Do you have Orgasm Issues?

Contributor: llellsee llellsee
I'd have the odd day where its not happening as easy but generally I'm ok getting there.
12/27/2012
Contributor: lainebug lainebug
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Originally posted by Sweet-n-Playful
So I just finished reading and reviewing a book called "The Elusive Orgasm", which is a self-help guide for women who have issues reaching orgasm. So I was wondering, just how many ladies out there have experienced problems with this?
Nope
12/27/2012
Contributor: RonLee RonLee
I'm male and never had problems until just a couple of years ago. Ten years ago, two in one sex session was the fewest that I'd have. Now sometimes I just can't even have one. (grumble grumble)
12/27/2012
Contributor: CaliGirl CaliGirl
No problem at all
12/30/2012
Contributor: liljeepr liljeepr
Sometimes they come easy, sometimes with a lot of work, but most of the time, even with a lot of work, it just won't come. I know a lot of it is stress and I need to relax more.
01/07/2013
Contributor: Deeder Deeder
What orgasms? After five years being with my hubby and trying everything we can think of, I've still yet to experience one at all.
01/11/2013
Contributor: leilani leilani
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Originally posted by Sweet-n-Playful
So I just finished reading and reviewing a book called "The Elusive Orgasm", which is a self-help guide for women who have issues reaching orgasm. So I was wondering, just how many ladies out there have experienced problems with this?
sometimes my hubby gets a lil lazy but, everyone has an off day
01/15/2013
Contributor: nosrslylol nosrslylol
I tend to have no problem getting off.
01/18/2013
Contributor: shorejen9 shorejen9
Luckily I don't have issues with orgasms.
01/18/2013
Contributor: tovehunter tovehunter
Sometimes I'm not in the right headspace, sometimes I need a little extra something and sometimes I can't because I get a cramp! Most days I don't have too many problems..
01/18/2013
Contributor: tortilla tortilla
sometimes
01/18/2013
Contributor: Bethy Cassatt Bethy Cassatt
If I'm having a hard time, I orgasm once, but it's very rewarding and fulfilling. If I'm having a good day, it's easily seven to eight times in one cession. So... it's been a very long time that I have had sex and not reached orgasm.
01/18/2013
Contributor: anonymous1298304 anonymous1298304
I used to have trouble having an orgasm alone. but was fine with a partner. after being single for awhile i got to the point of being fairly efficient at getting there on my own, lol. now that i'm not single, but in a LDR, i'm back to being frustrated and having trouble getting off when i'm without him. I still have my solo time almost every day, i still enjoy it, but it doesn't leave me satisfied.
01/18/2013
Contributor: Xerobound Xerobound
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Originally posted by Sweet-n-Playful
So I just finished reading and reviewing a book called "The Elusive Orgasm", which is a self-help guide for women who have issues reaching orgasm. So I was wondering, just how many ladies out there have experienced problems with this?
I have a problem orgasming during sex....
01/27/2013
Contributor: captainsgirl captainsgirl
Quote:
Originally posted by Sweet-n-Playful
So I just finished reading and reviewing a book called "The Elusive Orgasm", which is a self-help guide for women who have issues reaching orgasm. So I was wondering, just how many ladies out there have experienced problems with this?
I was on a medication that affected it. I switched and it helped a little, but sometimes I have to work really hard for it.
01/30/2013
Contributor: P'Gell P'Gell
(Knock on wood) I'm doing OK now. I had never had problems with orgasm until I started premature perimenopause about 4 years ago. My hormones went haywire, and I had problems with orgasms. We found toys helped, but I also needed to go on hormone replacement therapy and it took more than a year for us to get the dose right and have me responding well and consistently.

As it is now, I simply can't reach a complete orgasm without a powerful vibrator, like the Wahl. But, we've worked it into our sex play, so that it works well. I never have an orgasm during PIV, unless I've just had one from oral and then the Wahl.

You do what you have to do to get what you need.

