I can't orgasm when masturbating! Advice please!

teeny <3 teeny <3
I've read alot of posts about women who can't orgasm during intercourse and can only reach the Big O on their own. Well I seem to be a rare breed that has the exact opposite problem. I can't orgasm on my own! I love and adore my man and cum on average a dozen times during sex, but it's a rare occurence when I masturbate. I've tried various toys and angles and all have proven unsuccessful. Personally, I would like to have more control over when I orgasm and know that I can have a fulfilling sex life that is not dependent on someone else.

Has anyone else expereinced something similar to this? How did you deal with it? Help!
01/27/2011
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Miss Voluptuous Miss Voluptuous
I love the website Dodson and Ross. They have a lot of down to earth information and tutorials for women who are seeking orgasm, plus other fun things.
01/28/2011
teeny <3 teeny <3
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Originally posted by Miss Voluptuous
I love the website Dodson and Ross. They have a lot of down to earth information and tutorials for women who are seeking orgasm, plus other fun things.
Wow! There seems to be a lot of good stuff on that link (too much to read in one sitting). I watched one brief podcast and am already completely in love with Betty Dodson. I'm sure I'll be able to find something useful there. Thanks Silvi!
01/28/2011
brandi2009 brandi2009
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Originally posted by teeny <3
I've read alot of posts about women who can't orgasm during intercourse and can only reach the Big O on their own. Well I seem to be a rare breed that has the exact opposite problem. I can't orgasm on my own! I love and adore my man and ... More
try thinking of him. Try new things like longer masturbation, harder concentration on things that turn you on, or maybe more intense masturbation like more powerful toys.
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