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I think they're just different types of orgasms. But in general, I'd say I like the ones I give myself better. I also have no trouble whatsoever giving myself multiple orgasms, but I find it near-impossible to do so with a partner.
Don't loose hope - there are few if any guys at your age that have a clue about how to make you feel great. But if you choose wisely, your luck should change. Someone who is curious and who doesn't think they know it all, are in a better position to learn what it takes.
Some people wonder why women are attracted to older men - aside from being more financially stable - I'd say this plays a big part.
Lets say you have sex with a virile young stud - looks great but for him it's all about 'get'n it done'. You end up ravished but unsatisfied. Then the next weekend you go out with a guy 5-10 years older who knows how to take his time, bring you to full arousal - then knocks you over with a couple of body quaking orgasms.
The third week you have an offer from each for a follow up date. Do you go for the younger eye candy - or the guaranteed satisfaction?