Men, orgasms and getting 'worn out'

Contributor: iceman681 iceman681
i guess im weird, i always feel motivated to do work.
09/15/2010
Contributor: Gunsmoke Gunsmoke
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Originally posted by iceman681
i guess im weird, i always feel motivated to do work.
Probably not as much as you did at 18 or 20 - and probably more now than when your 55+ - enjoy because it doesn't last forever. It's still great fun - it's just not as easy as it use to be!
09/15/2010
Contributor: Andromeda Andromeda
The bf is multiorgasmic. As in, there's no recuperation time for the first three, and after that he can be ready to go again in a minute or less. He tires me out long before he gets sleepy
09/19/2010
Contributor: namelesschaos namelesschaos
I voted that I have more then one orgasm per session and that I can come again and again and "this poll is beneath me". I'm multi orgasmic so two two are obvious. I voted this poll is beneath me because ejaculation and orgasm are two different things and in regards to the why do men get sleepy after sex it more ejaculation then orgasm it self that responsible
09/19/2010
Contributor: Coralbell Coralbell
My partner can ejaculate multiple times and continue with sex with no interruptions. I was surprised because in my past experience guys always went soft after an orgasm.
09/25/2010
Contributor: Avant-garde Avant-garde
I can go more than once about 50% of the time as long as I have adequate re coperation time.
09/25/2010
Contributor: alayamae alayamae
my baby can come a few times a day, he just needs a bit of time in between.
10/03/2010
Contributor: mrs.mckrakn mrs.mckrakn
i voted for both hubbie and i. he can come more than once but needs a min or so to get goin again. me after an orgasm, i get tired.
10/23/2010
Contributor: trios trios
Sometimes the orgasm is very deep. That's when I notice the feeling of "wellbeing" and relaxation occur. It is more like a sedated trance than falling asleep, although that may happen. This does not happen every time, but it does when I am more excited beforehand.
10/23/2010
Contributor: Sweet-Justice Sweet-Justice
I don't mind if there's names there.
I'm a women dating another women, and I can usually get off multiple times during sex.
10/23/2010
Contributor: SexyTabby SexyTabby
More then once is preferable for me but hubby is a once shot deal and yes, he rolls over and falls asleep lol There's times when he is able to go 2 or 3 times but usually needs a few minutes to breath. Very rarely does he stay hard and I can just keep on riding. When he's done he does roll away from me and sleep though. He isn't much of a cuddlier unless I make him. He's usually snoring before my tremors have even stopped (granted I tend to have them for a long time after sex is done and over)
10/23/2010
Contributor: BBW Talks Toys BBW Talks Toys
Like other wives, can't exactly answer for hubby, but lately, in this 30 year old time in my life where I'm more like a 17 year old boy, we are spending LOTS of time with each other. He can hold off his orgasm for almost 2 hours of foreplay and intercourse, so once we finish, we're spent.

And I am not a snuggler, so I am more likely to "roll over" than he is!
10/25/2010
Contributor: pinkzombie pinkzombie
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Originally posted by Red
So, not being a man, I cannot comment on this - but what's up with that phenomenon of "rolling over and falling asleep"? Do you only get one orgasm in a session or do you keep things rolling? Are you limited to one, usually, and just ... more
I am female and I get sleepy and exhausted after sex!
12/09/2010
Contributor: Naughty Student Naughty Student
Muy guy will sometimes roll over and sleep if he put a lot of effort in the session and his orgasm is the first he has had in a few days. He usually masturbates once a day soemtimes more, if he is bored. If we do it in the same day that he has masturbated he doesn't seem to be as sleepy, UNLESS the sex was intense, requiring a lot of effort.

Quickies don't seem to make him fall asleep.
12/09/2010
Contributor: moonch1ld moonch1ld
I never really fall asleep after an orgasm but sometimes I'm a bit tired if it's a long and very energetic session.
12/28/2010
Contributor: *HisMrs* *HisMrs*
I'm the one who rolls over and wants to go to sleep... Hubby on the other hand is wide awake!
01/19/2011
Contributor: Vaccinium Vaccinium
I don't actually roll over and fall asleep-- that would be my wife-- but I definitely need some time to recuperate after an orgasm. Part of it is that my penis is rather sore internally after an orgasm, and part of it is that my mood changes. I don't get depressed (thank goodness) after an orgasm like some of the poor souls in another thread on EF, but I have absolutely no interest in sex immediately after an orgasm. That's not to say I won't want to have sex-- and an orgasm-- again that day, but I need 15-30 minutes before the discomfort in my penis ebbs and my head clears.
01/19/2011
Contributor: LavenderSkies LavenderSkies
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Originally posted by El-Jaro
I also call it "Thumper Syndrome"
Lol!
01/19/2011
Contributor: Josh aka FootMan Josh aka FootMan
Usually we only go once but every few weeks we tend to get really horny horny for one reason or another and go at it three four times in a row.

When going multiple times, each orgasm tends to take a bit longer than the last, and they are usually slightly less intense than the first.

We prefer to take our time and prolong things through extended foreplay, rather than to go at it like jack rabbits over and over again all night - but to each his own.
01/20/2011
Contributor: dbtracy dbtracy
Sleep time after sexy time LOL.
01/22/2011
Contributor: Penguin Penguin
Lately my orgasms have kept me hard after. Usually when the orgasms are that good, I can keep going. You would think it would be the opposite.
01/22/2011
Contributor: emiliaa emiliaa
I voted for my love and myself--for him, I put that he can usually have more than one but needs a bit of time between, and that he also tries to think about other things (Pokemon, for him, oddly enough) to help keep him from cumming too soon. And I actually am FAR less resiliant than him. I'm female, and if I climax once, I roll over and fall asleep, 99% of the time, very very very few exceptions. Haha. either way I'm not usually up for sex again afterward, I'm just up for going to work or whatever I have to do.
08/23/2011
Contributor: The-IT-Guy-And-My-Secretary The-IT-Guy-And-My-Secretary
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Originally posted by Red
Found a fun article that gives the coffee table explanation of why this happens, biochemically (link).

They're possibly onto something with: "Men go to sleep because women don’t turn into a pizza." ... more
+1 Dave Navarro
08/23/2011
Contributor: BlackxxxRose BlackxxxRose
My partner and I are the same on this. As long as we have enough recoup time we can go again. It just depends on our mood.
08/24/2011
Contributor: newfoundlust newfoundlust
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Originally posted by Red
So, not being a man, I cannot comment on this - but what's up with that phenomenon of "rolling over and falling asleep"? Do you only get one orgasm in a session or do you keep things rolling? Are you limited to one, usually, and just ... more
It really depends on the time of day. At night one time and I am gone. Mornings or afternoon and with some interval time between I am ready to go repeatedly.
08/24/2011
Contributor: Harpina is gone Harpina is gone
My guy is good for at least 2 orgasms, as long as he has a little time to rest between them.
03/28/2012
Contributor: duff duff
When my hub and I were dating, hed cum a few times each session. Now its different, 4 yrs of marrage later, one time. He would put more effort into our love making back than.
03/28/2012
Contributor: Nkev Nkev
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Originally posted by Dragon
You shouldn't have names here!
its not that bad
03/29/2012
Contributor: Mr.RightNow Mr.RightNow
i need to recoup before round 2
03/29/2012
Contributor: PropertyOfPotter PropertyOfPotter
My husband, when he's not tired, can have several before he's "finished", but he usually gets two and then he's ready to crash!
03/29/2012