Men: Can you have an orgasm without the jizz? Detailed description and how-to.

Howells Howells
I think it's a very interesting topic. I read some ebooks on this and tantric in general and I know and use 2 methods pretty well.

Method one.
Press your perineum at the time you are about to cum. You need to keep doing that for a little bit, but it's not necessary for the full length of the orgasm.
Pro: 100% effective, feeling is the same as normally, relaxed method.
Con: Good timing and proper pressure is required.

Method two.
I discovered this myself. It's about sort of keeping it back. This sounds bad but it isn't. If you have a developed pc muscle you can keep it flexed during orgasm and you won't have much fluids coming out. You don't have to flex too strong at all! I trained my PC a lot when I was younger. I'm able to hold it for a very long time.. Anyway, it's just as good as method one.
Pro: Handsfree, keeps you up better afterwards to do it again.
Con: Not 100% effective, not as relaxed as method one, you can "leak" in the next hours - not much more than if you were just aroused for some time.

By effective I mean whether or not you'll end up completely dry if done properly.

Common Pros:
- No cleanup required! No more hesitation when you ran out of tissues or condoms.
- You can cum in your girlfriends mouth without her needing to swallow or taste or receive anything. Method 1 is probably safer for this but both work.
- You can do this when you have pants on or the situation won't allow you to take the pants down and cleanup would be hard (On a long distance private bus at night with your gf on a dobule seat for example. True story.)
- You have a better chance of continuing without pause in any situation! If you do this with a condom you may continue towards your second orgasm without replacing the condom because it won't contain anything. Just master it before you try it live! Then you don't need to end the session.. maybe your girl wanted more but you came then it's over it's probably bad for her. Even more if you don't cuddle or help her to orgasm after you are done.
- Would make your fleshlight-like toy's cleanup much easier.

Common cons:
- I wouldn't do it often. It's just tiring on the long way. It's supposed to come out sometimes
- Next urination can be a bit funny. By funny I mean it comes off with urine and the texture will be, well, mixed. It won't be painful however just slower.
- Don't use it for birth control!

The question remains
Answers (public voting - your screen name will appear in the results):
Yes, method one.
Yes, method two.
Yes, I can do both.
Yes but I have an other method! And I'll tell you!
namelesschaos , Eugler
2  (10%)
I never heard of this.
emiliaa , lacybutton , oldman , melissa1973
4  (20%)
No, but I want to!
Gunsmoke , angel142stx , Stagger13 , jeangel246
4  (20%)
No and I don't want to.
married with children , Bonesdance , ColeDaddy , Hallmar82
4  (20%)
I don't see the point.
pinkcupcakes
1  (5%)
I think it's unnatural.
I'm a girl and I love the idea!
daniel and frances , cheetahpita , Chaotic Rantings , potstickers , Dusk
5  (25%)
I'm a girl and I don't like this.
Total votes: 20
Poll is closed
04/24/2011
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Gunsmoke Gunsmoke
I've read about it but never tried it. It would be interesting but I haven't had the desire to explore/experiment with it.
04/25/2011
MaryExy MaryExy
I'm undecided about whether I like the idea.
04/25/2011
namelesschaos namelesschaos
I could never get method one on your list to work, I've used method to. Although the main method I use isn't either I can have non-ejaculatory orgasms from a variety of stimulation. Putting a vibrator on the glans cause non-ejaculatory orgasm for me with 100% effectiveness, as does, nipple stimulation and anal.



For those that don't get why someone would do this. It is ejaculation not orgasm itself that has a refractory period in males, no refractory period = male multiple orgasm.
04/25/2011
Howells Howells
Quote:
Originally posted by namelesschaos
I could never get method one on your list to work, I've used method to. Although the main method I use isn't either I can have non-ejaculatory orgasms from a variety of stimulation. Putting a vibrator on the glans cause non-ejaculatory orgasm ... More
You have to press at a right spot I believe a "cable" like thing passing through there that you need to hold.

