Boyfriends and Toys

I'd start with a smaller toy first so he doesn't have any worries about his size. If he saw your toys were larger than him he might feel inadequate.

CollegeFun2014's advice is probably best, honestly.

A small clit vibe is probably a nonthreating place to start. My faves are mimi by jejoue and tango by wevibe. The wevibe 3 might be a little complicated for a first toy.

If it's a we-vibe, which is pretty non-threatening to start with, you might try lubing it (and him!) up and try using it during a handjob to introduce him to it, then show him how else to use it.

I would also consider sitting him down and explaining the facts on women and orgasming from penetrative sex.

A loooot of women can't orgasm from just penetration.


Try to make it as little of a "blow" to his confidence as possible. Explain that you want to orgasm every time, just as he does (hopefully you haven't been faking it!)

I was nervous about talking to my boyfriend about using toys. I just talked to him when we were discussing a past sexcapade and mentioned how hot it would be if we used a toy or 2 and we even picked out toys together. Worked for me. I think just being honest is key.

When I introduced toys to my relationship I was experienced and he wasn't. I took more of a "babe, I want to put on a show for you" approach. More like mutual masturbation, because what man doesn't get masturbation. Eventually he wanted to be the one controlling it. I also make sure to always remind him how much more I prefer the real deal to any toy. The toys just add spice.

as a guy i have never had problems with my partners toys. i have had some that arent into toys some that love toys. def dont intimidate him with size to quickly. start with toys he can use during sex, or warm up toys on you. its never been an issue with me. i no im not the biggest thing out there, if she wants to get off on something bigger lets use it lol

my wife enjoys toys but isnt into them, mostly bullets and then restraints. i recently got her a g spot vibrator. i think im more into them than her lol

Just talk to him. Get his feelings for it and start off small if he wants to. Many guys enjoy playing with toys.

I have about 6 toys I'm going to show to my boyfriend soon!
Thankfully, he's fine with it...I just wanna show him how to use them all when we're playing together! I JUST showed him my glass g-spot toy..he liked how it looks, but I need to tell him how it should be used! Good luck!!