Do you have a better orgasm by yourself or with your lover?

Yoda Yoda
Me too. Every time.
12/19/2010
misslady misslady
By myself - generally more physically satisfying, but with my partner it's a more holistic sort of satisfaction.
12/23/2010
Latsyrc728 Latsyrc728
Mine are completely different. They are both great in their own ways. My Clit O's are really strong and deep and shake my whole body. I can only have one and then I need a rest. My Sex O's are great, but not as strong. However, I can have multiple orgasms when I have sex. I prefer sex with my Hubby. Both are enjoyable though.
12/29/2010
The Awesome Penguin The Awesome Penguin
Defiantly with my girlfriend
12/29/2010
Lucidity Lucidity
They are much more rare, but when I can get there with my man; they are a million times better.
12/29/2010
Jin Jin
Psychically speaking, better by myself. Getting the positions and pressures just right is easier.

But emotionally and mentally its so much more satisfying to achieve one with someone else.
01/08/2011
Woman China Woman China
Quote:
Originally posted by Stnjbe1021
I wonder if I'm the only one who has a better orgasm when I pleasure myself...or if maybe I'm just not giving my lover the chance to make me orgasm like I can...hmmm
I have more intense/longer lasting orgasms when I am with my partner, as he demands my full attention.

But... it is harder to have orgasms when with him.
01/12/2011
kawigrl kawigrl
changes sometimes i'm just not into sex
01/14/2011
Tidwtrguy Tidwtrguy
I take care of business pretty well myself but some of the best toe-curling, mind blowing sex has been with others.
01/14/2011
dbtracy dbtracy
My husband is a pro
01/22/2011
Penguin Penguin
My gf by far
01/22/2011
markeagleone markeagleone
Quote:
Originally posted by Stnjbe1021
I wonder if I'm the only one who has a better orgasm when I pleasure myself...or if maybe I'm just not giving my lover the chance to make me orgasm like I can...hmmm
I also agree. My wife takes me to other worlds!
01/26/2011
Airekah Airekah
unfortunately, I usually have a better orgasm by myself.
01/26/2011
zeebot zeebot
Better by myself, but I haven't been in a relationship since I got into toys
01/27/2011
indiglo indiglo
Better with my partner. Just hearing his voice can do it to me sometimes.
01/27/2011
MattBryant MattBryant
Quote:
Originally posted by Stnjbe1021
I wonder if I'm the only one who has a better orgasm when I pleasure myself...or if maybe I'm just not giving my lover the chance to make me orgasm like I can...hmmm
as far as hand goes.. myself.. (altho i LOVR her hand stroking me, it usually results in her hand cramping.. her hands aren't as used to it as mine are :p) anything else she does is waaaaay beyond what i could do for myself.
01/27/2011
Ash1 Ash1
Quote:
Originally posted by Tuesday
I remember in a psychology class the professor telling us that research shows that women can give themselves more/better orgasms than when they're with men but that they prefer partner sex to masturbation.

Actually the professor said ... More
so true
01/29/2011
limitless limitless
Quote:
Originally posted by Stnjbe1021
I wonder if I'm the only one who has a better orgasm when I pleasure myself...or if maybe I'm just not giving my lover the chance to make me orgasm like I can...hmmm
I certainly cannot satisfy myself like a lover can.
02/01/2011
Miss Voluptuous Miss Voluptuous
By myself, or when I'm doing my own clit while we fuck.
02/11/2011
BadassFatass BadassFatass
The best are with my partner. He can do things to me that don't work when I try them myself, for some reason. I'm convinced that he's magic.
02/11/2011
Kitt Katt Kitt Katt
Quote:
Originally posted by Gunsmoke
My wife has told me this many times before - she tends to be a little lazy - a clit orgasm is so easy to have. But if she wants a full body - earth shaking - toe curling orgasm - I get the call!
Your wife and I might be soul mates, Gunsmoke! I can definitely give myself multiple clit orgasms very easily, but I want my hubby for the earth shattering kind!
02/11/2011
Gunsmoke Gunsmoke
Quote:
Originally posted by Kitt Katt
Your wife and I might be soul mates, Gunsmoke! I can definitely give myself multiple clit orgasms very easily, but I want my hubby for the earth shattering kind!
Kitt Katt - thanks, I'm guessing your husband and I have much in commons as well - like all men we're trying to stay relevant!
02/12/2011
RemusHalifax RemusHalifax
Typically, it's pretty awesome when I'm with my boyfriend, but he can't always find my most sensitive spots. If I can pull off some of the tricks he does with my toys, I can have a pretty intense orgasm without him, although I'll always pick him over myself.
02/14/2011
Pixel Pixel
I like both...there's different types of orgasms by myself and with a partner. They both rock, I just crave one over the other at times.
02/14/2011
darkkitty darkkitty
Quote:
Originally posted by Stnjbe1021
I wonder if I'm the only one who has a better orgasm when I pleasure myself...or if maybe I'm just not giving my lover the chance to make me orgasm like I can...hmmm
Always more intense with lover, but easily anytime by myself!
02/18/2011
Linga Linga
No Contest, It's always better with Daddy
02/19/2011
Blonde Blonde
Always much better with my lover. I can't make it so intensive myself, even with a use of sex toys.
02/20/2011
ud328 ud328
I've had great ones with a partner and great ones alone. Also had crummy ones with both too. They're both different kinds though so it's hard to compare them directly.
02/21/2011
lick123 lick123
it is quicker by myself, but much better with husband.
03/08/2011
cuntofdoom cuntofdoom
Better with lover but definitely harder to come by
03/08/2011
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