How long have you ABSTAINED from SEX?

Kate Kate
A year or so by choice. I stopped counting time after awhile
08/19/2012
Kate Kate
Oh but I used toys often in that time lol
08/19/2012
Trysexual Trysexual
I am guessing the longest I have abstained from mastubation, might have been like 6 days. I lose interest about one week a year occasionally.
08/19/2012
justme23 justme23
Female, about a month at a time, long distance relationship
08/19/2012
BlooJay BlooJay
I've gone months without sex, but only a week or so without masturbation.
08/19/2012
Harpina is gone Harpina is gone
It depends on whether or not I was with someone. The longest while with someone was just over a week. While not with someone, about a month or two.
08/19/2012
caseyb caseyb
Quote:
Originally posted by PassionateLover2
I have read so much in various Discussions and Polls here in the community about how we love sex! It is like we can’t get enough of it or we are engaged in it almost daily! I would like to reverse the question and ask, how long have you abstained ... More
with my husband being deployed 3mo at a time 2x a year, i dont have much of a choice, im so stressed out and busy i dont even have time to play w myself, so about 90 days 2x a year.. sad, huh?
08/19/2012
Megan McClure Megan McClure
I can go a long time without sex but not so long without masturbating. I mean I need to have an orgasm at some point, somehow!
08/22/2012
crazycouple7281 crazycouple7281
months when she was recovering from surgery.
08/22/2012
Intrepid Niddering Intrepid Niddering
Since I began having sex, the longest I've gone between partners is a year and a half. As for not touching myself at all, I friend tried to get me to not touch for a week. At all. I made it two days. I could not do it. I love touching myself.
08/27/2012
SMichelle SMichelle
I've never intentionally abstained, but there have been times when I've been single that I've gone for a year. Now that I'm in a long distance relationship, I tend to go 4 or 5 months at a time. It doesn't bother me much.
08/30/2012
Vaginas Vaginas
7 months
08/30/2012
MJ7 MJ7
The longest I've gone without sex was almost three months. Not fun for me xD
09/12/2012
AHubbyof2SexualMinds AHubbyof2SexualMinds
When in a relationship the longest we've gone is 6 months, during the last trimester of my wife's pregnancy and for about 3 months after the baby was born. But I definitely masturbated, a lot.
09/12/2012
ginainohio ginainohio
um about 4 days for masturbation but for human contact so far its been 3 months
09/12/2012
SneakersAndPearls SneakersAndPearls
A few weeks after birth. For the hubs and I, anything past a couple of days makes us snippy.
09/12/2012
doop doop
sometimes I go so long I forget my gender, sometimes every day. its a toss up.
11/05/2012
bottled-diva bottled-diva
I have gone months without either sex or masturbation before.
11/06/2012
Mylo Mylo
Quote:
Originally posted by PassionateLover2
I have read so much in various Discussions and Polls here in the community about how we love sex! It is like we can’t get enough of it or we are engaged in it almost daily! I would like to reverse the question and ask, how long have you abstained ... More
Since I have been married I haven't gone less than a day if I can help it! My husband was gone for 2 months for military training, but I don't really count that as abstaining from sex. I was a virgin until I got married however. It was hard to wait until I was married but I made it!
11/09/2012
quinceykay quinceykay
The longest time I've gone without masturbating... Maybe a few weeks. Without sex, right now I'm going on 5 1/2 months.
11/09/2012
closed account closed account
i was once in a LTR of 10yrs. my partner was not as sexual as I. talking a couple of times a year. and when i don't get it i stop wanting it. so hardly ever had solo play either. (and yes i tried everything i knew of to rectify the situation)
11/09/2012
null null
I've gone without anything for well over a month. Unfortunately, once I stop doing things, I have a difficult time getting off, and spend most of my time horny and frustrated. >.<
11/09/2012
SydVicious SydVicious
When my husband is deployed, we have gone as long as 8 months without sex. I do have toy time, but the frequency depends on my mood. Sometimes it will be several times a day/week or a few weeks between sessions.
11/09/2012
Thumper Logic Thumper Logic
5 months
11/09/2012
KinkyNicki92 KinkyNicki92
11 months was the longest period i went without. But when i engaged in sexual activity after that period, it was magical.
11/12/2012
jr2012 jr2012
hmm good question! I have easily gone over 3 months without partner sex (but only because I was in a long distance relationship). I wish I could say with certainty regarding masturbation but I am guessing never more than a few weeks. I can get distracted from it, but not for too long!
11/12/2012
Ivanna Ivanna
I have gone for months at a time
11/12/2012
Supervixen Supervixen
Maybe a week? I masturbate, uh, a lot. So when I've gone without even that, I've either been sick or exhausted from being too busy.
11/12/2012
MidnightStorm MidnightStorm
I've gone quite a while between boyfriends or in long distance relationships. I masturbated a lot, but no sex for over a year and a half at one point!
11/12/2012
SaraW0512 SaraW0512
Since being married, it would be about 5 weeks (after my surgery) but other than that, I think maybe 1 week? sounds about right
11/12/2012
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