I want to know if I am squirting!

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I want to know if I am squirting!

cherryredhead88 cherryredhead88
Just read through some threads, didn't really get the answer I was looking for. So here I am, asking the trusty patrons of EF. HOW do you know you are squirting? Is it like when you are pregnant and you have contractions- where you just know it is happening? If that is the case I probably haven't done it.

I have "come" over and over again at times, and there have been times where I get that sensation like I am going to pee.. but I just keep going. I was watching a porno the other day where the girls , like, came but it looked like guy stuff... got a little confused as to whether or not that was considered squirting?
09/14/2010
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twistedheartsx twistedheartsx
Yeah, I'd like to know too. Like I have times where I cum and get a little more wet than usual, but I think that's just my bodily juices. All the squirting I've seen is like a freaking water hose lol.
09/14/2010
Airen Wolf Airen Wolf
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Originally posted by cherryredhead88
Just read through some threads, didn't really get the answer I was looking for. So here I am, asking the trusty patrons of EF. HOW do you know you are squirting? Is it like when you are pregnant and you have contractions- where you just know it ...
Generally it feels a lot like you are peeing, as the ejaculate is formed in the Urethera and comes out there. The difference between urine and female ejaculate is urine is usually yellow and slightly salty (smells like pee), while female ejaculate is clear and sweet tasting as well as smelling. If your bladder isn't totally empty you might expel a bit of urine but generally it's still clear, sweet tasting and might be slightly thicker than urine.

The best way to be sure it's ejaculation and not urination is to clear the bladder before G spot stimulation. You can be reasonably sure it's not pee then! Keep hydrated and lay down a towel cause the first time you really hit it you'll drench the area! Good luck.
09/14/2010
cherryredhead88 cherryredhead88
so it feels the same as if you were peeing? but i imagine it would be an orgasmic pee lol
09/14/2010
ScottA ScottA
Not sure what it feels like, but the result is much wetter than an "ordinary" orgasm. I can feel the water running down my legs and there's a very wet spot under me (when she's on top anyway) - that's why I got a Liberator Throe.
09/14/2010
SydVicious SydVicious
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Originally posted by cherryredhead88
so it feels the same as if you were peeing? but i imagine it would be an orgasmic pee lol
You can feel the release of the liquid, but it's not nearly as much as if you were peeing, I get almost a quick burst then that's about it.

As Airen said, lay down a towel.
09/15/2010
Gunsmoke Gunsmoke
This is a repeat of a posting I made on another thread - but seems applicable here;

Honestly I think the porn showing 'ejaculation' has exaggerated what is possible for most women. My wife calls her experience 'gushing' - because its more of a copious rush of lubrication than a male-esque ejaculation.

The mental picture she gets is that she's going to soak the bed. What actually happens depends on position.

If she's on her back or we're using the Liberator Wedge, he hips are tilted back and most of the gushing stays inside until we're done and she gets up - with the feeling of it running down her legs. Sounds a little gross - but remember she's just had a great series of orgasms and isn't about to little wetness ruin her glow.

If she's on top - cowgirl - the gushing will run down over me - eventually ending on our Liberator Throe - we never make love without it.

When I read these posts - I think many women are doing just fine - but they may be expecting too much. Just a thought!
09/15/2010
SydVicious SydVicious
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Originally posted by Gunsmoke
This is a repeat of a posting I made on another thread - but seems applicable here;

Honestly I think the porn showing 'ejaculation' has exaggerated what is possible for most women. My wife calls her experience 'gushing' - ...
Gunsmoke is correct. I don't like squirt across the room. It is more of a "gush". I can hear the release, and it usually feels like alot more than it really is.
09/16/2010
cherryredhead88 cherryredhead88
Thanks! I'm pretty sure I have before, but the more I have been reading has made me doubt it. I know I did last night That was the first time I actually tried to do it.. but now I know that, yes, I have done it before because I remember some times where I felt the same way.