Happily, My Man is happy to do whatever it takes to get me there, as I am to help him. He's older (in his 50s) and he sometimes has erectile and orgasm issues, but we are both willing to always help the other out. So it works out.
01/30/2013
Contributor: Hummingbird Hummingbird
Used to be able to with a partner, now just by myself. Looking forward to the day having them again with a partner, got to get around some head issues though first.
01/30/2013
Contributor: anonymous1298304 anonymous1298304
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Originally posted by P'Gell
(Knock on wood) I'm doing OK now. I had never had problems with orgasm until I started premature perimenopause about 4 years ago. My hormones went haywire, and I had problems with orgasms. We found toys helped, but I also needed to go on hormone ... more
it's wonderful that the two of you are working together on it. so many couples don't communicate well when issues come up. i've heard so many stories esp related to menopause. so wow, now u got me thinking though, i'm 40 and i do feel like my hormones are going a bit wacky, i don't know why i didn't connect the two. maybe i will make an appt to see if it's perimenopause in my case too.so ty for sharing your story
01/30/2013
Contributor: JennSenn JennSenn
I haven't had an orgasm yet. At least not one that I can say "yeah, that was an orgasm!"
01/30/2013
Contributor: TheirPet TheirPet
I have to have very specific things done to me if I'm going to orgasm. I can't orgasm by oral alone.
01/30/2013
Contributor: IvyFayette IvyFayette
Most of the time I need strong clitoral stimulation to be able to orgasm. I've only had a g-spot orgasm 2 times.
01/30/2013
Contributor: falalena falalena
Quote:
Originally posted by Sweet-n-Playful
So I just finished reading and reviewing a book called "The Elusive Orgasm", which is a self-help guide for women who have issues reaching orgasm. So I was wondering, just how many ladies out there have experienced problems with this?
i have to be extremely horny in order to have an orgasm during intercourse. it is like my clit goes into hiding. so frustrating.
01/30/2013
Contributor: Trixxxy Trixxxy
I can't orgasm from penetration or rubbing with fingers. Vibrator or a tongue has to be involved.
01/30/2013
Contributor: happywaffle34 happywaffle34
Quote:
Originally posted by Sweet-n-Playful
So I just finished reading and reviewing a book called "The Elusive Orgasm", which is a self-help guide for women who have issues reaching orgasm. So I was wondering, just how many ladies out there have experienced problems with this?
i hear it is really hard for some women but luckily i have not
01/30/2013
Contributor: Marie Hanna Marie Hanna
Quote:
Originally posted by Sweet-n-Playful
So I just finished reading and reviewing a book called "The Elusive Orgasm", which is a self-help guide for women who have issues reaching orgasm. So I was wondering, just how many ladies out there have experienced problems with this?
I've never had any problems.
01/30/2013
Contributor: fizzygato fizzygato
Sometimes I can't orgasm when I masturbate, but it's mostly because I'm too tired. Same for doing it with a partner.

I feel like in general it's harder for me to orgasm with other people, but I've often been told it's "because every time I've done it it was with someone I didn't love." Idk, they were with strangers. I'm personally unsure on that, and have yet to find out.

It's possible it was because there was no "love" aspect, but I personally felt like they treated me in a caring manner so idk why love should matter
01/30/2013
Contributor: Genderfree Genderfree
I'm not a "lady", per se, but I am having a really hard time orgasming from toys inside of me or someone else. Honestly, I'm tired of clitoral orgasms, they are very shallow for me, and I'd rather have a whole-body orgasm.
01/31/2013
Contributor: brevado brevado
My only issue is when's the next one?!
02/01/2013
Contributor: doowop doowop
I have issues having clitoral orgasms with a partner, and g spot orgasms alone. It's frustrating.
02/01/2013
Contributor: Kitka Kitka
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Originally posted by Mrs.Tee
When i was younger i did. Now that im older and know my body alot better I dont, but i still have my off days, as everybody does.
Same for me actually, definitely have my off days but mostly I don't have a problem with it anymore.
02/01/2013