone with more experience/education can chime in?
I think he means that folks are just fanatic about it...not fetish in the real definition of the word...which I am still not 100% clear on.
06/23/2011
Contributor: Bignuf Bignuf
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Originally posted by shepegsME
Some women apparently are fascinated and fixated with everything anal. Weather it's theirs being penetrated or played with or them playing or penetrating (with dildo, strapon or fingers) their partner's. My girl comes in an instant when it ... more
Simple. It feels amazing. At first there was the little extra "nasty" factor, but after 30 plus years of marriage, that is long, LONG gone. It is just that it feels GREAT and I have super orgasms with anal/clit combo play, and when it comes to my hubby...I love to treat him to P spot orgasms, but cannot do that too often as it is impossible for him to control things if I do, and he cum's immediately, taking further penis play out of the equation.
06/23/2011
Contributor: Bella-Sunshine (Couple Account) Bella-Sunshine (Couple Account)
I'm a female and yes I have an anal fetish
07/26/2011