Oh man. I masturbated for years, yes YEARS, before I had my first orgasm. I think I slowly started having them, but I didn't quite understand it exactly, so I wasn't able to fully enjoy them... I just noticed that I'd reach a high point then get super sensitive all of a sudden. I honestly can't say I know when I had my first orgasm and was able to fully understand and cherish what was happening to me; it was a slow process for me.
I remember having some weak orgasms when I was young and not knowing whether they were orgasms or not. When I finally had a strong one I realized that I had been having orgasms, they just weren't very good ones.
At the time I didn't know what I had just experienced. I was like 11 or 12. And it felt weird but good, and I just remember thinking "OMG, does anybody else know about this?! I've just discovered something amazing!" LOL
Man. My first one was a little over a year ago. And I was like "wtf was that? That was a surprise. Let's do it again!" I was 18. I'm 19 now. And it was with the boyfriend that I'm still with. He's happy to know that he's the only man that has made me orgasm.
Good for you, Dame Saphir. You might catch a lot of guff for that, but my girlfriend is in a similar spot, and I think that's pretty cool. Naturally, I would feel that way, since she's got nothing to compare me to, but she gets away with a lot because of it.
I can't really remember my first in life vividly, I was just sort of confused because I didn't know that was supposed to happen, or expect to have to clean up.
The first time I had an orgasm with a partner, I actually felt like my entire world fell apart. It was like I had spent all my time and energy wanting this one thing, and once it was over, suddenly I didn't need it or care about it anymore. It was a very dark 10 seconds of my life.
So there's a serious answer to a whimsical question for you.
I didn't have an orgasm till I was 19, and even though it was really small (probably 1 or 2 seconds) I felt really proud of myself and I just thought "It's about time." Rather than feeling tired, I felt really energized and decided to go on a 4 mile run soon after haha
I had been masturbating for quite some time before I knew what an orgasm even was. I asked a friend of mine, "what is an orgasm?" she explained it, "that is what it is called when you know you are done." at that point I was recalling some of the times I played with myself, and remembered. that I would play, because it felt really good, then all of the sudden I would started getting twitchy and become super sensitive.
I was just wondering how people felt after there very first orgasm.
i was confused. i had my 1st orgasm by accident. i liked it, so everyday after that for a while, every few hrs, i would sneak off to my room & try to get that feeling again. about a yr later, i found out what it was & what i was doing was called masturbating & that it was normal for people to do.