The first part of the pole is your current age, and the second part is the age you were when you had your fist non-clitoral orgasm.
Please feel free to elaborate on how common this is for you, if it only happened once, if you can only do it with a toy, with a partner, if you had to work hard at it (or not), et cetera.
(and men, you are of course welcome to answer for your partners if you truly know the answer)
Also, if anyone can tell me how to delete my previous poll, that would be fantastic! Thanks (and my apologies again).