Same sex instructor?

shepegs shepegs
Would you allow someone of your same sex to be you sexual tutor / instructor? It would include assisting and teaching you techniques personally and in some cases perform them on you. Lol. This is a crazy question.
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No
36
Other
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Total votes: 149 (148 voters)
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07/01/2010
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kck kck
Personally, I'd prefer to have a woman instruct me on techniques. I think it's important to have someone teach you from experience. I personally don't think a man would be able to tell me what would feel good on me, as a woman So, yes, I'd prefer a same-sex instructor.

BUT, by the same token, I wouldn't like having my same-sex instructor perform the techniques on me. I'd be more okay with her showing me/my partner the ropes
07/02/2010
~LaUr3n~ ~LaUr3n~
Nope, I truly believe I am my best teacher and I wouldn't want someone else instructing me on how to use my own body.
07/02/2010
ScottA ScottA
Depends on what you mean by "instructor". Someone giving me tips and pointers via e-mail or on a forum (or similar) OK, wouldn't matter what sex they were.

Having someone there in my bedroom watching and telling me how to do stuff no way - that's just for my wife and me. So I guess in a way it wouldn't mater there, either, since the answer would be "no" for an instructor of either sex. Likewise "performing on you" would be a huge no unless the instructor was my wife.
07/02/2010
shepegs shepegs
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Originally posted by ScottA
Depends on what you mean by "instructor". Someone giving me tips and pointers via e-mail or on a forum (or similar) OK, wouldn't matter what sex they were.

Having someone there in my bedroom watching and telling me how to do ... More
I know right. It's a stupid question but heck, it gets people talking.
07/02/2010
Hazel Hazel
Quote:
Originally posted by shepegs
Would you allow someone of your same sex to be you sexual tutor / instructor? It would include assisting and teaching you techniques personally and in some cases perform them on you. Lol. This is a crazy question.
Well, since I already prefer to have sex with women... does this apply to me? In fact, I would love that!
07/03/2010
trios trios
I put 'other' as my option. Basically, I would love to have instructors show and do lots of different things, like how to have threesomes, oral sex, BDSM, roleplaying...I guess everything. But my wife forbids us from anyone joining us, so the answer is really 'no'. Nice fantasy tho!
07/11/2010
SexyySarah SexyySarah
It doesn't make a difference to me, I enjoy the female body, I'm not a les, but I would consider myself bi-curious. So either is fine!
07/18/2010
Airen Wolf Airen Wolf
If I felt I needed help or that the person had something to offer me then I wouldn't care if it was male or female, though I will admit both guys have differing opinions on that. Sigel would love to see either male or female and arch would prefer a female. Then again it's not really their choice is it? LOL
07/18/2010
fatesrelease fatesrelease
I would prefer to have an instructor of the same sex but I would not be comfortable with them doing the things to me.
07/18/2010
Midway through Midway through
I think I could do either, but I'd have to really know the person well. My preference would go towards women, and preferably a woman that I was super open with and felt really comfortable asking questions around.
07/19/2010
Lustful Dreams Lustful Dreams
I think this would be a great deal of fun.
07/26/2010
Lustful Dreams Lustful Dreams
I think this would be a great deal of fun.
07/26/2010
deltalima deltalima
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Originally posted by SexyySarah
It doesn't make a difference to me, I enjoy the female body, I'm not a les, but I would consider myself bi-curious. So either is fine!
Same here.
08/19/2010
PurpleBerry PurpleBerry
No, experience is the best teacher.
09/13/2010
Viktor Vysheslav Malkin Viktor Vysheslav Malkin
Quote:
Originally posted by shepegs
Would you allow someone of your same sex to be you sexual tutor / instructor? It would include assisting and teaching you techniques personally and in some cases perform them on you. Lol. This is a crazy question.
Dont think performing them on me is an option, but nothing is wrong with info.
10/12/2010
Dusk Dusk
I think this would be useful, but I'm not sure I could be comfortable with the idea.
10/13/2010
Naughty Student Naughty Student
I would. I mean I am still discovering things about myself and if someone could teach me a cool technique or my partner a cool technique that would be good too. I am female and wouldn't mind having a female instructor, actually its probably what I would prefer.
10/15/2010
mrs.mckrakn mrs.mckrakn
sound like something a doctor should do, so if that were the case i dont care. however i wouldnt allow someone else to perfrom anything on me.
10/15/2010
Sweet-Justice Sweet-Justice
I would prefer it!
But I would have no problem with the opposite sex either, I'm open.
10/23/2010
LavenderSkies LavenderSkies
I have no problem with it, I'd prefer it.
11/25/2010
LikeSunshineDust LikeSunshineDust
I'd definitely feel more comfortable with a female instructor than male, but I'm not sure how she's teach me things to improve my sexual ability by performing on me... Really doesn't make sense. Maybe she could be J's instructor.
12/06/2010
PropertyOfPotter PropertyOfPotter
I'd rather learn by experience, and would NEVER let someone of the same sex do anything to me.
12/08/2010
pinkzombie pinkzombie
Quote:
Originally posted by shepegs
Would you allow someone of your same sex to be you sexual tutor / instructor? It would include assisting and teaching you techniques personally and in some cases perform them on you. Lol. This is a crazy question.
A woman for sure!
12/09/2010
The Awesome Penguin The Awesome Penguin
Depends on which acts would be "performed on me"
12/29/2010
UnknownGirl UnknownGirl
I think that it would be fun. I think it would be more with an opposite sex instructor, though.
01/02/2011
BadassFatass BadassFatass
I think I'd be comfortable with someone of either sex, really.
01/04/2011
hive83 hive83
Quote:
Originally posted by shepegs
Would you allow someone of your same sex to be you sexual tutor / instructor? It would include assisting and teaching you techniques personally and in some cases perform them on you. Lol. This is a crazy question.
No way.
01/04/2011
SexyTabby SexyTabby
I don't think an instructor would be beneficial to me. I'd rather learn and share with my Hubby. No room for others besides I think outta the box enough for both of us
01/04/2011
That Guy That Guy
I think this question might make more sense if directed at women, but I really don't see that a guy could teach me tricks by demonstrating them on me even if I wanted him to. I certainly wouldn't be turned on by the idea, but I guess if it'd turn me into some kind of sexual superhero, I might consent to it.
01/13/2011
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