Well I tried the vibrator part you can read it in my review about the mona but the best I could get is a looong drumroll. Maybe I have to do something during that?

On the other hand then I don't get it why some master ejaculation wihout orgasm and how is that even possible. That is the contrary to what you said and I believe too.

Do you use a women's vibrator or something special?
04/25/2011
daniel and frances daniel and frances
Quote:
Originally posted by Howells
I think it's a very interesting topic. I read some ebooks on this and tantric in general and I know and use 2 methods pretty well.

Method one.
Press your perineum at the time you are about to cum. You need to keep doing that for a ... More
Daniel does this "accidentally" sometimes. I don't think he really knows HOW it happens. It's pretty awesome.
06/04/2011
Bonesdance Bonesdance
Call me old-fashioned, but I like my orgasms to coincide with ejaculation.
06/13/2011
emiliaa emiliaa
Sounds like it wouldn't feel like as much of a release--which is kinda the whole point of orgasming, aside from just feeling good! It would certainly be good if it helps keep you up afterwards, though, so I'll tell my boyfriend about it ^_~
08/23/2011
Gr8pumpkin Gr8pumpkin
Quote:
Originally posted by emiliaa
Sounds like it wouldn't feel like as much of a release--which is kinda the whole point of orgasming, aside from just feeling good! It would certainly be good if it helps keep you up afterwards, though, so I'll tell my boyfriend about it ^_~
I have been able to have orgasms without ejaculating frequently.
My method is to get to the point of inevibility, and stop thrusting or any other stimulation. I get contractions which are vigorous but not as strong as when I keep going for the climax.
I can usually do this several times until finally just can't stand it any more and have to go off.
Sometimes this works to my disadvantage as I will get too tender and then orgasm is impossible, but at least I do get some satisfaction, and no mess to clean up. If this happens, I am usually tender for a while too. AKA the dreaded "blue balls".
06/05/2013
Fluke Fluke
It sounds cool because you supposedly can keep on going without losing your boner like when you normally ejaculate. But the part where the semen goes into your urine weirds me out. Is that healthy? You are stopping your body's normal functioning and that doesn't sit well in my brain.
06/06/2013
Eugler Eugler
I do experiments about this topic once in a while.

I started in my late teens when I read in a book by Margo Anand about the point of a million bucks, which is located between scrotum and anus and has to be pressed in the moment of orgasm. This worked quite well, but I think I gained some urethra problems during excessive use of this technique (for maybe some years).

I also tried to get my pelvic floor muscles so strong to prevent ejaculation but this has never worked for me.

I heared about the technique of the big draw which seems to be a combination of sex and progressive muscle relaxation: you have sex / masturbate until almost orgasm and in this moment you contract every muscle in your body for a few seconds and release them all together. Sounds interesting to reach new levels of experience.

I really loved a modification of the start-stop-technique, which means having sex up to a certain level of arousal and then slowing down again. Like an undulation between two levels you feel comfortable, approaching level 9.8 closer and closer. (level 10 means ejaculatory orgasm)
The feeling were incredible: feeling charged and connected, like the partner was able to look through your eyes deeply into your heart and the feeling of an endless ejaculation. That’s the Taoist way.

I tried the tantric way once and I loved it, too. It’s the yab-yum, which means sun and moon. The male sits in the Lotus position or just in cross-legged and the female sits on his top. Both are in union and just focus on certain body parts. The female leads her attention to her breasts and the male focuses on the root chakra, the point between scrotum and anus.
And then you sit there and after a certain period of time energetic feelings arise. I tried this with one former girlfriends. After a time I got a feeling as if a fluid / energy was flowing from my penis into her yoni circulating up to her heart, entering mine, flowing down to my lingam and entering her yoni again. Loved it.

Unfortunately my girlfriends and now my wife aren’t / weren’t into that stuff and so I just have these few experiences to share.
06/07/2013
Hallmar82 Hallmar82
I've heard of such things before, but when I tried it, I didn't have any success and gave up on it.
06/07/2013
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