And that makes a lot more sense, gunsmoke. I seem to forget that the majority of porn is unrealistic.
09/16/2010
Liz2 Liz2
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Originally posted by Airen Wolf
Generally it feels a lot like you are peeing, as the ejaculate is formed in the Urethera and comes out there. The difference between urine and female ejaculate is urine is usually yellow and slightly salty (smells like pee), while female ejaculate is ...
I agree 100% but I would add hydration and relaxing. If you pee prior, in all probability it is not pee but put a towel down to alleviate pee anxiety and the wetness from squirting. When I ejaculate a pleasurable sense comes over my entire body which I never get from just emptying my bladder...
09/16/2010
P'Gell P'Gell
Cherry, I think a lot of women have different experiences. I had my Bartholin Glands removed when I was 21, due to chronic infections, during an other gential-urinary surgery. I know I used to occasionally actually squirt (although not like in the pornos) before that. It's up for debate whether the Bartholin's Glands are involved or not, they are located at about 4:00 and 8:00 in your vagina, when you are lying on your back.

It seemed to make a difference with me, regarding ability to "squirt" when they were taken out. However, I didn't have any noticeable change in ability to lubricate, which is what is often feared, when this procedure is done. (We now know that the entire vagina "sweats" lubrication, it doesn't only come from 2 sets of glands, the Bartholin's Glands and the Skenes Glands. The Skenes glands are located close to the Bartholin's (if I remember my anatomy correctly) and seem to be more related to squirting. It appears, from both surgical procedures and dissections that not all women even have Skenes Glands, but this could be due to the fact that they are hard to find on cadavers, like many anatomical structures, when obviously not in use. I wonder now if, as they are so close, if my Skenes weren't removed as well.

I don't seem to actually squirt, but when I have a really really intense deep orgasm, with lots of G Spot stimulation (either a toy or My Man's hand in just the right spot) there is often a very concentrated, heavy wet spot on the bed. It seems to darken the sheets more than just plain lubrication, and if it doesn't land on a towel, it takes a while to dry. It has virtually no smell at all, but seems a little thicker than lubrication and definitely thicker than pee would be. One of us will see it (if it's morning and we're making love or the light is on) and comment that he must have hit my G Spot.

If it's at night, even if we don't see it, I have to sleep on a towel, because it's just TOO wet to sleep on. And, it is really different than a regular "Wet Spot."
09/16/2010
P'Gell P'Gell
Here's an interesting, not too clinical article with pictures about the glands.

Skene's Gland and "squiriting" stuff
09/16/2010
Gunsmoke Gunsmoke
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Originally posted by P'Gell
Here's an interesting, not too clinical article with pictures about the glands.

Skene's Gland and "squiriting" stuff
squirting for grad-students - thanks P'Gell
09/16/2010
P'Gell P'Gell
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Originally posted by Gunsmoke
squirting for grad-students - thanks P'Gell
You know I like to be thorough!
09/16/2010
Airen Wolf Airen Wolf
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Originally posted by P'Gell
You know I like to be thorough!
You know I just realized that's how I know it's G spot related and not a lack of control over my bladder muscles. I have to be careful to empty my bladder just after having a baby while the muscles heal up. When it's G spot the spot is darker and more concentrated and seems heavier somehow. I was a bit worried about it thinking that perhaps I was needing more Kegels but it smells sweet or has no odor even after dry...not what urine does! Also no crystalization like urine.
09/16/2010
P'Gell P'Gell
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Originally posted by Airen Wolf
You know I just realized that's how I know it's G spot related and not a lack of control over my bladder muscles. I have to be careful to empty my bladder just after having a baby while the muscles heal up. When it's G spot the spot is ...
That's exactly what mine is like. Seems pretty universal, I just don't actually "squirt." Usually, I need really intense penetration, G Spot etc, so it could be that either the toy or his hand or penis is "blocking" the squirt. But, I seem to remember it being more "squirty" before the surgery.

It still feels as good, so I'm not too bummed about it.
09/16/2010
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