Orgasms : Slow it down or Get there quick?

Contributor: Girly Girl Girly Girl
take it longer and slow it´s better for me and him
12/07/2011
Contributor: MeliPixie MeliPixie
I'll take it either way. (That sounds desperate!) I can come in many different ways, so it's no big deal how I get there, as long as the journey was fun!
12/07/2011
Contributor: Sublime Sublime
I was going to say slower because the buildup adds to the climax for me.

But then all the depends on my mood posts got me think, and I pretty much agree. Every once in a while I just want to get it out asap.
12/07/2011
Contributor: kittychilla kittychilla
i've never really taken it slow. i like to get to it quickly..haha.
12/08/2011
Contributor: lost686girl lost686girl
Quote:
Originally posted by Nissa Nissa
I'm sure everyone has a preference as far as the speed they achieve orgasms. Slow and steadily built up (for me) seem more intense as opposed to the quick and rough ones. Which do you prefer?
i like to take my time :3
12/09/2011
Contributor: Apirka Apirka
I usually go for the quick release. Though I do wish I could slow it down and take my time.
03/11/2012
Contributor: icyqueen icyqueen
Both,depending on my mood.
03/11/2012
Contributor: calliope calliope
Both depends on my mood how much time I have if I'm having sex with my hubby ect...
03/11/2012
Contributor: garylangworthy420 garylangworthy420
definitely slow
03/12/2012
Contributor: C-Rae C-Rae
That's a mood based thing but usually fast
03/13/2012
Contributor: MistressDandelion MistressDandelion
What is slow and what is quick? Heh. I tend to come quite quick doing nothing, so even if I want to take it slowly it doesnt work all the time. But then again I like fighting it and then giving in at the last minute.
03/30/2012
Contributor: mistressg mistressg
Kind of depends.
03/30/2012
Contributor: Bethy Cassatt Bethy Cassatt
Depends on the time of day and how frisky he is.
04/01/2012
Contributor: duff duff
Depends on my mood
09/08/2012
Contributor: SecretKinksters SecretKinksters
Depends on my mood
09/08/2012
Contributor: brevado brevado
All depends on the moment
09/08/2012
Contributor: sugar&spikes sugar&spikes
slow
09/08/2012
Contributor: edenguy edenguy
Quote:
Originally posted by Nissa Nissa
I'm sure everyone has a preference as far as the speed they achieve orgasms. Slow and steadily built up (for me) seem more intense as opposed to the quick and rough ones. Which do you prefer?
Definately slow build, foreplay produces better results.
09/08/2012
Contributor: AliMc AliMc
I voted for both because depends on how I'm feeling at the time and any other circumstances, like if I don't have much time to spare.
09/08/2012
Contributor: Megan McClure Megan McClure
Teasing is the way to go!! Take it slow, stop & start...get closer, stop & start, get closer...STOP!!
09/09/2012
Contributor: Abovetheclouds Abovetheclouds
I've always been into having extended foreplay so I like it slow but I can do fast if necessary.
09/09/2012
Contributor: jr2012 jr2012
I usually opt to have one quick orgasm when I play alone or have sex with my SO....and then if I have time/energy I can take my time for a second or more Orgasm. Nice!
09/10/2012
Contributor: Rey Rey
love it nice and slow sometimes, especially with oral.

But sometimes if i am already pretty turned on, i like to get off quick
09/10/2012
Contributor: ksparkles16 ksparkles16
depends...usually slow but sometimes fast.
09/10/2012
Contributor: Gr8pumpkin Gr8pumpkin
Quote:
Originally posted by teachmetouchme
Do any of you notice that almost NO men respond to these sex related polls unless they specifically have to do with their dicks? Can you spell "selfish"?

Here only 2 out of 27 respondants are male (identified). That is less than 4% ... more
Maybe guys are a numerical minority on the site, could explain lower posting volumes.
I’m a guy, and must be an anomaly, I almost prefer giving my lover her pleasure more than the other way around. The simple fact that she is lucky enough to be multi-orgasmic just is fuel to make me want to give her all the pleasure she wants. Many times I don’t even get off at all, and I’m fine with that. I know she loves me and will be sure I get my time too.
Indeed, the very first time we were physical romantically, I just gave her some nice slow oral, and let that be the that. She had not had a lover in several years at that point. I did not want to push things that early, I knew we had time to catch up later.
06/12/2019
Contributor: Gunsmoke Gunsmoke
Quote:
Originally posted by Gr8pumpkin
Maybe guys are a numerical minority on the site, could explain lower posting volumes.
I’m a guy, and must be an anomaly, I almost prefer giving my lover her pleasure more than the other way around. The simple fact that she is lucky enough to be ... more
Gr8pumpkin - I'm with you 110%. As a guy who struggles to have even 1 orgasm (age related issues) I relish the ability to provide my wife with multiples. Luckily for me, she's more than happy for my attentiveness to her needs.
06/12/2019
Contributor: madame macbeth madame macbeth
Quote:
Originally posted by Nissa Nissa
I'm sure everyone has a preference as far as the speed they achieve orgasms. Slow and steadily built up (for me) seem more intense as opposed to the quick and rough ones. Which do you prefer?
this is a depends on my mood and how much time I have for solo play.
10/31/2019
Contributor: frisky069 frisky069
Quote:
Originally posted by Nissa Nissa
I'm sure everyone has a preference as far as the speed they achieve orgasms. Slow and steadily built up (for me) seem more intense as opposed to the quick and rough ones. Which do you prefer?
I like both, I get off multiple times during sex, or using a vibrator. If I'm playing with myself I'll take it slow, then after that I'll get off a few times rather quick. During sex I like to get off quick, then maybe take the next one or two slower
11/01/2019