Here is question i have for women. ive done alot of reading about sex,orgsms and generally anything having t do with it. ive read alot of stories and experiences from women. and ive always ALWAYS heard that the second orgsm is the easier one to acheive. but for me its differant it will take me 5 seconds into foreplay to orgasm and have a good orgasm but then after that its very hard for to cum again. usually with only direct heavy pressure to my clit, even a vibrator i have trouble. and i have very good pelvic floor muscles i can lift a one pound dumbell off the floor and when my boyfriend is spent and becoming soft i can litterly "push" him out of me without the either of us moving. so what gives? am i the only one like this?