Ladies, at what age did you have your first orgasm?

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Ladies, at what age did you have your first orgasm?

hybridinsurge hybridinsurge
I have not had an orgasm yet. (I'm 23.) I'm curious how long it took other women to have their first orgasm.
Answers (public voting - your screen name will appear in the results):
Under 18
socceras , - Kira - , PeachCandy , solitudinarian , Kitten has left the site , xcapricax , laflauta , MistressDandelion , KrissyNovacaine , cutiefairyprincess , darthkitt3n , P'Gell , mpfm , nope , SneakersAndPearls , panthercat23 , AK Bunny , SkylarrStarr , Oxalias , Undecided , bayosgirl , Heatherbipoly , Intrepid Niddering , wet mama , SMichelle , ShadowedSeductress , aluminummm , Megan McClure , Zandrock , Rey , MJ7 , Missmarc , skeeterlynn , ginainohio , icyqueen , PropertyOfPotter , Alyona , Vanille , Beck , mariedoll , pyratess , Meido , AverageSam , So Long Ya Doofuses! , brevado , sweetpea12 , glasskitten , Alyxx , Neotigress , SavingMyself , LoooveMonkey , Beautiful-Disaster , MadameErotique , karenm , bog , LavenderSkies , Andrey2052 , sunflower , LoveDrunk , Noelle , lilyflower
61  (73%)
19-25
PeaceToTheMiddleEast , Gracie , tortilla , AndroAngel , potstickers , JLster , mbrdr2012 , jr2012 , LAndJ , Lioncub , cburger , travelnurse , TheirPet , sweet and inocent , Sima-pusya , earthmama
16  (19%)
26-30
unfulfilled , Rory , Gone (LD29)
3  (4%)
31-40
41-50
Over 50
I haven't had an orgasm yet.
hybridinsurge , Deeder , FairyPrincess
3  (4%)
Total votes: 83
Poll is closed
07/27/2012
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socceras socceras
Try using running water, like in the bath tub. That's how I had my first. Put your fingers over the tap to make it come out harder.
07/27/2012
PeachCandy PeachCandy
I could have one at 13 solo, but not with a partner til I was about 15
07/27/2012
Kitten has left the site Kitten has left the site
I was very young, 10, when I even discovered it. But with a partner...19 -_- Figure that out...
07/27/2012
Deeder Deeder
27, and still working towards my first. I think I might be getting close, though.
07/27/2012
xcapricax xcapricax
I had my first at like 11 solo.
07/27/2012
laflauta laflauta
Quote:
Originally posted by socceras
Try using running water, like in the bath tub. That's how I had my first. Put your fingers over the tap to make it come out harder.
This was also how I had my first one. It's great because you can adjust the temperature and flow until you find what feels best.
07/28/2012
MistressDandelion MistressDandelion
I was four. It was solo, obviously...
07/28/2012
KrissyNovacaine KrissyNovacaine
Quote:
Originally posted by MistressDandelion
I was four. It was solo, obviously...
I was similar.
07/28/2012
cutiefairyprincess cutiefairyprincess
I had my first orgasm when I was like 17 playing with some cheap vibrator id bought. that vibrator broke after like 3 months
07/28/2012
hybridinsurge hybridinsurge
Wow, I didn't expect so many to have figured it out so early!
07/28/2012
nope nope
I was very very young like probably a small child honestly
08/03/2012
SneakersAndPearls SneakersAndPearls
17-ish, I think?
08/03/2012
panthercat23 panthercat23
I was like 11 or 12 when I first figured it out.
08/03/2012
unfulfilled unfulfilled
I'm in the category of older. I was 30 when I had my first clitoral orgasm and that was with a toy and I have NOT had a vaginal, blended, or g-spot yet. All I can say is don't ever give up, relax, don't stress about it, try to eat properly and exercise, and experiment around until you find out what works for you. My combination is I have to have an arousal gel, and a high powered vibe just to be able to achieve clitoral orgasm. I'm still trying to find the perfect combination on the vaginal.
08/03/2012
P'Gell P'Gell
I started having them in my sleep around 14 or 15, when I got interested in boys, probably.

I has my first one on my own at about 16, when I became sexually active and realized I had to figure this out for myself, so I could guide him. I had one with him, from oral sex a few weeks later.

It's not always easy. Last night, for example, I thought I was going to come nearly as soon as we started and it took me nearly an hour. I knew it would happen, so we didn't give up. Oddly, it took him an hour when we concentrated on him then and we ended up with a 3 1/2 hour marathon, without planning it.

We've been having sex with each other for many years, (I had my first orgasm with an other person with him) and it still is hard, once in a while. Frustrating, but we keep working on it.

It makes you thankful for the easy ones.
08/03/2012
AndroAngel AndroAngel
Had my first at 20, it was a G-spot orgasm, my lover has very talented fingers. My first solo orgasm was a few months after that. It took me longer to figure out clitoral orgasms.
08/03/2012
AK Bunny AK Bunny
Quote:
Originally posted by hybridinsurge
I have not had an orgasm yet. (I'm 23.) I'm curious how long it took other women to have their first orgasm.
Relax and explore yourself, it will come easier that way rather than pressuring yourself to O.
08/07/2012
SkylarrStarr SkylarrStarr
Not sure of the exact age, but from humping pillows and just getting a 'feeling' and knowing I wanted it again and again....
08/07/2012
Oxalias Oxalias
I was probably 12, no older than that I know, as it took me a few months to figure it out after I started at 11.
08/10/2012
Heatherbipoly Heatherbipoly
sounds weird but i was 6.
08/27/2012
Intrepid Niddering Intrepid Niddering
I was five.
08/27/2012
ShadowedSeductress ShadowedSeductress
I was about 8 or 9 and it was with some massage thing I had. At the time I didn't even know what it was just that I wanted to keep getting that feeling. First time with a partner was about a year maybe a year and a half after I fist started having sex. At that point I was probably 17.
08/30/2012
aluminummm aluminummm
Pretty sure I figured out how to orgasm around age 4 or 5. Didn't happen with a partner until I was about 23 though womp womp womp.
09/05/2012
FairyPrincess FairyPrincess
I'm 19 and I still haven't. There have been times when I thought it might have been it, but everyone says you'll know for sure. I think my problem with my guy is that after about 20 minutes of him working on me I start to feel bad and guilty, as if he is getting bored or needs to come soon. I need to work on relaxing, and I think I'm gonna try to work on it solo for a while.
09/06/2012
KinkyCouple KinkyCouple
I was 14, that was such a nice shower. lol
09/06/2012
Megan McClure Megan McClure
13 in the shower.
09/09/2012
Megan McClure Megan McClure
Quote:
Originally posted by KinkyCouple
I was 14, that was such a nice shower. lol
My first was awesome too!!
09/09/2012
jr2012 jr2012
I definitely did not O until I bought a vibrator. I was college age and just starting off with my first serious boyfriend...and disturbed I couldn't orgasm when with him. I learned on my own over a summer, and now sex is a real treat! I really think it's something you have to learn and practice with....you will get there!
09/10/2012
Rey Rey
it was in my early teens
09/10/2012
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